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why dont people reply to replies .....................
Sexpert
Because, people are picky, choosy, and probably not that genuine. Im going to go to the next social in my area, as I think its a better way hopefully to meet the people who are hopefully none of the above.
As an aside, if I dont meet the full criteria of what people are looking for, I just dont bother, it seems to be pointless.
Just keep trying, I do
As an aside, if I dont meet the full criteria of what people are looking for, I just dont bother, it seems to be pointless.
Just keep trying, I do
When I was a single chappy no one ever replied to my ad's either :cry: prehaps there is a shortage of replies. Say each member is only issued with a dozen replie pages a month 
Serious answer couples and fems get those many replies to ad's it takes up a hell of a lot of time to reply to them all and frankly is not do'able so unfortuantely soem get left by the way side
Serious answer couples and fems get those many replies to ad's it takes up a hell of a lot of time to reply to them all and frankly is not do'able so unfortuantely soem get left by the way side
Quote by Rising
Because, people are picky, choosy, and probably not that genuine. Im going to go to the next social in my area, as I think its a better way hopefully to meet the people who are hopefully none of the above.
Not true.
Quote by Rising
As an aside, if I dont meet the full criteria of what people are looking for, I just dont bother, it seems to be pointless.
True.
Sexpert
Probably not interested, would be a better word.
Quote by Rising
Because, some people are picky, choosy, and probably not that genuine. Im going to go to the next social in my area, as I think its a better way hopefully to meet the people who are hopefully none of the above.
As an aside, if I dont meet the full criteria of what people are looking for, I just dont bother, it seems to be pointless.
Just keep trying, I do
of course there are some very genuine people here.........but considering how many members there are on this site,some may not be genuine, i think thats a perfectly reasonable thing to say.
the bits ive highlighted in green? :thumbup: you seem to have got the idea Rising, good luck
Sex God
They're too busy shagging the successful applicants
sorry I didnt reply to your PM Meaty 
ops: Sex God
thats ok, it's rude to talk with your mouth full :giggle:
We used to get loads of replies to ad,but most hadn't read the profile and where single guys,so we obviously didn't bother even thinking of replying to did send replies to all the cpls that responded to our ad even if to say no thanks,but then some of them get a bit funny with example saying "we didnt really want you anyway" or "do you think you are too good for us etc".
So sometimes we couldn't win,so have taken ad off and now use forum and chat more
So sometimes we couldn't win,so have taken ad off and now use forum and chat more
And of course the other usual reason...the reply is a wink so why put in the effort to compose a response, even a "no", to it?
Of course anyone sending winks isn't going to understand this point because they obviously think a wink is as good as a nod and aren't going to be putting the effort into reading the forums to discover that it isn't.
Of course anyone sending winks isn't going to understand this point because they obviously think a wink is as good as a nod and aren't going to be putting the effort into reading the forums to discover that it isn't.
Sex God
well we are polite and give out replys but wont reply to any one who send emails who dont read what we after if they dont read it all through why should we take time to reply to the other day had 1 who was not what we were looking for9wanted more what was on offer) and when we did reply with a no thanks we got one back saying "well at least thats a big escape for me as i saw your pics" well shows what he was really like then dont it ,ok but now on ignore his loss ,
Everyone knows the photo ads are not real 
Of course you won't get a reply to your PM's, as the people you are sending them to do not exist - well some do - but they are only here to perv at the photos and have no interest in meeting anyone.
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Of course you won't get a reply to your PM's, as the people you are sending them to do not exist - well some do - but they are only here to perv at the photos and have no interest in meeting anyone.
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Yeah I get pretty irritated with people not replying, but I guess it's cause they get so many boring one liners that they can't be arsed. I always make a point of writing more than one line and make each response individual. I think there's too many men on here who just perv over the pics, it's just annoying that for someone like me who's genuine and not pushy finds it hard to meet people cause of time wasters.
Quote by Smoky
Yeah I get pretty irritated with people not replying, but I guess it's cause they get so many boring one liners that they can't be arsed. I always make a point of writing more than one line and make each response individual. I think there's too many men on here who just perv over the pics, it's just annoying that for someone like me who's genuine and not pushy finds it hard to meet people cause of time wasters.
Here-here!
I think you should write a letter of complaint
I have a very hectic day job that requires a lot of time and concentration ... even to thepoint that I usually do a lot of work at home too. So I now try to set aside one day a week for going through my emails to reply, discard or report ( !!! ) them. I know this seems clinical and cold but its just what I have to do that works for me. So if someone sends me an email and gets crabby because I dont reply right away then I guess we have already established that they have no patience. I do make a point of emailing everyone even if its to say 'thanks but no thanks' However, there are exceptions to this and they are:
Winks.
Profiles with NO info at all.
Profiles with ONLY cock shots/pussy shots.
Emails that are crude and nasty.
Emails that ask questions which prove you havent even read my profile.
Emails from my boss telling me to do some damn work.
Winks.
Profiles with NO info at all.
Profiles with ONLY cock shots/pussy shots.
Emails that are crude and nasty.
Emails that ask questions which prove you havent even read my profile.
Emails from my boss telling me to do some damn work.
Sex God
Quote by redpantherman
I've just replied to a reply to one of my replies - so it does happen...!! :P
G xx
Writing to yourself doesn't count!!!
:wink:
No wonder I never got a shag from me!
you sure? :wanker:
