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Why is mature sexy?

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OK, I accept that you said "some" and "might". I still dont understand how a more mature woman could be an easier option though. Easier than what?
Quote by Angel Chat
I must have misinterpreted what you mean by the statement I have highlighted. If you weren't saying it was easier to "get laid" with an older woman, what were you suggesting?

Of course I was refering to that, but not only that.
I also believe that some young men may also desire more mature women as they may assume that they are more likely to indulge in acts that some younger women may not.
And for the record - I am not saying that more mature women do acts that younger ones dont, nor am I saying that I think more mature women are easier than younger women.
That has never been my position.
What I am saying is that some young men may think that.
Surely that makes sense to you?
i think a little back tracking is going on here ...surrey
you plainly wrote
some young men might see older women as a easier option
which sounds very much like older women are easier to lay .....maybe because young men think were desperate
id rather have a mature well experianced man any day
wink
im just saying we aint easier ...
maybe it was the way the sentance was worded but i did take slight offence
but im over it now
Quote by redstilletto
i think a little back tracking is going on here ...surrey
you plainly wrote
some young men might see older women as a easier option
which sounds very much like older women are easier to lay .....maybe because young men think were desperate
id rather have a mature well experianced man any day
wink
im just saying we aint easier ...
maybe it was the way the sentance was worded but i did take slight offence
but im over it now

Hi Stilletto
No backtracking - that is exactly what I said and I think my last post made that quite clear.
What wasnt obvious to some is that I was not labeling mature women as being easy but suggesting that some young men may desire more mature women becasue they have that perception of them.
I am certainly not backtracking from the position I have held on this all afternoon.
And yes I think some young men may chase older women for the very reason YOU cited above 'beacuse young men think were desperate'
That doesnt mean that you are desperate - just that young men might think that.
Its all about the perception held by the young men and all of my posts have maintained this.
Unfortunately some ppl havent been able to understand that.
And some have taken offence unnecessarily.
so your opinion of why some young men find older women sexy is because
they may think were easier pray
mmmmm ok ..i guess some do
i remember grab a granny night back home
i remember young lads openly bragging about going on a saturday coz the women were all in the club for one reason....a quick shag
Well as a mature man now who once, like most young men, harboured a Mrs Robinson fantasy. From what I recall cos it was long , long ago. the appeal was the seduction of the mind and body, to have my eyes opened to the subtleties of atmosphere , the full invasion of all the senses , the loss of control whilst being taken on a wonderful journey of discovery, the idea that ones body may be awakened to sensations that one never knew existed. And all taught and teased by that master of love making the mature woman.
Years later my fantasy never fulfilled.
But my own experience tells me that many mature(what is mature anyway????) women have all the qualities I ever dreamt of and more and make wonderful lovers....easy they certainly aren't .Fabulous they certainly are.
Quote by niceguysdoexist
Well as a mature man now who once, like most young men, harboured a Mrs Robinson fantasy.

Did then. Still do. And it ain't because they're easy.
Easy as in easy prey is a turn-off. Enthuisiastic as in meeting you half-way is a turn-on.
Women with experience judge you with a more critical eye and if you still reach muster then Wow!
God I haven't brought this shovel into the hole with me have I?
Quote by niceguysdoexist
Well as a mature man now who once, like most young men, harboured a Mrs Robinson fantasy.

I like the Mrs Robinson link, now there was a very sexy lady. She had confidence and was attractive and if she wanted something then she was going to have it. There was the young man (was he a virgin? had one of those) against the experienced, mature woman (thats me!). We all knew what she was after but the graduate was uneducated in the ways of women (aren't they all rolleyes ).
Is there mystery that surrounds women of a certain age and I wonder if that is what makes young men want to explore their sexuality with an older woman. Do guys think that we are all raving Mrs Robinsons just waiting for them to bring us to multiple orgasms (yes please) lol
All I can say is 'God Bless you please Mrs Robinson'
Tricia xx
M has more men chatting her up these days than when she was in her 20's! Not sure if the fact that she's a swinger and now very flirty may have a lot to do with it.
Having said that, she does often get propositioned by younger guys who say they love mature women.
Quote by redstilletto
so your opinion of why some young men find older women sexy is because
they may think were easier pray
mmmmm ok ..i guess some do
i remember grab a granny night back home
i remember young lads openly bragging about going on a saturday coz the women were all in the club for one reason....a quick shag

Yay!!! wink
At last......a breakthrough.
Another angle on why (some) guys find mature sexy.
Do older women find it harder to be in a relationship with a younger guy and is it easier for an older guy to be involved with a younger woman?
It is always accepted that girls are more mature than boys, and therefore girls tend to go for guys a few years older than them. Nobody thinks much of it, do they?
So a young guy may feel that they are stuck between ‘a rock and hard place’ Thought to be too young by girls their own age but seen as ‘toy boys’ if they go for older women.
I think that some young guys are attracted to older women for their sexual experience (what else!). Also the fact that an older woman may be more in charge in the bedroom, its not all left up to the guy. We won’t just lie down and expect to be pleasured, we give as good as we get. Well I do!
And I do not think that older women are the 'easy' option either.
More food for thought
Tricia xx