Hi,
Have an ex who had exactly the same thing.....
Not sure on the best advice....if she cums quickly through penetration then obviously go for more forplay but if its all the time then not sure what to suggest.
I agree their is nothing wrong with a quickie but you dont want them everyday!!
Join the most popular community of UK swingers now
Login
Why does she cum so quick?
Sex God
Quote by doctor69
Once she has cum, she does not want to carry on, because she says its painfull or sometimes too much for her, she will pleasure me if i have not cum but thats not what i want! any ideas?
:idea:
I believe it's much the same as a man not wanting the head of his penis to be touched straight after he's cum....
Are you still trying to play with her clit once she's cum? If so then I'd suggest moving on to other areas :twisted: and having intercourse etc. If this is what you're already doing then I'm really not sure
Us girls are lucky in that we can have multiple orgasms (who said God was a man?!) but sometimes we need a bit of a break in between because it really is too much to try for another straight after the first. We have lots of other erogenous zones you know ;) 
Sex God
Quote by
Nope, sorry...Can't see the problem.
Have you never heard that it is always Ladies first?
I think the problem is that if she cums after 5 or 10 mins she then doesn't want to carry on. Not everyone wants a 10 minute sex/lovemaking session - I certainly don't anyway :twisted:
Quote by doctor69
Help......
I have a slight problem with my future wife! the problem is she cums really quick - Your thinking thats not a problem!
The problem is, 50% of the time she will cum within 5 - 10 mins, Then i am under preasure to cum, I can cum just like that but its not as nice for me,
Once she has cum, she does not want to carry on, because she says its painfull or sometimes too much for her, she will pleasure me if i have not cum but thats not what i want! any ideas?
:idea:
You will have to learn to recognise the signs she gives of when she is building up to her orgasm and then calm her down .. ease off with the stimulation for her and keep her from cumming so soon, then you will have more fun before she wants completion.
Some women become hyper sensitive once they orgasm and can't continue so its up to both of you to raise the temperature ever so slowly so you get enough play time before it all gets too much for her.
Well either that or ask her if she has a sister or best mate you can play with once she has had enough of you
DD
ops: :oops: I always tend to find that once ive orgasmed I cant have direct clitoral contact straight if im on top we move to a different position so we can carry on.
Try just changing positions so that there isnt any clitoral contact straight after she's orgasmed,like from behind and see if that works for me :twisted:
Try just changing positions so that there isnt any clitoral contact straight after she's orgasmed,like from behind and see if that works for me :twisted:
Here's a though, now obviously i don't know you so have no idea of what you get upto in the bedroom but.....
what about if shes 'does' you first, scrap the 69
take it in turns, shes does oral on you first during whch time you do not touch her then you can have your go after.....just a though sorry if it already been tryed :lol:
what about if shes 'does' you first, scrap the 69
take it in turns, shes does oral on you first during whch time you do not touch her then you can have your go after.....just a though sorry if it already been tryed :lol: Quote by naughtynymphos1
Here's a though, now obviously i don't know you so have no idea of what you get upto in the bedroom but.....
what about if shes 'does' you first, scrap the 69
"Can have your go" ?
They dont call u naughty but romantic nymphos for nothing do they ?
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Quote by naughtynymphos1
Here's a though, now obviously i don't know you so have no idea of what you get upto in the bedroom but.....
what about if shes 'does' you first, scrap the 69
Maybe she prefers to cum first?
Quote by chris86
Here's a though, now obviously i don't know you so have no idea of what you get upto in the bedroom but.....
what about if shes 'does' you first, scrap the 69
Maybe she prefers to cum first?
in that case bugger him :lol:
Quote by blonde
Here's a though, now obviously i don't know you so have no idea of what you get upto in the bedroom but.....
what about if shes 'does' you first, scrap the 69 :lol: take it in turns, shes does oral on you first during whch time you do not touch her then you can have your go after.....just a though sorry if it already been tryed :lol:
"Can have your go" ?
The dont call u naughty but romantic nymphos for nothing do they ?
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Though you knew me by now :lol:
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: 
Quote by doctor69
nice message...
I sent her a few txt's telling her what we are going to do tonight.
I said how about you give me a blow job while we watch some porn, this will get her going but not enough to cum, then she can have a play with her toys for a bit and keep stopping when she feels the urge, ( this way she has control )
Then i can enter her from behind and play with her clit and we can both cum.
She replied, why don't i just play with myself whilst you are tied to the bed, if you are lucky i will remove your blind so you can see the porn, i may even suck your cock - but then again i may just sit on your face when im about to cum then go downstairs and tidy up!
I'm pleased to see the art of romance hasnt died!
Quote by doctor69
nice message...
I sent her a few txt's telling her what we are going to do tonight.
I said how about you give me a blow job while we watch some porn, this will get her going but not enough to cum, then she can have a play with her toys for a bit and keep stopping when she feels the urge, ( this way she has control )
Then i can enter her from behind and play with her clit and we can both cum.
She replied, why don't i just play with myself whilst you are tied to the bed, if you are lucky i will remove your blind so you can see the porn, i may even suck your cock - but then again i may just sit on your face when im about to cum then go downstairs and tidy up!
ahhhh you old romantic you
Had exactly the same problem with my ex....
most important thing we found, was lots and lots and lots and lots,,,,,of foreplay .....
then as far as penetrative sex goes, don't go for it hammer and tongs after, and when she does come,,,,don't pull out......just lie there cuddling or something, but don't pull out...
well in her case had to do this as she swole slightly around her labia and this made further penetration painful...so if you just stay inside,,,,,,she'll wamr up again slowly, so to speak :shock:
worked for us :P ......but did limit things a bit occasionally
most important thing we found, was lots and lots and lots and lots,,,,,of foreplay .....
then as far as penetrative sex goes, don't go for it hammer and tongs after, and when she does come,,,,don't pull out......just lie there cuddling or something, but don't pull out...
well in her case had to do this as she swole slightly around her labia and this made further penetration painful...so if you just stay inside,,,,,,she'll wamr up again slowly, so to speak :shock:
worked for us :P ......but did limit things a bit occasionally
Sex God
trust me, a few years into the relationship when a rather nice cheese and pickle sandwich in front of the telly becomes nearly as desirable, you will see this as an assett and not a problem.
......
Sex God
Quote by doctor69do the tidy up bit first
nice message...
I sent her a few txt's telling her what we are going to do tonight.
I said how about you give me a blow job while we watch some porn, this will get her going but not enough to cum, then she can have a play with her toys for a bit and keep stopping when she feels the urge, ( this way she has control )
Then i can enter her from behind and play with her clit and we can both cum.
She replied, why don't i just play with myself whilst you are tied to the bed, if you are lucky i will remove your blind so you can see the porn, i may even suck your cock - but then again i may just sit on your face when im about to cum then go downstairs and tidy up!
