i didnt even know the scene existed, i was directed to this site by someone i was chatting to on a friends site, it was free at the time so i came for a nosey round, and have never got back out yet :shock:
as a single female the quick shag is there if it want it, so is the regular fuck buddy, but the best part has to be all the friends i have made, a few of whom have become very special close friends.
Earthy xx
We joined here via someone we were swinging with from another site. We had no real expectations from the site other than to meet couples and have some sexy fun.
Our marriage is 100% stable. We decided about 3 years ago after much pillow talk about my bi-curiosity to venture a little further with our sex life. This ended up with us joining a club and going down to La Chambre. The visit to the club was purely for me to be with another woman and Jay at the same time. It was all we expected and more, it was amazing horny and sexy to the core. We both had fun. It was at this point we both realised we were going to be delving into the world of swinging far more than we anticipated.
We found another site on the internet and met a couple locally from there but we've both ended up members of this site. And that's our story basically. We're still meeting couples, we're still venturing to clubs but in addition I'm now posting the life out of you guys but mainly I've got to know some really nice people, most of which are fair and honest. :happy:
Pure curiosity (about the site, that is!)
Then I started reading the forums.....
Then I started posting in the forums....
and my fate was sealed :silly:
Well after an incident in the national papers involving a famous footy player at a local dogging spot me and a pal put dogging in google and this site was first up.
Now at that time we were just being nosey and having a quick thrill looking through the adds to see what it was about
Now about 12 months after i was ill and had an operation and though that was close so came and had another look at the site and read the forums this time and did this for a while.
Finally i though well i havent really done much in my life and thought i'm going to sign up so i did.
i found this site quite a while ago and to be honest i only read the stories. was a bit of fun and release for me but was happily married so was never going to stray.
as divorce suddenly appeared end of last year i decided to join for a quick shag, what i found is something very different. i have not played yet but i think its more my decision than anything else because if i really pushed it i could but i dont want to. it will happen when it happens and then let the flood gates open i think.
im becoming more aware of myself because of this place which is good, so many diverse people here with different back grounds and beliefs :thumbup:
We've been here for such a long time now that I can't remember why we joined. But now I can't imagine not being here. ;-)
Some Swingers would say we are not. they would say we have more an open marriage than a swinging relationship. Some day I would agree. Not the day I logged on to SH.
We are apart from each other for long periods. We have always said 'Have who you like'. We had ago at real swinging. it did not get far of the ground. I came here looking for a less hit and miss way of say 'Hi'. The strange thing is, I like the folk on here far more than some of the ladies form the real world. Odd, you do not always want what you think you do. Does it come down to the time we spend chatting.
I came here for sex, stayed here for the exchange; jokes, intellectual, banta and ...
did you find what you were looking for? are you still searching?
but are now exploring and looking for new adventures.
if there was one word that summed up my venture it would be LIBERATION (sexual)
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