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Why oh why oh why can't some people read profiles or at least have the decency to send a simple personal message instead of using winks to say "hi".
Our profile clearly states in caps (and I quote) ******* WINKS WILL BE IGNORED****** because I, like so many people here prefer the personal touch so to speak, yet the winks still keep coming.
What's everyone else's view on winks and the fact people have to go onto your profile to send them but don't take the time to read they just view the pics on show?
(ready for my slating now vicar...lol)
Caz x
If they bug you so much, why don't you just set your autoresponder and you need never be bothered by them again? dunno
We have an auto responder? Ooooooooooo tell me more please wink
Couldn't agree more flower, that's another one of my pet hates.......oh my seems like i have a lot of those doesn't it....lol
Any attention is good though, right? lol
Quote by GnC29teeside
We have an auto responder? Ooooooooooo tell me more please wink

Click on 'Settings' under 'My Account' on the left hand side. Select the 'Wink' tab and set the message box with the response you wish to send to winkers. If it says 'none' it means the winks will be delivered to your inbox.
Quote by flower411
If they bug you so much, why don't you just set your autoresponder and you need never be bothered by them again? dunno

I don`t really mind winks as such ....what I do mind is that 99% of them lead you to a blank profile with 47 pics of a penis from different angles !!!
If somebody has read our profile and asks us to look at theirs it seems to defeat the object if they haven`t written anything.:dunno:
Here, Here, almost always we arive at the profile to "find out more" only to discover there is nothing more to discover :mad:
afraid its a given of the site Caz, doesnt matter what is on your profile, lots (and am in no way tarring everyone with the same brush before you jump on my head) only look at the pics and then say they like your profile without actually reading it
Sometimes it could be a free member winking you as that is all they can do....
They cant send a proper mail without first joining...
Dont really like winks from strangers, but they can be a bit of fun between friends. However, has Steve said, people who are not full members of the site cant send personalised messages and often use the winks as a way of making contact.
For the auto-responder, go into Settings (left of page) click on Wink (at the top of the page) and pick the message you want (it will show the full message if you pick from the two on the drop down list).
Quote by fluff_n_stuff
We have an auto responder? Ooooooooooo tell me more please wink

Click on 'Settings' under 'My Account' on the left hand side. Select the 'Wink' tab and set the message box with the response you wish to send to winkers. If it says 'none' it means the winks will be delivered to your inbox.
Just tried this very good advice but we don't have the extras upgrade so I guess i'm just gonna have to continue to ignore and delete winks when they come.
Thanks everyone for the feedback & help
Caz xx
I'm taking notes........... :twisted:
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Dont really like winks from strangers, but they can be a bit of fun between friends. However, has Steve said, people who are not full members of the site cant send personalised messages and often use the winks as a way of making contact.
For the auto-responder, go into Settings (left of page) click on Wink (at the top of the page) and pick the message you want (it will show the full message if you pick from the two on the drop down list).

Can they respond to a premium member that responds to them? If not then whats the point in ever sending a wink?
I quite like winks ....40 at a time :sleeping:
Well they're the only sort I get these days :sad:
Wouldn't mind getting some misspelled winks lol
Quote by tweeky
Dont really like winks from strangers, but they can be a bit of fun between friends. However, has Steve said, people who are not full members of the site cant send personalised messages and often use the winks as a way of making contact.
For the auto-responder, go into Settings (left of page) click on Wink (at the top of the page) and pick the message you want (it will show the full message if you pick from the two on the drop down list).

Can they respond to a premium member that responds to them? If not then whats the point in ever sending a wink?
No they cant send anything apart from another wink (but not on the same day). However, it does show the member that someone is interested n meeting them, which (hopefully) gives them the incentive they need to join the site properly.
Quote by GnC29teeside
We have an auto responder? Ooooooooooo tell me more please wink

Click on 'Settings' under 'My Account' on the left hand side. Select the 'Wink' tab and set the message box with the response you wish to send to winkers. If it says 'none' it means the winks will be delivered to your inbox.
Just tried this very good advice but we don't have the extras upgrade so I guess i'm just gonna have to continue to ignore and delete winks when they come.
Thanks everyone for the feedback & help
Caz xx
This is a glitch with the new site - Admin are aware of it and it should be fixed sometime soon.
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I'm taking notes........... :twisted:

pmsl clever bugga Markz...but it got deleted along with the rest :twisted: