Don't know if this subject has been discussed already: But in my experience most women if asked, (and I would never ask one who I didn't know well enough), deny that they ever masturbate. Lately though I have had conversations with a lass who loves to admit wanking up to six times a day!
What I would like to do is ask the ladies here on SH two questions:
1. Do you wank and ifso are you ashamed to admit it?
2. Do your non swinging female freinds wank and ifso are they ashamed to admit it?
I will add a poll to this post, just for those who want to contribute anonymously.
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Women who admit masturbating?
Females only, do you wank? And dare you admit it??
Yes I masturbate occasionaly, but I am ashamed to admit it.
No I don't maturbate, but if I did I would not be ashamed to admit it.
Yes I masturbate occasionaly, and am not ashamed to admit it.
Yes I masturbate frequently, but I am ashamed to admit it.
Yes I masturbate but rarely, and am not ashamed to admit it.
Yes I masturbate but rarely, and I am ashamed to admit it.
Yes I masturbate frequently, and am not ashamed to admit it.
Quote by Mav&Sini
I do regularly (not quite as much as six times a day though) and have never been afriad to admit it. Some of my non swinging friends do admit it others dont - I think its about how confident you are with your self.
Sini
One of the main reasons for this enquiry, is because most guys, like myself, are more than ready to admit masturbating. And those who deny it are often laughed at and accused of telling lies! When I used to work nights, some of us guys were swapping porn movies, and the conversation upon there return was always about how many wanks they / I had. Obviously there were no women on that shift! LOL
Quote by Mav&Sini
ah yes, but in turn, women are much more open to admit their emotional insecurities... for either sex there are socially accepted 'taboos' your 'allowed' to chat about, they are often different.....
but this of course is not always true...
;)
IMO, if wanking was an Olympic sport, I would prolly be in training for my fifth gold medal! I don't even think it should be optional. LOL, vote for me and I'll make it compulsary.
Quote by colnlou
hi people,
i am not ashamed to admit it me and my partner love watching eachother do it in between sex and allsorts. women who deny it are lya's i dont care what n e 1 says all people are curious about their bodies therefore they explore alot.
n e way happywanking
lou xx
I don't think so. I rarely masturbate, and when I do, it's normally during foreplay. I'm sure there are a few women out there who don't have the urge.
I should do it more often, it's healthy and a great stress reliever!
Venusxxx
The problem with masturbation is (well to me it is) well, I lack the discipline. I know what I am trying to achieve, I know I am going to get it so I rarely take the scenic route to reach it. In fact I do a wham bam than k you ma-am masturbation.
However, I do find that masturbating is great for giving yourself a glow for before you go out in the evening....
However, I do find that masturbating is great for giving yourself a glow for before you go out in the evening....
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ops: :dunno: Interesting thread, I'm guessing the results here'll be slightly skewed because everyone here is pretty open about their sexuality.
A lot of my non-swinging friends would never admit to masturbating, some only admit it during a very drunken conversation and then only with vast amounts of giggling and euphemisms! I think it's true that women masturbating just isn't something that most people talk about.
As for me, I used to do it a lot when I was with a long-distance partner - always horny and he was never there! For some reason since we split up I've hardly bothered - even though I'm having less sex now, so logically should be masturbating more. Hmmm.... wonder why that is?
A lot of my non-swinging friends would never admit to masturbating, some only admit it during a very drunken conversation and then only with vast amounts of giggling and euphemisms! I think it's true that women masturbating just isn't something that most people talk about.
As for me, I used to do it a lot when I was with a long-distance partner - always horny and he was never there! For some reason since we split up I've hardly bothered - even though I'm having less sex now, so logically should be masturbating more. Hmmm.... wonder why that is?
Casanova
Got to agree with most of the ladies here, I masturbate very often, I find it a brilliant stress reliever.
Me and Mr Tiggs use it during foreplay also, there is nothing sexier than watching him wank himself off and he loves watching me and telling me what to do mmmmm nice thoughtsmmmmmmm
Most of my vanilla friends also mastubate as well and talk freely about it, but then I have come across the odd one or two that say, OMG id never do that!! which I think is total bull s**t lol, cause I think all women do or have at least tried it.
xxxxxx
Me and Mr Tiggs use it during foreplay also, there is nothing sexier than watching him wank himself off and he loves watching me and telling me what to do mmmmm nice thoughtsmmmmmmm
Most of my vanilla friends also mastubate as well and talk freely about it, but then I have come across the odd one or two that say, OMG id never do that!! which I think is total bull s**t lol, cause I think all women do or have at least tried it.
xxxxxx
What's to be ashamed of? Fair enough, I only talk about with friends who are also ito sex, but then you only talk about sex with friends who are into sex! Now that I'm a grown up (not embarrassed about bodies and stuff) of course I'm not 'ashamed' to admit it - what are you talking about ashamed for anyway!
The joke at the moment is that I am left at home doing assignments for uni at the mo and struggle to get through the day without getting distracted by net porn!
The joke at the moment is that I am left at home doing assignments for uni at the mo and struggle to get through the day without getting distracted by net porn!
Sex God
I don't like wankers and I'm not ashamed to admit it 
well like the majority say......masturbation is good for you plus god wouldnt of put our clit there if he just wanted it to be sexual things should be talked about freely nowadays people just think its a cosha subject,fair enough you wouldnt discuss it ova your roast parsnips on a sunday with your mum and dad but all the same sex and self stimulation is great!!!!!!people should be more open and experimental maybe it would stop partners from as my lovely fella has just said sexual eperiences should be kept abit quiet it keeps the excitement there!!!!!
happy shgin
lou n col xxxxx
happy shgin
lou n col xxxxx
