Now I have your attention. Why is it that young guys find mature ladies a turn on?
As a mature lady I am amazed by the attention, and loving it too. Just when I thought I was getting past my 'sell by date' I find that I can take my pick of the young horny guys. mmmmm and I do
As for me and why do I choose young guys, thats easy, lets say its firm, lean bodies which I enjoy touching and looking at (more touching please). It is fair after all you guys like to look at us ladies.
I hope there is someone who can answer my question. (you could always tell me personally lol)
(This is my first post so go easy on me!)
Tricia
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Why is mature sexy?
Orgasminator
I suppose it has to do with life experience and also being very comfortable with your own body.
Now that I've passed that magic milestone of 40 
am I considered 'Mature'??
I know that give the opportunity, the male of a 'young' couple of our acqaintance (24M 26F) will make a Bee Line for me given the opportunity.
OK - so I'm experienced. We've been round the sexual block a few times and I'm still good to look at ( or so I'm told!
) but I wonder why sometimes too.
Hubby has had the pleasure of his other half and she is full of energy and in search of Instant Gratification whereas we more mature ones go the long route and enjoy the giving and receiving of sexual favours.
Does that make sense?
For whatever reason, he thinks I am sexy (OH YES I AM!!) and I turn him on. If for one second I thought he was shagging his Mother, that would be IT!!! YUK!!!
(How many Mothers look like this? - see avitar)
L&K
Shirley
(still pondering whether to de-floss or not)
am I considered 'Mature'??I know that give the opportunity, the male of a 'young' couple of our acqaintance (24M 26F) will make a Bee Line for me given the opportunity.
OK - so I'm experienced. We've been round the sexual block a few times and I'm still good to look at ( or so I'm told!
) but I wonder why sometimes too.Hubby has had the pleasure of his other half and she is full of energy and in search of Instant Gratification whereas we more mature ones go the long route and enjoy the giving and receiving of sexual favours.
Does that make sense?
For whatever reason, he thinks I am sexy (OH YES I AM!!) and I turn him on. If for one second I thought he was shagging his Mother, that would be IT!!! YUK!!!
(How many Mothers look like this? - see avitar)
L&K
Shirley
(still pondering whether to de-floss or not)
Well at my advanced years (58 as it happens), I have no great interest in spending much time with a girl barely out of her teens. Though she may be sexually voracious, it is less than likely that she will have learnt the more subtle nuances of really good sex, both as it applies to herself and to the other party.
To turn the question slightly, what are girls' views on "mature men"?
We will take it that the same sort of physical attributes that are attractive in a mature woman similarly apply to the bloke....... Could have phrased it rather more unkindly, but decided against it
To turn the question slightly, what are girls' views on "mature men"?
We will take it that the same sort of physical attributes that are attractive in a mature woman similarly apply to the bloke....... Could have phrased it rather more unkindly, but decided against it
I think it is every 16 year old boys dream to be seduced by an older woman.
Mature women are just that, mature. In body, but in mind also, and comfortable to experiment with sex, not shy to touch, and enjoy sex because they do.
And I think the same can be said for men. As I have got older, I get more satisfaction from giving pleasure than I do from receiving, and I think most men would agree with that. There is none of the frantic rush to make sure that you are satisfied. Now we are older, Mrs Fac and I are both comfortable that one can climax and not the other, but when we were younger it was so important that we were both satisfied every time.
I think women are so sexy in their thirties and forties, and I would choose one in this age group any time over somebody in their teens.
Rich
Mature women are just that, mature. In body, but in mind also, and comfortable to experiment with sex, not shy to touch, and enjoy sex because they do.
And I think the same can be said for men. As I have got older, I get more satisfaction from giving pleasure than I do from receiving, and I think most men would agree with that. There is none of the frantic rush to make sure that you are satisfied. Now we are older, Mrs Fac and I are both comfortable that one can climax and not the other, but when we were younger it was so important that we were both satisfied every time.
I think women are so sexy in their thirties and forties, and I would choose one in this age group any time over somebody in their teens.
Rich
Hi Crosspatch
The BIG problem with young vs Older is that once the Sex is over, you have nothing talk about!!
But, at 39 on holiday in Majorca last year we met a 61 year old man (Hi Bill - I dont know if you are on the Forum or not) and his lovely French wife Veronique who was probably a little older. Ian was too much of a Gent to ask a Lady her age.
To cut a long story short, we got on as a foursome very well and just before we had to leave to cum home, the four of us had a bit of a Party.
I don't like separate room sex as a rule but Bill took me off into his bedroom of the apartment and he was fantastic!! He wasn't fully hard at first but a bit of MTC resuscitation sorted that out. He stayed rock hard after that and he only came the once but he gave me a real good time and the experience showed. AND - we could talk about stuff afterwards too!!!
I have it on good authority that Veronique almost wore my poor Ian out. He had to cum twice in about an hour (Normal for him) but he says it seemed like non-stop oragsms for her.
There is many a good tune played on an old(er) fiddle and as I get older I fully expect to get sexier and sexier - and why not??!!
Keep up the good work, Crosspatch!
L&K
Shirley
The BIG problem with young vs Older is that once the Sex is over, you have nothing talk about!!
But, at 39 on holiday in Majorca last year we met a 61 year old man (Hi Bill - I dont know if you are on the Forum or not) and his lovely French wife Veronique who was probably a little older. Ian was too much of a Gent to ask a Lady her age.
To cut a long story short, we got on as a foursome very well and just before we had to leave to cum home, the four of us had a bit of a Party.
I don't like separate room sex as a rule but Bill took me off into his bedroom of the apartment and he was fantastic!! He wasn't fully hard at first but a bit of MTC resuscitation sorted that out. He stayed rock hard after that and he only came the once but he gave me a real good time and the experience showed. AND - we could talk about stuff afterwards too!!!
I have it on good authority that Veronique almost wore my poor Ian out. He had to cum twice in about an hour (Normal for him) but he says it seemed like non-stop oragsms for her.
There is many a good tune played on an old(er) fiddle and as I get older I fully expect to get sexier and sexier - and why not??!!
Keep up the good work, Crosspatch!
L&K
Shirley
Sex God
it pleases me to read that most women get hornier as they get older!
i often wonder, if i am this horny at 24...... what the hell will i be like when i get to 50!!!!
i often wonder, if i am this horny at 24...... what the hell will i be like when i get to 50!!!!
Yes, am going to put my hat into the ring.
I think that a Younger Male & Older Female Work due to a number of things.
1). Status. An older women whom has a younger man as a partner shows society that she is still very much desirable theirfore she is still feminine. A metaphor would be a fine wine gets better with time & more in value.
2). Passion. Due to the issue of point 1 the women feels special as within friends females have 'friendly competition' with each other. Males will get on with each other no matter what job or status they have but what I have seen is that Female friendships have an element of rivalry. So the older women will use sex to keep her prize.
Also as an older women expreince shows that all men are dogs on heat, so instead of walking away or finding this negative like younger women, the older women knows this is just the way males are & enjoy it.
3). Respect. As both sides would have a a age gap then issues of respect are all ready defined & both sides like the mentality of the other. Older being more relaxed & less up tight the Younger taking more risks. As the saying is within Football any team that wins needs the mix of youth & experience. That saying is as old as 'the hills' so it must have some truth to it. Respect could be seen as a reason for the high rate of divorce within the U.K & greater Western World due to both sides 'fighting' for respect within the relationship.
Well that's my take on this issue.
I think that a Younger Male & Older Female Work due to a number of things.
1). Status. An older women whom has a younger man as a partner shows society that she is still very much desirable theirfore she is still feminine. A metaphor would be a fine wine gets better with time & more in value.
2). Passion. Due to the issue of point 1 the women feels special as within friends females have 'friendly competition' with each other. Males will get on with each other no matter what job or status they have but what I have seen is that Female friendships have an element of rivalry. So the older women will use sex to keep her prize.
Also as an older women expreince shows that all men are dogs on heat, so instead of walking away or finding this negative like younger women, the older women knows this is just the way males are & enjoy it.
3). Respect. As both sides would have a a age gap then issues of respect are all ready defined & both sides like the mentality of the other. Older being more relaxed & less up tight the Younger taking more risks. As the saying is within Football any team that wins needs the mix of youth & experience. That saying is as old as 'the hills' so it must have some truth to it. Respect could be seen as a reason for the high rate of divorce within the U.K & greater Western World due to both sides 'fighting' for respect within the relationship.
Well that's my take on this issue.
The busty one typed:
Hmmmmmmmmm! well, when you're 50, Mal and The Tongue will be at least 105 so I'd squeeze every last drop out of them while they are still able to perform!
it pleases me to read that most women get hornier as they get older!
i often wonder, if i am this horny at 24...... what the hell will i be like when i get to 50!!!!
Hmmmmmmmmm! well, when you're 50, Mal and The Tongue will be at least 105 so I'd squeeze every last drop out of them while they are still able to perform!
The Thread is titled 'Why is mature Sexy?'
That would suggest that all mature ppl are sexy - and that just aint the case! :shock:
I would ask the question is mature sexy??
Personally I find some mature women sexy, but certainly not just because they are mature.
I find young women sexy, but not just because they are young.
I have even found that some women who aren't 'traditionally' good looking have that certain 'indescribeable or untangable' something that just drives me wild.
Its not about age, or looks, or the way they dress.
For me its that (dare I say it without feeling like a pretentious w*nker) 'Je ne sais quoi'
That would suggest that all mature ppl are sexy - and that just aint the case! :shock:
I would ask the question is mature sexy??
Personally I find some mature women sexy, but certainly not just because they are mature.
I find young women sexy, but not just because they are young.
I have even found that some women who aren't 'traditionally' good looking have that certain 'indescribeable or untangable' something that just drives me wild.
Its not about age, or looks, or the way they dress.
For me its that (dare I say it without feeling like a pretentious w*nker) 'Je ne sais quoi'
Surreycouple, what you said was interesting.
Let me just get it straight, I am not saying 'mature is sexy'. I was just asking the question 'Why do some people think that mature is sexy?'. What it is that makes a middle aged, not the best body in the world, not the most attractive etc.. someone that guys would like to see undressed. When I can't bear to look sometimes. :color:
I had thought of myself as getting less attractive as I got older, I know we do become more relaxed and easygoing, but the body does start to work against you. But it has been a real eye opener and makes you look at yourself in a different light.
Glad to see this topic provoking people.
Tricia xx
Let me just get it straight, I am not saying 'mature is sexy'. I was just asking the question 'Why do some people think that mature is sexy?'. What it is that makes a middle aged, not the best body in the world, not the most attractive etc.. someone that guys would like to see undressed. When I can't bear to look sometimes. :color:
I had thought of myself as getting less attractive as I got older, I know we do become more relaxed and easygoing, but the body does start to work against you. But it has been a real eye opener and makes you look at yourself in a different light.
Glad to see this topic provoking people.
Tricia xx
yep ive got to that age were young lads seem to very intrested in me
its amazeing really
but i put it down to im more confident nowadays i know what i want and i normally get it
and im not afraid to flirt or be sexual
years ago i would have ran and hid if a man had come anywere near me
age really is all in the mind
its amazeing really
but i put it down to im more confident nowadays i know what i want and i normally get it
and im not afraid to flirt or be sexual
years ago i would have ran and hid if a man had come anywere near me
age really is all in the mind
There is also the angle that young men might see it as an easier option - more likely to get what they are looking for.
Personally I used to have fantasies about getting it on with a family friend - I think I was about 14 at the time and she must have been in her 40's.
I was so convinced that she fancied me.......
Personally I used to have fantasies about getting it on with a family friend - I think I was about 14 at the time and she must have been in her 40's.
I was so convinced that she fancied me.......
There is also the angle that young men might see it as an easier option - more likely to get what they are looking for.
how well you worded that surrey
i dont think older women are easier
in fact quite the oppersite....im very choosey nowadays
when i was younger id fall for any fella who charmed me .............nowadays i have a brain
and it takes a lot to turn this woman head .......belive me
how well you worded that surrey
i dont think older women are easier
in fact quite the oppersite....im very choosey nowadays
when i was younger id fall for any fella who charmed me .............nowadays i have a brain
and it takes a lot to turn this woman head .......belive me
Quote by redstilletto
how well you worded that surrey
i dont think older women are easier
in fact quite the oppersite....im very choosey nowadays
when i was younger id fall for any fella who charmed me .............
nowadays i have a brain and it takes a lot to turn this woman head .......belive me
Thankyou for your kind words re my grammar.
However I thought you said that you would 'run & hide' if a man came anywhere near you?
Or was that at a different time of your life to when you would fall for any fella that charmed you?
Sex God
Surrey, I don't think she was pulling you up about your grammar. The way I read it, she was more concerned that you were labelling more mature women as "easy". I took exception to that as well
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Surrey, I don't think she was pulling you up about your grammar. The way I read it, she was more concerned that you were labelling more mature women as "easy". I took exception to that as well
I completely agree with you Angel - I dont think Stilletto was 'pulling me up' either.
Nor do I think that Stilletto took exception to that post (or am I just being insensitive?).
I think that the post was valid -
'There is also the angle that young men might see it as an easier option - more likely to get what they are looking for'.
I did not say that more mature women are 'easy' - and I think you are confused or misinterpreting me if thats what you think.
Do you not think that the post was a valid comment?
Sex God
Quote by surreycouple2003
Surrey, I don't think she was pulling you up about your grammar. The way I read it, she was more concerned that you were labelling more mature women as "easy". I took exception to that as well
I completely agree with you Angel - I dont think Stilletto was 'pulling me up' either.
Nor do I think that Stilletto took exception to that post (or am I just being insensitive?).
I think you may be being insensitive here, from what I can tell, both of us have taken exception to it.
I think that the post was valid -
'There is also the angle that young men might see it as an easier option - more likely to get what they are looking for'.
I did not say that more mature women are 'easy' - and I think you are confused or misinterpreting me if thats what you think.
Do you not think that the post was a valid comment?
I must have misinterpreted what you mean by the statement I have highlighted. If you weren't saying it was easier to "get laid" with an older woman, what were you suggesting?
Quote by surreycouple2003
There is also the angle that young men might see it as an easier option - more likely to get what they are looking for.
You see, the key to all of this lies in the text.
'Young men might' - that doesnt mean all men do, or even some men do, or even I do!!
So, I did not label mature women as easy, nor did I label young women easy.
In fact I havent labeled anyone anything!!
In a thread that is debating why young men desire mature women I think it is a highly valid hypothetical.
And I fail to see why some ppl would take offence to it.
Or am I missing something here??
