Why is it men cum and go?

27 Mar 2006

Quote by freckledbird

but i still don't get any respose to my ad, what am i doing wrong?
(ps, does my bum look big in this?)

Ahhhh, you haven't started a 'what's wrong with my ad/cock/tongue/pics' thread. wink

Oooooooo and don't forget to go for the 'us poor single guys' sympathy type whinge.
Its suprising that there havent been that many around lately.....lol
But Im no longer a single male, thats maybe why.....Not that Ive ever complained about being single...... innocent

It seems like a fair comment that everyone who uses this site should check what is available and occasionally re-evaluate what they are after......I have and Im glad I did. It might be the reason so many people have been disappointed...... sad

27 Mar 2006

Quote by freckledbird

Tipical. You can not please all of the women all of the time.
Try a role reversal and look at it from the analogous male point of view.
phredd

dont you just love these long words :doh:
i would just like the chance to cum and go i must not be meeting the right women dunno

hey i havent met a women yet innocent

What long words? confused

You beat me to it, I was going to ask the same question. :?

27 Mar 2006

There is an inbuilt thing in us men,the moments after that first orgasm.I guess its the primal 'mate and go' its swiftly bypassed,especially with the promise of further fun in the night/day ahead!

27 Mar 2006

Ahhh at last!
A place where us single males can puff our chests up & say how wonderful we all are... :happy:
tongue in cheek aside this is just the same vain as the 'No shows & Single males who cant get their Sat night leg over!'
Getting to know someone is no indication of their sexual prowess.
As for asking for a repeater or a long stayer... how are you gonna 'road test' them?
Back to square one again :giggle:
Maybe a hump

certificate will do the trick?
Ohhh.... the minefield!!!
But having said that... what about all the ladydeez that don't put any effort into a shag!
do you hear any single guys moaning about that!
I think not! we need out reputations so moaning is deff' not an option is it guys?
I guess we are damned if we do... damned if we don't
But no single guy is gonna come on here & say what a crap shag they had or admit to you they cant last longer than 3 mins!
You takes yer pick, makes yer choice & if they can't deliver you move on... maybe you can ask them if they have 'serviced' anyone else on SH... get :hump: certificate! :giggle:

27 Mar 2006

Quote by JnBwelshcpl
Why is it males up for fun, meet up chat, spend 5 mins playing cum and go, when you areexpecting a long slow night of pure sex filled pleasure and enjoyment and more than one cum from them, any one got the answer.
J n B

can't say that I have had that happen to me, as Trapper says 'you must be playing with the wrong blokes'

27 Mar 2006

We have got to say only happened twice to us in the past and going to make sure it does not happen again. wink

But bet at some stage it still will, happy for the male to cum in record time but as we know from past play lots more you can do still and second time is always better.
Looks as if we going to have to start asking for invites to the munchs to meet loads of you genuine people on SH.
Still waiting for that munch invite, :thumbup:
Glad you all having fun with the thread.
J n B

27 Mar 2006

Quote by JnBwelshcpl
Still waiting for that munch invite, :thumbup:
J n B

You don't wait for an invitation, you put your name down asking to go.

27 Mar 2006

Quote by JnBwelshcpl
Still waiting for that munch invite, :thumbup:
J n B

You shouldn't wait. Get into one of the munch threads and ask to be put down :shock:
There used to be a rough rule of thumb that you needed to be a member for about three months before you'd be put on the lists, but I think some organisers are now being (thankfully) a little more flexible.
:thumbup:

27 Mar 2006

Will search the munchs and check out dates and politely ask for an invite,
Thxs for the advice.
J n B

27 Mar 2006

Why not start with this one
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/65991.html

27 Mar 2006

Quote by JnBwelshcpl
Will search the munchs and check out dates and politely ask for an invite,
Thxs for the advice.
J n B

Why not start with this one
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/65991.html
:thumbup:

27 Mar 2006

Quote by meat2pleaseu
did i mention my 18" cock and tongue like an anteater?

No!!! Why has it taken you until now to mention it eh??? Some people are so damned selfish! :cry:
Ditto to what others have said J&B, perhaps some guys are gone fast because they don't have a clear idea from you that any more is expected confused

: I'm pretty certain most guys joining a couple will look to them to set ground rules and explain expectations in advance.

27 Mar 2006

Quote by Serendipity

did i mention my 18" cock and tongue like an anteater?

No!!! Why has it taken you until now to mention it eh??? Some people are so damned selfish! :cry:
Ditto to what others have said J&B, perhaps some guys are gone fast because they don't have a clear idea from you that any more is expected confused

: I'm pretty certain most guys joining a couple will look to them to set ground rules and explain expectations in advance.
Im currious about what you'd expect.... wink

27 Mar 2006

thats the problem Serendipity we did lay down what we wanted and even said as he was dressing , ( maybe it helped even more to send him on his way) is that all, we hoping to play more and longer,
But still legged it, leaving us even more frustrated and baffled by the male mind.
J n B

27 Mar 2006

Quote by JnBwelshcpl
thats the problem Serendipity we did lay down what we wanted and even said as he was dressing , ( maybe it helped even more to send him on his way) is that all, we hoping to play more and longer,
But still legged it, leaving us even more frustrated and baffled by the male mind.
J n B

Then I can say I'm flustrated and baffled by the 'couples mind' lol!
There are folks messing about on the single and couple a loss of nerve is a loss of nerve and that has to be has to feel free to stop if one needs to.
But plenty of us want to share full,wholesome,prolonged explicit experiences with others so we just need to find each other and do so!

28 Mar 2006

Quote by Peterlg
Well I have to confess that I tend to cum pretty quickly the first time with a new partner. But the last lady I spent an afternoon with got it three more times, and I came for two of them. So it's to a certain extent up to the lady as well.
Anyway there are lots of other fun things you can do even if he can't get it rock hard again, as I'm sure we all know

I agree with you, I am quicker the first time with a new lady, but the first is not the only time. There are ways of slowing thing down, and a couple of repeats do make -up for it.

28 Mar 2006

as already said ya looking for the wrong man/men. I may not be an addonis, but i'm always asked back. Most men are ito it to empty there sack, were sum of us really enjoy the giving n pleasing. yer need a man that gets turned on by making a woman cum, by touch, feel n tease many times before the ultimate.

29 Mar 2006

I think another point is that immediately after I've cum, I get a sort of "down" feeling (no not down like that!). Feels like, what am I doing here with this person.
It would be quite easy at that stage to get dresed and go. I've leaned to overcome it, but maybe that's a problem for some guys too?

29 Mar 2006

Quote by Peterlg
I think another point is that immediately after I've cum, I get a sort of "down" feeling (no not down like that!). Feels like, what am I doing here with this person.
It would be quite easy at that stage to get dresed and go. I've leaned to overcome it, but maybe that's a problem for some guys too?

That relates to the primal 'mate and go' urge I mentioned earlier.
There be a feeling of ''Oh my God What have I done' straight after sex for us men certainly.
I vividly recall feeling just that years ago,the moments after my first orgasm when I lost my virginity and this was in a loving long term relationship with a wonderful girl,and our first time was in a safe,comfortable,interuption free enviroment,no fears,no hassle but I felt it so strongly,an urge to up and soon passed but I know I felt it.
I certainly felt it when I first took part in a was a big step for me to do this thing which is still,lets face it,a big in mainstream society.
Its best it is a good humoured,tactile,upbeat scene that carries one along.I once had a threesome with a couple where the guy seemed too jittery and was a bit too control freak for me,his nerves showing I guess but because of it the play just wasn't playful enough.I tried to be patient and complied with their wishes but it was they who got up and got dressed earllier than expected and left me in a strange hotel room wondering what had gone wrong but these things just can can't they?
I've also been to Swinging Heaven! :shock:
By that I mean with good humoured hedonistic folk who cast off inhibitions with their clothes and had no hang ups about their pleasure or mine.
When the hours go by like minutes and the mutual highs are so tremendous it all makes sense and theres not a thought of dashing off then is there?
Its all we hope for isn't it?

29 Mar 2006

Quote by JnBwelshcpl
thats the problem Serendipity we did lay down what we wanted and even said as he was dressing , ( maybe it helped even more to send him on his way) is that all, we hoping to play more and longer,
But still legged it, leaving us even more frustrated and baffled by the male mind.
J n B

Maybe he had to get back to the wife confused

:?
As has been said, like trains blaming leaves, wrong type of guy. rolleyes

29 Mar 2006

PHOENIX wrote As has been said, like trains blaming leaves, wrong type of guy. rolleyes

As a Train Driver I have to point out that Oak leaves are bloody big leaves and very hazardess dont ya know ! :roll:

29 Mar 2006

Well i suppose it works both ways. There are ladies who stop playing once they cum. confused

29 Mar 2006

Quote by JnBwelshcpl
thats the problem Serendipity we did lay down what we wanted and even said as he was dressing , ( maybe it helped even more to send him on his way) is that all, we hoping to play more and longer,
But still legged it, leaving us even more frustrated and baffled by the male mind.
J n B

Babes,
Lock the bluddy door !!!! dont let them escape :rascal:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

29 Mar 2006

Many ladies just don't tell you what they really want......and some don't seem to realise that most men need a period of recovery between bouts.....the 'porn film' scenario of endlessly shagging studs have the benefit of editing! I recently pleasured a lady (she really was!) who had the patience and understanding to keep us both 'as one' for several hours, and I'm 63. it can be done, but needs some real patience and chemistry. Cum on, girls, get to know your men!!

29 Mar 2006

Quote by laterunner
Many ladies just don't tell you what they really want......and some don't seem to realise that most men need a period of recovery between bouts.....the 'porn film' scenario of endlessly shagging studs have the benefit of editing!

:shock: :shock: :shock:
Never!
Really!
You mean it is not how real sex is?
rolleyes

29 Mar 2006

:laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove:
wonder what the next male excuse will be. :thumbup:
J n B

29 Mar 2006

Quote by blonde

Babes,
Lock the bluddy door !!!! dont let them escape :rascal:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
if one mans not enough...............find two!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :twisted:

29 Mar 2006

'OMG' its so simple this one.........
Man has sex and then theres nothing else unless theres a 'beer and steak' Beer and steak means more sex as after beer and steak man can think about sex again...... If he can't think about sex why stay?
So dear flower make a steak look great and make sure beer is cold!! :lol: :lol:
Did you go to schhoool?
Mike xxxx
Yep still here lol

29 Mar 2006

Get the feeling if we had locked the door second perfomance would have been less than the first.
So better to let go and look again,
Any offers.
J n B

29 Mar 2006

Reasons why men 'cum & go'....
The woman turned out to be a bucket.
The woman was crap.
They actually only wanted the hubby and didn't realise they needed to fuck the wife too.
They only just managed to get it up the first time and now cannot concentrate enough to manage it again.
Once is all their wife gets - why should you expect more!
The woman gave head and it was a teeth-scraper job.
They are just a crap shag.
The hubby started to get too frisky for them.
They were scared shitless.
They were late for another meeting.
They were already late meeing their wife.
They are due back at work.
They didn'y fancy you but it was on a plate so why not shoot some juice off anyway.
It was easier than wanking.
It was a change from wanking.
It subsituted the wank they normally have before going to service their g/f.
They had no intention of hanging around - they just wanted the thrill of poking someone elses wife.
They thought they could just fuck anyone - they realised it was too much like hard work.
You smell.
It's kick-off in ten minutes.
The pizza will be ready for collection now.
You turned out to be too freaky.
They spotted the strap-on.
Their mate is still waiting outside in the car.
They are worried about leaving their car in your neighbourhood.
They have cum and don't feel they need a reason to stay.
They couldn't find your purse/wallet.
Their mobile had a low battery warning.
They wanted to go and find the guy who sold them the fake viagra.