Having been on the site for over a year, I am amazed at the number of couples who place an add requesting to meet males for threesome fun but never respond to an approach even if it is to say no thanks. I appreciate couples must get loads of requests but they should expect a large volume of replys? Manners don't cost anything and a little courtesy is required.
Am I the only one....???
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Why don''t people ever reply
Sex God
Nope... there's been hundreds before you! 
It's part and parcel of being a single bloke I suspect. However, I've recently placed an advert and I have received all sorts of replies from people way outwith the specifics I've asked for.
I do reply to everyone, I've had some lovely conversations with some people who are not in my age preferences and who live at the other end of the country. In fact, someone asked me to marry them on Friday... bless. I generally have no intention of meeting people who aren't local to me but there's no reason for me not to reply.
Not everyone has the time or the inclination to do that though, I should definitely get out more, and if you haven't read the advert and profile properly yet you still send mail but are not within the specific criteria then I can't say I blame them for not responding. I've deleted a shedload of winks. It says in my profile that this is what I do so I'm not going to feel bad about that.
I guess you pick yourself up, you dust yourself off and you respond to someone else. Whinging about it here probably isn't going to make people respond, it might make you feel any better for having got if off your chest. The time spent posting this could have been time spent responding to another advert that maybe, just maybe you'll get a response from.
Or feel free to hang around and waste some more time talking bollox in the forums like the rest of us reprobates! :thumbup:
It's part and parcel of being a single bloke I suspect. However, I've recently placed an advert and I have received all sorts of replies from people way outwith the specifics I've asked for.
I do reply to everyone, I've had some lovely conversations with some people who are not in my age preferences and who live at the other end of the country. In fact, someone asked me to marry them on Friday... bless. I generally have no intention of meeting people who aren't local to me but there's no reason for me not to reply.
Not everyone has the time or the inclination to do that though, I should definitely get out more, and if you haven't read the advert and profile properly yet you still send mail but are not within the specific criteria then I can't say I blame them for not responding. I've deleted a shedload of winks. It says in my profile that this is what I do so I'm not going to feel bad about that.
I guess you pick yourself up, you dust yourself off and you respond to someone else. Whinging about it here probably isn't going to make people respond, it might make you feel any better for having got if off your chest. The time spent posting this could have been time spent responding to another advert that maybe, just maybe you'll get a response from.
Or feel free to hang around and waste some more time talking bollox in the forums like the rest of us reprobates! :thumbup:
Because its soul destroying telling someone why you arent attracted to them. I hate when they keep mailing and trying so hard but I really dont want to have any sex with them.
A simple no thanks would be great, if only ppl would leave it at that , but often times they dont. I wish admin would do a thanks but no thanks instant response .
A simple no thanks would be great, if only ppl would leave it at that , but often times they dont. I wish admin would do a thanks but no thanks instant response .
Orgasminator
For me, I'm not too bothered if told the reason why or not - what grates on my nerves is when people "drag it out" like carrot-and-stick for months on end (chat rooms, emails, msn, phone, in clubs and at socials) but never actually saying "Yes" or "No" and (eventually) when you've had enough waiting and decide to move on, they say 2Oh, you should have simply come and got me".
Great - except I was "waiting to be invited" as I clearly remember several of such profiles saying "Don't be pushy". Weird world.
Great - except I was "waiting to be invited" as I clearly remember several of such profiles saying "Don't be pushy". Weird world.
Sexlightened
I have the following on my profile
"If you send a message and dont get a reply its because you havent read the profiles properly.
And winks will be deleted".
This way it means I have the time to answer the people who have bothered to read my profile and send a proper message
"If you send a message and dont get a reply its because you havent read the profiles properly.
And winks will be deleted".
This way it means I have the time to answer the people who have bothered to read my profile and send a proper message
Quote by welikesinglemen
Because its soul destroying telling someone why you arent attracted to them. I hate when they keep mailing and trying so hard but I really dont want to have any sex with them.
A simple no thanks would be great, if only ppl would leave it at that , but often times they dont. I wish admin would do a thanks but no thanks instant response .
couldnt have said better myself :shock:
excellent response
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Sex God
we get lots that want to meet.... but we not got the time to meet one at a time.... so when a london social cums up we mail them all to let them know we r going,,,,, norm 3 out of 30 do turn up,,,,
nice to put a face to a name... n have a chat n see how things go,,,
nice to put a face to a name... n have a chat n see how things go,,,
Sex God
maybe their ad says only peeps with pics??and you`re replying with no pic ...
