Wife's shape

6 Mar 2005

when we first met my wife was slim and watched her weight,

Am I justified in giving her an ultimatum to get back into shape?

6 Mar 2005

No

:x :x

6 Mar 2005

I see this is your first post on here dangel. This is an unusual way to introduce yourself on the forum of a swingers' site, and doesn't really put you in a good light.
I would think your wife would be more justified in giving you an ultimatum.
Mike.

6 Mar 2005

I hope she gave you a slap for that! rolleyes

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Has she asked for a divorce yet?
:fuckinghell:

6 Mar 2005

Good for you for giving her an ultimatum,it seems that with your attitude she'd be far better off without you!

6 Mar 2005

Why do you want her to lose weight dangel? She looks fine to me?

6 Mar 2005

Your wife should be giving you an ultimatum ........ "change YOUR attitude or get shown the door " ! :x :x
When does your divorce come through ? I just don't understand why you are on a swingers site .........
I was married to a man with your attitude .... it left me with no confidence and low self-esteem. Its taken me a long time to regain my confidence and my self-esteem......
Men with your attitude really make me :fuckinghell: :fuckinghell: :kick: :fuckinghell: :fuckinghell: :banghead: :fuckinghell: :kick: :fuckinghell: :smackbottom: :fuckinghell:
Lucy
I'm a redhead ... what can i say :doh:

6 Mar 2005

I note that you haven't provided us with a photo of the changes in you over the last 7 years dunno

:roll:

6 Mar 2005

Mybe food is the only thing that's satisfying her in your marriage.
rolleyes

6 Mar 2005

Does your wife even know that you've put her photos in public with such a derogatory insinuation? I somehow doubt it. If I'm wrong and she wants to know everybody's opinion - then you should've phrased the question differently. If I'm right then it says a lot about you, which is not even worth spelling out.

6 Mar 2005

wow!!!!Are you totally fucking insane putting that post on here????You are soooooooo going to get your head ripped off and have more than likely fucked up any chance of anyone wanting to know you! mad

:x :x I have to say that i don't see what is wrong with your wife but there you she knows that you don't like her that size and keeps the weight up to dissuade you from fucking her.

6 Mar 2005

"A single woman walks past the fridge to see what is in the bedroom but a married woman walks past the bedroom to see what is in the fridge"
Maybe it is your lack of attention, loving and respect that is having the effect.
I suspect that if your wife starts to lose weight and dress up it wont be for you- maybe she also will have placed an ad on here!!

6 Mar 2005

Way to go dangel !!!
Well done :thumbup:
Your first post and you have managed to show everybody
that you are a complete and utter :censored: :doh: :fuckinghell: mad

:taz:
Oooh please excuse my language.
P.S. Are you in Sales by any chance ? ?

6 Mar 2005

You absolutely wrong.

6 Mar 2005

Quote by dangel
when we first met my wife was slim and watched her weight,

after 7 years of marriage, she has grown quite fat

Am I justified in giving her an ultimatum to get back into shape?

dangel no offence but what about your shape are you adonis???
If you want to concern yourself with her weight, it should be about her health not her appearance, and ultimatums are for politicians invading poorer countries not vunerable spouses.
This has to be some kind of joke right, or do men like this actually exist???

6 Mar 2005

Quote by KcKat
I note that you haven't provided us with a photo of the changes in you over the last 7 years
:roll:

I was just about to say that too! Mind you.....i think this is something of a wind up.

6 Mar 2005

Sounds like youre the one who should be getting the ultimatum!!! i.e. STOP BEING A HORRIBLE SELFISH INCONSIDERATE BASTARD OR GET TO FUCK evil

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6 Mar 2005

Quote by Silk and Big G
I note that you haven't provided us with a photo of the changes in you over the last 7 years
:roll:

I was just about to say that too! Mind you.....i think this is something of a wind up.i hope its a wind up ,if it is , good one , if its not , your a dick mate !

6 Mar 2005

Hi I havn't posted on here much at all. I often prefer to observe or "listen" as it were, but I feel I have to say, "what an arse". Confidence has a huge amount of effect on someones self image whether someone is big or slim, but it sounds like you're probably the one eroding her confidence more than anything else. mad

6 Mar 2005

How dare you!!!!! mad

:x :x :x :x :x
Some men actually LIKE women that are on the larger size....and besides, it doesn't matter what you look like....have you never heard of loving someone's personality??? Obviously not because you sure as hell don't have one!!!!!

6 Mar 2005

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :x
is this guy for real or wot????

6 Mar 2005

did you fall down and bang your bonce you obviously didnt learn that women are the most beautifull creatures god created and you should be on your hands and knees kissing her feet daily for putting up with such a swine like you

6 Mar 2005

I'm not having this shit on here. Thread locked and you are banned until you change your attitude. If you wish to be UNbanned and come back with a better attitude, please email swinging heaven and we will consider your apology.
mad