Wife at Spa

Recently my wife of many years confessed that earlier this year (2016) while visiting a spa in Kent for a massage and other treatments she allowed herself to be seduced by straying hands in the whirlpool and then taken off to a restroom where she had sex with a stranger. I have to say I was taken aback by this at first, but on reflection I have to confess that I was idea excited by the thought of this and it certainly perked up our sex life. Then recently she said that she and a girlfriend were looking forward to a spa treatment session in the new year, what would I think? Do you think I should put my foot down, and stay with the programme???

Cheers

Tony

What's the programme and is it contract based?

I think you need to have a little casual pillow talk with your wife and see what she is looking to get out of this visit. If she is hoping the same thing might happen you may as well get your request in now so she can tell you all about it when she returns. Where's she going?

Maybe she's found out about your profile here and fancies a little of the same ;-)

Your on a swinging site without your wife, effectively as a single male..... Pot, Kettle, Black? What's the difference your. Org cheating on each other...

Sorry org is meant to read as *both*

Chat to each other and see what you both want from the marriage

Yes, Boobs, you are quite right, so maybe we are both heading in the same direction

is that the case both cheating on each other, you could turn it round to your advantage just keep it mutual, or decide what you want ? don't think of it as a programme its to rigid keep flexabilty & rembember female contact won't get her pregnant so u don't need as big involvement

would love my wife to do that. I'd ask if I could come with her next time, sit a discrete distance away and watch in the hope I'd get to see her being taken off to the rest room again.