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i have been using this site for about 6 - 7 months now and have used others. what really amazes me is the number of people who you start off having a nice conversation with and everything is going fine until the point where you suggest meeting up. Then BANG off they go leaving you sitting there wondering what you did wrong. Can I send out a message to those people - don't waste my and others f*cking time if you don't want to ever meet up just say so on your profile or better still don't come on here at all. Where I live (Stevenage) there seems to be quite a lot of these sort of people. Perhaps I should move. mad
Unknown User
Yes, working in Stevenage for about 2 years was quite enough for me - funny old place.... I'd definately move mate :thumbup:
Unknown User
it's not so much stevenage that is the problem but the some of the people who live there.
mr__powers1
Sex God
Oii!......I'm from Stevenage! mad
Only kidding!!
Unknown User
Quote by Mr-Powers
Oii!......I'm from Stevenage! mad
you are obviously one of the good guys
Only kidding!!
Unknown User
Quote by Bloke2005
Yes, working in Stevenage for about 2 years was quite enough for me - funny old place.... I'd definately move mate :thumbup:

:shock:
I live not too far from Stevenage. I only ever go there to the cinema. lol
mazandden
Sex God
Quote by hertsman1947
i have been using this site for about 6 - 7 months now and have used others. what really amazes me is the number of people who you start off having a nice conversation with and everything is going fine until the point where you suggest meeting up. Then BANG off they go leaving you sitting there wondering what you did wrong. Can I send out a message to those people - don't waste my and others f*cking time if you don't want to ever meet up just say so on your profile or better still don't come on here at all. Where I live (Stevenage) there seems to be quite a lot of these sort of people. Perhaps I should move. mad

So, what your saying is that nobody should start a conversation with you unless they are 100% commited to meeting you???????????
Why dont you put that in your profile, i mean if somebody chats to you the least they should do is be forced to shag you!!!
Good luck!!
Unknown User
Quote by mazandden
... i mean if somebody chats to you the least they should do is be forced to shag you!!!....

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Unknown User
You guys have got it all wrong or maybe i didnt explain myself properly. what i was getting at was people who lead you on right up until making a meet and then just log off or go silent. are most people here to make friends or what?
Steve
Sex God
Quote by hertsman1947
are most people here to make friends or what?

Some are...............Some aren't.........
Unknown User
Quote by Mallock2006
are most people here to make friends or what?

Some are...............Some aren't.........
Garfield1
Sex God
Quote by hertsman1947
are most people here to make friends or what?

Some are...............Some aren't.........
i'm here to make friends wave ok i'm not the most successfull at it but i'm trying :giggle:
Unknown User
i am getting people talking to me now which must be a start.
the longest walk starts with the first step
Unknown User
Quote by mazandden
i have been using this site for about 6 - 7 months now and have used others. what really amazes me is the number of people who you start off having a nice conversation with and everything is going fine until the point where you suggest meeting up. Then BANG off they go leaving you sitting there wondering what you did wrong. Can I send out a message to those people - don't waste my and others f*cking time if you don't want to ever meet up just say so on your profile or better still don't come on here at all. Where I live (Stevenage) there seems to be quite a lot of these sort of people. Perhaps I should move. mad

So, what your saying is that nobody should start a conversation with you unless they are 100% commited to meeting you???????????
Why dont you put that in your profile, i mean if somebody chats to you the least they should do is be forced to shag you!!!
Good idea!! lol
Good luck!!
Unknown User
hey seasider what does that mean?
mazandden
Sex God
Quote by hertsman1947
i am getting people talking to me now which must be a start.
the longest walk starts with the first step

We are not shagging you though!!! lol
Garfield1
Sex God
Quote by mazandden
i am getting people talking to me now which must be a start.
the longest walk starts with the first step

We are not shagging you though!!! lol
will you shag me then :giggle:
Unknown User
Quote by hertsman1947
hey seasider what does that mean?

I haven't got a clue!! lol
Garfield1
Sex God
Quote by seasider
hey seasider what does that mean?

I haven't got a clue!! lol
I blame the sea air :lol:
Unknown User
was i asking you to shag me mazzaden?
mazandden
Sex God
Quote by hertsman1947
was i asking you to shag me mazzaden?

lol
well, at the start you were saying how annoyed you were that people had a nice conversation and then you expected them strangely to want to shag you!
So, when you said that people here were now talking to you, i made a joke saying we were not going to shag you? get it????? the laughter emoticon after the comment was supposed to suggest that but hey never mind, i dont mind going back explaining every comment i make!
D
Unknown User
Quote by hertsman1947
was i asking you to shag me mazzaden?

Don't stress Hertsman - it's just friendly banter. I'm sure nothing was meant by it. We are a friendly lot in here.
In Edit: redface Maz answered whilst I was typing slowly.
Unknown User
sorry kiss and mazandden have now smoked a j and feeling more mellow cool
fem_4_taboo
Sex God
opps, we do not promote or discuss about recreational drug avtivities in here. maybe be that dope smoking is making you a bit paranoid?? lol
With site this size and you will find all sorts of people, some here to just cyber, some to chat, some to cam, some to meet, etc etc
what ever anyone is here for is fine. each to their own.
im sure some people go out to a pub/club and have different expectations, but they are still allowed into the club. same here.
some people come on line and can be here for a few days on the trot, but then they have to deal with life and go away for a bit.
does not mean they are all liers, they may be back they may not.
one things for sure i find people who are to judgemental and snappy tend not to get meets.
xx fem xx
Tsmercury
Forum Virgin
Not so bad you don't get to meet-it's when you arrange to meet at your place- You have it all laid out intending everyone to have a good time...and your left sat hours later wanking yourself in frustration at yet another 'no show' No apoogy later-nothing. . They are the people that really get up my nose!...If only there was a magic way of identifying them beforehand!
hisandhers
Sex God
mad people have choices if they decide to meet you or not
whether its right or wrong that people don't let you know- its still their choice
they may be genuine & can't get in touch with you - get over it & move on!!
sorry to be so harsh had a bad day at work but there are plenty of genuine people on here.
Good luck
Rising
Sexpert
I used to have amazing sex in Stevenage, well it was with the ex lol
Unknown User
Quote by Tsmercury
Not so bad you don't get to meet-it's when you arrange to meet at your place- You have it all laid out intending everyone to have a good time...and your left sat hours later wanking yourself in frustration at yet another 'no show' No apoogy later-nothing. . They are the people that really get up my nose!...If only there was a magic way of identifying them beforehand!

At last someone who has got to the crux of what I was trying to say. Perhaps I didn't articulate myself properly.