on wednesday I spent my afternoon at a walk-in std clinic with a good friend of mine, much to our shock and horror we have discovered she has genital warts, worse of all she is married and now has the task of telling her husband that as of now they must use contraception, my friend always uses protection and this is why we were so shocked, but found out all it needs is skin to skin contact, she now has to go through all the treatment and be tested for other stds, and now has the task of telling her previous lovers yes lovers that she has them, god what a eye opener this has been it has certainly made me sit back and think thats for sure.
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Sex God
Quote by stifflaxxx
i wouldnt say anything if i was her :gagged: or the divorce papers will be out :small-print:
you are joking right????
ffs how can you say that you would put someones health deliberately at risk just to save yourself from being found out?
people like you should be chemically castrated so as to stop you putting everyone else at risk!
if she does make love with her hubby without using protection then he is at risk as well so the divorce papers would be out anyway, this is with her for life now and she is going to have to pay the consequences, plus the lovers she has had and there wives, what a situation she is in, plus all the others that are going to get hurt along the way
Sex God
Quote by sizzling
on wednesday I spent my afternoon at a walk-in std clinic with a good friend of mine, much to our shock and horror we have discovered she has genital warts, worse of all she is married and now has the task of telling her husband that as of now they must use contraception,
I wonder if you *friend* knows you are telling all and sundry about her health?
Or maybe this is yet another dig at someone on here? In which case, let me tell you he is no longer a member and hasn't been for quite a while now. He has moved on with his life, even if you haven't
Play nicely now
T-J
my friend wants people to know as this is a warning and as for this member you are on about i know he isnt on here anymore its nothing to do with him or me, we are still in touch thanks and had some fun not so long ago, so please stop taking a dig at me everytime i post many thanks xxx
Sex God
i just have one question.......
if the warts were caused whilst your friend was using protection.. does that not mean that they are in a place not covered by a condom?
in that case using condoms with her husband will not protect him anyway.
sounds a horrid position to be in and one where she has no choice but to come clean.
almost makes honesty between partners sound almost appealing! :shock:
if the warts were caused whilst your friend was using protection.. does that not mean that they are in a place not covered by a condom?
in that case using condoms with her husband will not protect him anyway.
sounds a horrid position to be in and one where she has no choice but to come clean.
almost makes honesty between partners sound almost appealing! :shock:
Sex God
Quote by sizzling
if she does make love with her hubby without using protection then he is at risk as well so the divorce papers would be out anyway, this is with her for life now and she is going to have to pay the consequences, plus the lovers she has had and there wives, what a situation she is in, plus all the others that are going to get hurt along the way
Maybe she should have thought about that before taking all her lovers
Quote by sizzling
on wednesday I spent my afternoon at a walk-in std clinic with a good friend of mine, much to our shock and horror we have discovered she has genital warts, worse of all she is married and now has the task of telling her husband that as of now they must use contraception, my friend always uses protection and this is why we were so shocked, but found out all it needs is skin to skin contact, she now has to go through all the treatment and be tested for other stds, and now has the task of telling her previous lovers yes lovers that she has them, god what a eye opener this has been it has certainly made me sit back and think thats for sure .
I am always amazed how many people have to hit themselves in the face with a baseball bat before they ever consider whether it willl actually hurt..... by that I mean....
how many people enter into a sexually liberated lifesyle and don't actually think about STD's (very seriously) until later.
I do get concerned when people such as yourself say "things like this make you think" "it has been an eye-opener" (and this is not a dig at you - you are not the first) - I just feel this should have been one of the first things we all thought long and hard about before making any movement towards the swinging scene.
People may shut their eyes during sex - but should always approach it with their eyes wide open! :shock:
Orgasminator
if i was the hubby her ass would bounce off the kerb followed by a suitcase.
You do not have to "catch" genital warts. I have had warts all my life and i developed genital warts some years ago .... after a very, very long bout of celibacy :cry: , so there's no chance that i caught them from a partner.
So off i trundled down to the doctor, who gave me some acid stuff which i had to apply to the warts on a daily basis until the little blighters were gone. He asked me if i was sleeping with anyone ?, i replied "no"
and he warned me that i was not to do so until the warts were all gone. Apparently for men genital warts are harmless, but for women it is the complete opposite, we didn't go into it any more than that so i cannot enlighten you any further, but heed the warning, chaps if you've got'em get 'em treated and wear a condom until you have done so and ladies ... get down the doc's asap.
Just incase anyone is interested, i found mine whilst showering, they were around the base of me bell end
so when you are giving it a wash take a minute to check yourself. If you are unfortunate to find some then don't panic, get down to the doc and get it sorted.
Matt
So off i trundled down to the doctor, who gave me some acid stuff which i had to apply to the warts on a daily basis until the little blighters were gone. He asked me if i was sleeping with anyone ?, i replied "no"
and he warned me that i was not to do so until the warts were all gone. Apparently for men genital warts are harmless, but for women it is the complete opposite, we didn't go into it any more than that so i cannot enlighten you any further, but heed the warning, chaps if you've got'em get 'em treated and wear a condom until you have done so and ladies ... get down the doc's asap. Just incase anyone is interested, i found mine whilst showering, they were around the base of me bell end
so when you are giving it a wash take a minute to check yourself. If you are unfortunate to find some then don't panic, get down to the doc and get it sorted.Matt
Orgasminator
Quote by BrummyMatt
You do not have to "catch" genital warts. I have had warts all my life and i developed genital warts some years ago .... after a very, very long bout of celibacy :cry: , so there's no chance that i caught them from a partner.
Matt
Good point Matt, it's worth remembering that the only difference between genital warts and any other kind of wart is basically their location - they're all caused by the same group of viruses. On that note, it's perfectly possible to infect yourself if you've got a wart elsewhere on your body, or to become infected through doing things other than full-on penetrative sex.
Recalling a thread on here a few days ago, this is one reason why somebody might insist on the use of gloves/dental dams when playing with strangers, though personally I'm of the opinion that taking a bit of care over who you play with is probably almost as effective, since the two diseases I can think of that are particularly transmissable like this are both fairly obvious when they're at their most infectious, at least on blokes (warts and herpes).
having been on the receiving end of something like this, ie catching it off a partner
all i can say is she had better tell him
I found out a year or two later that the illness that i had had was caused by sexual
conduct and that the only place i could have got it was from him and he from another
woman.
Its over now and I am completley well, but if he had told me honestly there may have
been a chance to save our marrage.
As it was i kicked him to the curb. thank god.
lisamarie
all i can say is she had better tell him
I found out a year or two later that the illness that i had had was caused by sexual
conduct and that the only place i could have got it was from him and he from another
woman.
Its over now and I am completley well, but if he had told me honestly there may have
been a chance to save our marrage.
As it was i kicked him to the curb. thank god.
lisamarie
Quote by sizzling
on wednesday I spent my afternoon at a walk-in std clinic with a good friend of mine, much to our shock and horror we have discovered she has genital warts, worse of all she is married and now has the task of telling her husband that as of now they must use contraception, my friend always uses protection and this is why we were so shocked, but found out all it needs is skin to skin contact, she now has to go through all the treatment and be tested for other stds, and now has the task of telling her previous lovers yes lovers that she has them, god what a eye opener this has been it has certainly made me sit back and think thats for sure.
Did her husband not know about the lovers then????????
equi-princess xxx
Sexpert
Quote by tallnhairy
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Look we do need to take protection very serious, but wearing all that get up, when a condom will do just fine :lol: is a little over the top :lol: 
your friend may be beating herself up over this and how she is going to tell hubby for nothing.
I assume she didnt use condoms with hubby.............so is she 100% certain he hasnt infected her?????????
:twisted:
just thinking from a diff angle here
but it must be really tuff for her at moment
I assume she didnt use condoms with hubby.............so is she 100% certain he hasnt infected her?????????
:twisted:
just thinking from a diff angle here
but it must be really tuff for her at moment
