It is curious , this suposse to be a sex date site , but even here , looks like is pretty much like as if you go out at night to know women, looks like almost no woman wants simply have sex , fuck, it is like as even if you want just sex, you have to pretend , talk about yourself , etc, etc .
So It is really true that the most of the women are incapable of just have sex , no talk , no spiritual connection, only fuck until be exhausted ?
You are confusing a swingers with prostitutes. If you want someone just to show up, strip, do as you please, expect nothing in return, get dressed and leave, I suggest you try ring a ride and pay for your enjoyment.
Women are not on this site to please you, they are on here to please themselves.
This is a swingers site, not InstaShag - with that attitude you'll never get a meet, folk like to get to know people a bit before they commit to playing in the bedroom.
As Try2 says above, if you want a shag then phone an escort agency, or try one of the many other sites on offer which might tailor to your needs better.
The thing is, this is not a "sex date site". It's a swinging site.
There have been discussions in the past on what swinging is. I'm not going to go looking for them. Everyone has a different answer, and there isn't one single correct definition.
For some, the social side of it is important. It's not about having random sex with random people; it's about having friends that you sometimes have sex with. It's about having friends who share this aspect of their lifestyle, who you can talk about it with, even if you never fuck them. If you're only after quick anonymous sex, these people will have no interest in you.
There are women and couples out there who do just want no-strings sex with strangers. If they want you, they'll let you know. But remember that as a single man, you're one among many thousands. You have to stand out in some way. If they're after looks, and you happen to look like what they want, then you're in luck. The chances of that are slim.
If, like me, you can't rely on looks, you go with what you've got. That means personality, and that means getting to know people on more than a superficial level. So we're back to talking and making friends and being interesting and entertaining and honest.
"you have to pretend". No. Don't do this. It's not a game that you can win by cheating. It's real people with real lives, and it's about a lot more than just you getting what you want.
Its certainly not a dating site, although relationships do develop. The wrong attitude towards using the site and the wrong attitude towards its users, will ultimately see you failing in seeking someone to play with. Everyone's ideas how about how this site should be used, very much differ but ultimately the aim is the same for everyone, to seek enjoyment/thrills with like minded individuals/couples which you may not achieve with a vanilla type sex life.
You're confusing women with pieces of meat I think.....
Think you need to look up the definition between swinging and instant shag!
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You are confusing a swingers with prostitutes. If you want someone just to show up, strip, do as you please, expect nothing in return, get dressed and leave, I suggest you try ring a ride and pay for your enjoyment.
Women are not on this site to please you, they are on here to please themselves.
Couldn't have put it better. Quite a lot of guys seem to think all they need do is send a wink, one liner and cock shot and they'll get a shag on the cheap. I dare say they'd like it delivered free too lol. That's their prerogative of course but equally it's ours to ignore them and look for people who're a lot more discerning about whom they meet. If more of these guys bothered to read profiles they might not waste so much time contacting people who aren't offering what they want. Oh and just for the record, yes we know there are some really nice guys here (we've chatted to loads and met a few) so we're well aware that the OP's views aren't universal, thankfully... 
women aren't just meat this site is all about mutual satisfaction, people like to chat and feel comfortable, by getting to know a person
Wow , confusing women with prostitutes or with pieces of meet, etc , etc.
I am surprised , the response was amazing , I had the impresion I was reading a moral behavior guide of the catholic church or something worse.
Let's try again , for the confused people , women are not more or less pieces of meet than I am, but whether you like it or not, sex is just sex , a PHISICAL HUMAN NECESSITY , like eat , sleep or go to the toillet.
Wen you say I see like as prostitutes or pieces of meet women, you are insulting to all the women that really want sex , and the only thing they need to have sex with someone is find him or her attractive, ONLY AND EXCLUSIVELY THAT, not celestial trumpets, not intelectual link, not any other nonsenses, and I know for sure there are women like that , and they don't deserve your insults just because they think diffetent than you.
To be a liberal site , is not to much respectful with other people believes, I wonder If you would like to be judged in the same manner that you judge.
but whether you like it or not, sex is just sex , a PHISICAL HUMAN NECESSITY , like eat , sleep or go to the toillet.
Thats incorrect. You will not die if you dont have sex, but you will die if you refain from any of your other examples. There are lots of people in this world who have satisfying and fulfilling sexual relationships without fucking.
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They may be the exception rather than the rule, but there are women out there who want nothing more than a no strings shag.
I know I would look for NSA but theres still a difference I like to admire the curves as well even though women r so sensitive there don't think there've got any, and it is natural for a woman to have bigger pelvis than a man might be because they have fallopian tubes ovries & uturus excuse spelling
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You are confusing a swingers with prostitutes. If you want someone just to show up, strip, do as you please, expect nothing in return, get dressed and leave, I suggest you try ring a ride and pay for your enjoyment.
Women are not on this site to please you, they are on here to please themselves.
Mrs T if your 100 years old and 7'0'' tall I am going to do what ever you say I have too lol.
