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bouncy332
Sex God
i have my settings set so i don't recieve them they get a mesage sent straight back to them saying to take the time to send me a message about them selves then i will take the time to respond
although i think that unless your a paying member or old free member they are the only way they can make contact but still kinda pointless
Unknown User
I always delete them without responding - unless they're from a friend just sent to wind me up :giggle:
Gufuncouple
Orgasminator
Without a doubt the most annoying feature of the site. We call them Moron Mail! lol
Thankfully, people can only send a limited amount of them per day. banghead
People with no ability to spend a few moments composing an original introductory mail are not for us.
We've now changed our Wink settings message to the following:
We have replied in kind (a wink), As you have obviously NOT taken the time and trouble to read our profile properly, you are not the kind of person(s) we would wish to meet. You have also been added to our 'Ignore' list and any further 'Winks' or 'Mails' are automatically deleted.
Unknown User
Quote by Gufuncouple
Without a doubt the most annoying feature of the site. We call them Moron Mail! lol
Thankfully, people can only send a limited amount of them per day. banghead
People with no ability to spend a few moments composing an original introductory mail are not for us.
We've now changed our Wink settings message to the following:
We have replied in kind (a wink), As you have obviously NOT taken the time and trouble to read our profile properly, you are not the kind of person(s) we would wish to meet. You have also been added to our 'Ignore' list and any further 'Winks' or 'Mails' are automatically deleted.

Dont send them Dont want them ????? they mean nothing .
trav..
Funlovers2009
Sex God
Quote by bouncy332
i have my settings set so i don't recieve them they get a mesage sent straight back to them saying to take the time to send me a message about themselves then i will take the time to respond
although i think that unless your a paying member or old free member they are the only way they can make contact but still kinda pointless

We disabled ours too and find that in the messages we get now most people will try to expain exactly how they think they are what we are looking for!! .... I did say most people though ... not all!! lol
I_am_joy
Master of Sex
I don't no effort = no response
Unknown User
Well, I'm a poor old soul, don't get many PMs, so am grateful for all the winks I can get! So wink away folks - the more the merrier.
Plim wink :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink:
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
little__gem
Sex God
Winks between mates are the swinging equivalent of the socialnetworkingwebsite 'poke'. smile
I like winks from people I know quite well. It's like a friendly nudgey opening gambit and a gentle pat all rolled into one. :) lol
Strangers on the other hand will see their winks deleted! Well, they won't see them, like as in actually see me hit the delete button.... but they will be and are deleted. :lol: So they won't see a reply, I suppose is what I mean.
I'm not always this air headed or ineloquent! Ok, only sometimes. But I'm never ever late.
kiss LG. x
Nimbus
Master of Sex
Quote by Plimboy
Well, I'm a poor old soul, don't get many PMs, so am grateful for all the winks I can get! So wink away folks - the more the merrier.
Plim wink :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink:
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:

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Have I used up the daily quota yet?
Unknown User
Quote by Nimbus
Well, I'm a poor old soul, don't get many PMs, so am grateful for all the winks I can get! So wink away folks - the more the merrier.
Plim wink :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink:
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:

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Have I used up the daily quota yet?
Oh thanks! That's made my day.
Plim :thumbup:
:bounce: :bounce::bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
gothicpunk
Sexpert
I just think they're quite funny when you get them from people you already know. I would never use a wink to try and get off with a stranger though. I would use my patented secret dance manouvers for that...
HJ
Orgasminator
On the other hand they are the ONLY way a new "Free" member can communicate with you -- and its then up to you to persuade aforsaid member to part with at least a months membership. So come on ladies -- all winks gratefully received !!!
skinny
Sex God
I use winks sometimes, I know people don't like them, I don't mean them to be a message as such, I'm just "bookmarking" a profile with a view to perhaps sending a more detailed message later.. Perhaps others do the same and perhaps there should be one that says "I'm just bookmarking your profile, might message you soon." I reply to winks usually..that's probably because no one ever writes to me . . javascript:%20add_code(':yinyang:');
Unknown User
Quote by Kaznkev
Ok so my dim moments in chat are kinda legendary already but last night i excelled myself,
I asked the room why someone would send me a 2 line message and ask me to respond?,You know the i like your profile check out mine one,and also asked why so many people send simular mesages,
Was informed that was a wink,i thought that was those little messages at the bottom of my profile redface
So know i know what a wink is i have a further question,What are they for?It seems kinda like spam to me, its obviously not directed at us and is so brief and impersonal that we feel under no inclination to respond.
Does anyone use them, am i missing a point(not for the first time)
Do others respond to them ?

:gagged:
Unknown User
Are they? Where did you get that little snippet from?
Naughty_Wigan_Couple
Sex God
Quote by Ste_n_Kez
Auto response to winks works a treat lol

Dam, now you tell me, might as well stop winking the pair of ya wink
westerross
Sex God
There's a few people on this thread that I'm tempted to send a wink to now (God I'm predictable rolleyes). But then I'd want to add something to it to personalise it. Can you do that or does it defeat the object? dunno
<<<<<Choon (wink virgin)>>>>>
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Sarah
Sex God
Quote by westerross
There's a few people on this thread that I'm tempted to send a wink to now (God I'm predictable rolleyes). But then I'd want to add something to it to personalise it. Can you do that or does it defeat the object? dunno
<<<<<Choon (wink virgin)>>>>>
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Why don't you try it out and see? lol
westerross
Sex God
Quote by Sarah
There's a few people on this thread that I'm tempted to send a wink to now (God I'm predictable rolleyes). But then I'd want to add something to it to personalise it. Can you do that or does it defeat the object? dunno
<<<<<Choon (wink virgin)>>>>>
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Why don't you try it out and see? lol
Damn - I just did and it doesn't!! :sad:
I wanted to add 'Life is like a butterfly'
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Unknown User
Quote by westerross
There's a few people on this thread that I'm tempted to send a wink to now (God I'm predictable rolleyes). But then I'd want to add something to it to personalise it. Can you do that or does it defeat the object? dunno
<<<<<Choon (wink virgin)>>>>>
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Why don't you try it out and see? lol
Damn - I just did and it doesn't!! :sad:
I wanted to add 'Life is like a butterfly'
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If you had extras, you could say whatever you wanted ;)