OK, I accept that you said "some" and "might". I still dont understand how a more mature woman could be an easier option though. Easier than what?
so your opinion of why some young men find older women sexy is because
they may think were easier pray
mmmmm ok ..i guess some do
i remember grab a granny night back home
i remember young lads openly bragging about going on a saturday coz the women were all in the club for one reason....a quick shag
Well as a mature man now who once, like most young men, harboured a Mrs Robinson fantasy. From what I recall cos it was long , long ago. the appeal was the seduction of the mind and body, to have my eyes opened to the subtleties of atmosphere , the full invasion of all the senses , the loss of control whilst being taken on a wonderful journey of discovery, the idea that ones body may be awakened to sensations that one never knew existed. And all taught and teased by that master of love making the mature woman.
Years later my fantasy never fulfilled.
But my own experience tells me that many mature(what is mature anyway????) women have all the qualities I ever dreamt of and more and make wonderful lovers....easy they certainly aren't .Fabulous they certainly are.
M has more men chatting her up these days than when she was in her 20's! Not sure if the fact that she's a swinger and now very flirty may have a lot to do with it.
Having said that, she does often get propositioned by younger guys who say they love mature women.
Another angle on why (some) guys find mature sexy.
Do older women find it harder to be in a relationship with a younger guy and is it easier for an older guy to be involved with a younger woman?
It is always accepted that girls are more mature than boys, and therefore girls tend to go for guys a few years older than them. Nobody thinks much of it, do they?
So a young guy may feel that they are stuck between ‘a rock and hard place’ Thought to be too young by girls their own age but seen as ‘toy boys’ if they go for older women.
I think that some young guys are attracted to older women for their sexual experience (what else!). Also the fact that an older woman may be more in charge in the bedroom, its not all left up to the guy. We won’t just lie down and expect to be pleasured, we give as good as we get. Well I do!
And I do not think that older women are the 'easy' option either.
More food for thought
Tricia xx