...that people always feel the need to spread rumours,no matter who you are,who its about, or who you might hurt in the process..... :fuckinghell:
it drives me nutty!!! just got in from a very nice out with friends, a mates bday from work....only to be told before the night is out that im apparently a stalker,and to hear a rumour has been going around work about me and another colleague.... :cry:
just wondering why people feel the need to gossip, and what makes them feel so good about talking about someone elses personal life????
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why is it.....
Sex God
one thing i have learned is that if they are talking about you they are leaving some other poor sod alone and they may be less able to take the pressure than you are ... chin up hun i am sure they will be onto their next 'victim' in due course, and will be found out to be a gossip and a liar in time.
people who do gossip about others have very little in their own lives to occupy them and some even get a thrill out of hurting another's feelings
people who do gossip about others have very little in their own lives to occupy them and some even get a thrill out of hurting another's feelings
Sex God
Happens to everyone.
I've put it down to the insecurities of the person saying the stuff about me because it's blatantly not true, quite the opposite in fact. Of course you only have my word for that but that's okay. I know the truth and deep down they know it too. It's a shame but I guess you just need to get on with it. I don't have anything on my conscience because I've never said a bad word about those who have about me. I can live with that.
I wouldn't worry about it City_lass... as Sara says, if they have nothing better to do with their time then that's a fairly sad reflection on them.
I've put it down to the insecurities of the person saying the stuff about me because it's blatantly not true, quite the opposite in fact. Of course you only have my word for that but that's okay. I know the truth and deep down they know it too. It's a shame but I guess you just need to get on with it. I don't have anything on my conscience because I've never said a bad word about those who have about me. I can live with that.
I wouldn't worry about it City_lass... as Sara says, if they have nothing better to do with their time then that's a fairly sad reflection on them.
Believe NONE of what you hear, and only half of what you see.
The thing with rumour (to my mind) is that you should always look at the person telling you the rumour, and never the target of the rumour.
In almost every case, it isn't for your benefit that you being a told... (although they often say "I'm only telling you because I think you ought to know..". It's usually for THEIR benefit with some little secret agenda.
It's the same when somebody says "she told me this in confidence, but...." If that person is willing to tell other people's secrets, they are willing to tell yours to other people.
Drop them like a tonne of bricks.
The thing with rumour (to my mind) is that you should always look at the person telling you the rumour, and never the target of the rumour.
In almost every case, it isn't for your benefit that you being a told... (although they often say "I'm only telling you because I think you ought to know..". It's usually for THEIR benefit with some little secret agenda.
It's the same when somebody says "she told me this in confidence, but...." If that person is willing to tell other people's secrets, they are willing to tell yours to other people.
Drop them like a tonne of bricks.
