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now im no prude and dont take this the wrong way ,but why do the women on this site only show boob or ass pics, its very nice but i bet im not alone when i say a face pic would be better, and surely your drawing unwanted attention to yourself
thoughts please??
jonny.x
Simple answer - pic collectors and privacy against fakes.
Simply put, imagine if you mother stumbles across the site and see your face staring at her from the midst of a "West Midlands Gangbang" thread?
Its harder to identify boobs/legs/ass!
You'll find that people have face pics when you chat to them and people actually have faces in real life too!
Exactly 3some.
Also, I doubt that many people in here would want to be recognised. Many people, myself included, prefer to keep their swinging and social and even work lives seperated. Sometimes there's overlaps obviously, but not for me wink
As for my avatar....I ran out of ideas so I drew tigger rolleyes
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now im no prude and dont take this the wrong way ,but why do the women on this site only show boob or ass pics, its very nice but i bet im not alone when i say a face pic would be better, and surely your drawing unwanted attention to yourself
thoughts please??
jonny.x

Where's YOUR face picture then? ??
:shock: :shock:
Quote by jonnyrocks
now im no prude and dont take this the wrong way ,but why do the women on this site only show boob or ass pics, its very nice but i bet im not alone when i say a face pic would be better, and surely your drawing unwanted attention to yourself
thoughts please??
jonny.x

is this the kettle calling the pot black dunno
like jags said
Where's YOUR face picture then? ??
it was too big to fit into such a small screen, however i post a webpage on my profile with my pics on it,im not shy,feel free to take a look
Quote by BigBoi
Exactly 3some.
As for my avatar....I ran out of ideas so I drew tigger rolleyes

:shock: You drew the Tigger!
Nice one - it looks well professional.
Quote by jonnyrocks
it was too big to fit into such a small screen, however i post a webpage on my profile with my pics on it,im not shy,feel free to take a look

try this it will sort your avatar out for you biggrin
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/personal/jql/
As this isn't a Meet Up post I will move it into the Cafe. confused :? :?
My face looks like my bum. That is why I do not show a face pic.
I do not show my bum pic otherwise you would see my face.
Believe me, you'd have more fun looking at me tits than me face rolleyes
Quote by FNG_London
Exactly 3some.
As for my avatar....I ran out of ideas so I drew tigger rolleyes

:shock: You drew the Tigger!
Nice one - it looks well professional.
Aww shucks redface
Nah it's just a quick doodle. Once I find Nemo he'll be making an appearance lol wink
Quote by Dawn_Mids
Believe me, you'd have more fun looking at me tits than me face rolleyes

Thats a bit harsh and not totally true, although you do have a nice set and I'm not about to complain biggrin
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now im no prude and dont take this the wrong way ,but why do the women on this site only show boob or ass pics, its very nice but i bet im not alone when i say a face pic would be better, and surely your drawing unwanted attention to yourself
thoughts please??
jonny.x
what gets up our nose is when cpls post a pic with the wifes face showing but the hubby hides his lol, seen it many a time, wonder why that is ????/
Quote by Dawn_Mids
Believe me, you'd have more fun looking at me tits than me face rolleyes
lmao that really made us laugh, i bet your mmmmmmmmmmmmmm lol
Quote by vodka_babe22uk
luton_couple
what gets up our nose is when cpls post a pic with the wifes face showing but the hubby hides his lol, seen it many a time, wonder why that is ????/
because the hubby is a surgeon and is used to having his face covered ?
ahhhhhhhh i didnt think of that lol
I switch between the two - neither my arse or face avi look anything like me in real life - so no fear of being recognised. And I'm never totally sure if anyone notices when I switch them. lol
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I switch between the two - neither my arse or face avi look anything like me in real life - so no fear of being recognised. And I'm never totally sure if anyone notices when I switch them. lol

I do celticq....your face one has slightly more hair.
And no middle parting!!
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neither my arse or face avi look anything like me

Oh you fibber!! :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
Your arse looks like you!!! confused :? :? :? :? lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
I think a woman who shows her baps or flaps is no different from a guy doing a cock shot.
Only that they don't get told not do it.
Yes they do duncan, check the AUP and flaps is out just like cocks...
Hmm maybe I should rephrase that redface
As for face pics each to their own, mine is floating about somewhere if you read enough of my threads smile Can't see why your face pic won't fit in an avatar though, drop me a PM if you want it to.
Quote by duncanlondon
I think a woman who shows her baps or flaps is no different from a guy doing a cock shot.
Only that they don't get told not do it.

From the Posting Guidelines... i.e. the rules!
5. Do not use genital shots in your Avatar.
Your Avatar is the little picture you can upload to your profile that will end up next to each post you make. It will also be seen on your forum profile page. You can post more or less whatever you like in the Photo Ads section of this site, and you are more than welcome to link to any ads you have in your signature, BUT, we don't want genital shots in avatars on here. Tits, arse and general body shots are fine, but no hot dogs or kebabs PLEASE! icon_

Not sure I like either of the two descriptions but you get the general idea!
:P
Quote by jonnyrocks
it was too big to fit into such a small screen, however i post a webpage on my profile with my pics on it,im not shy,feel free to take a look

you can resize it now!, try using picture manager?? or even paint! ( i think) most people on here do have face shots, although can u see mine??? hmmm not really!
but anyway i think its more for privacy some people like to be discrete about themselves especially if you have a important job like me! biggrin :shock: ok maybe not!!!
louxx
I want to keep my private life separate from my work life, thanks. I know of at least one parent of a child in my school who is a swinger and I don't relish the thought of them telling all and sundry that I am. I have a feeling that one of the parents of a girl in my class is into swinging and/or BDSM too. It's possible that they are more open about their swinging activities and wouldn't mind everyone knowing that they'd seen me online.
From what I read, employers these days scrutinise their employees "lifestyles" more closely than ever before, so nobody identified publicly as a swinger should feel that they are immune from being sacked. It's not that long ago that a young woman who was a youth worker was sacked by the local authority which employed her because her nude pic was published in the "readers' wives" section of a girlie mag.
Mike.
3someinpreston got it right in the first reply - Some of us work in public places and can you imagine if someone came up to you and let everyone know where they know you from!!!!!! Stay anonymous, I say
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Well, our ad has our face pics in, and nowt else. If someone asks about it, the obvious response is to ask why they were on the site themselves...
And I'd love to see my company try to sack me because of having an ad here - unfair dismissal court, here we come!
mmm tough one do I prefer the face shot or the tit shot rolleyes