I was just wondering what people thought about people who are work in the Escort trade. Would you sleep with someone at a much knowing they are a working girl in their own time?
Is that better put then?
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Working girls. Yes or No
Sex God
I think its been asked before on here . I thought it was nothing to do with swinging then , and it still isnt .
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Quote by Silk and Big G
I think its been asked before on here . I thought it was nothing to do with swinging then , and it still isnt .
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Sorry if this has been done before but I cannot look into the passed. What I want to know is would you go with someone you know is or was a working girl? If you look at some of the postes then I could ask the same question. What has that got to do with SH.
Sex God
That isnt what you asked at all . Welcome to the site by the way xx
I still see no reason why the question should be posed here , im sure there many more relevant sites on the subject of prostituition .
I still see no reason why the question should be posed here , im sure there many more relevant sites on the subject of prostituition .
Sex God
Personally I don't think there is anything wrong with either profession, would it put me off going out with some one who worked as either? I don't know.
John
John
loads of questions get asked on here that are nowt to do with swinging. it seems like a valid point, if it was brought up in a pub then it would be discussed surely, its only the internet. just dont add to the post if you dont want to and it will soon drop into oblivion.
well thats what i reckon anyway
well thats what i reckon anyway
Sex God
Quote by Kit-Off
For example a prose will shag for a small amount in an alley but an Escort is much more expensive and wont go down an alley.
The only difference between them is the location and cost involved.
Escorts are just highly priced prostitutes.
At the end of the day, they both take money for sex, whatever end of the spectrum they are, so they would not be classed as swingers in my opinion.
Tracy-Jayne
Sex God
Quote by Kit-Off
I was just wondering what people thought about people who are work in the Escort trade. To me there is a difference between Escorts (not the car) and prostertutes. For example a prose will shag for a small amount in an alley but an Escort is much more expensive and wont go down an alley.
Do you think it is a good thing to do or not?
Would you go with someone at a munchetc if you knew he/she had been in the trade?
All the same, they both have sex for money - only difference is geography and cost
That isn't swinging.
I wouldn't knowingly go with anyone who had sex for money.
Would you?
Sex God
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Awww Dave that is an awful avatar!!!
oh don't say that....I'm feeling a little evil at the moment! :twisted:
Is little evil enjoying being felt?
Sex God
Quote by 300andy
loads of questions get asked on here that are nowt to do with swinging. it seems like a valid point, if it was brought up in a pub then it would be discussed surely, its only the internet. just dont add to the post if you dont want to and it will soon drop into oblivion.
well thats what i reckon anyway
Ok And' the second attempt had a little more merit because it was altered slightly to be relevant . The first was close to nonsense , and no not valid at all as it made no sense . There now you made me be offensive to a newbie , and i usually wait til their third or forth post ..hope youre happy LOLOLOL .
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Whilst I agree this is not strictly related to swinging, I once had a very close friend who had.... shall we say..... some extreme needs which bordered on nymphomania.
Her lifestyle was very similiar to that of a swinger but back then swinging wasn't such an "out" option. So, although the thought of charging for sex repulsed her, she made the decision to become an escort.
That choice of "profession" gave her exposure to many more men but with pre-defined limits. She had the choice of whether to sleep with them or not - based on the level of attraction.
At the end of the day (and it usually was) she was out with a different man 3 or 4 times a week, got a nice meal or went to a party, and slept with them if she fancied them. And on top of that she earnt very healthy living.
So, in answer to your question, yes there is a difference. An escort provides a more diverse service which may or may not include sex.
Her lifestyle was very similiar to that of a swinger but back then swinging wasn't such an "out" option. So, although the thought of charging for sex repulsed her, she made the decision to become an escort.
That choice of "profession" gave her exposure to many more men but with pre-defined limits. She had the choice of whether to sleep with them or not - based on the level of attraction.
At the end of the day (and it usually was
) she was out with a different man 3 or 4 times a week, got a nice meal or went to a party, and slept with them if she fancied them. And on top of that she earnt very healthy living.So, in answer to your question, yes there is a difference. An escort provides a more diverse service which may or may not include sex.
Quote by RedHot
For example a prose will shag for a small amount in an alley but an Escort is much more expensive and wont go down an alley.
The only difference between them is the location and cost involved.
Escorts are just highly priced prostitutes.
At the end of the day, they both take money for sex, whatever end of the spectrum they are, so they would not be classed as swingers in my opinion.
Tracy-Jayne
As a swinger would you like to be told if someone was or is a working girl/man before you desided to sleep with them?
Sex God
Quote by Kit-Off
For example a prose will shag for a small amount in an alley but an Escort is much more expensive and wont go down an alley.
The only difference between them is the location and cost involved.
Escorts are just highly priced prostitutes.
At the end of the day, they both take money for sex, whatever end of the spectrum they are, so they would not be classed as swingers in my opinion.
Tracy-Jayne
As a swinger would you like to be told if someone was or is a working girl/man before you desided to sleep with them?
She answered your question - you're moving the goalposts!
Quote by Kit-Off
For example a prose will shag for a small amount in an alley but an Escort is much more expensive and wont go down an alley.
The only difference between them is the location and cost involved.
Escorts are just highly priced prostitutes.
At the end of the day, they both take money for sex, whatever end of the spectrum they are, so they would not be classed as swingers in my opinion.
Tracy-Jayne
As a swinger would you like to be told if someone was or is a working girl/man before you desided to sleep with them?
Why what difference would it make.....are you saying you wouldn't because of thieir profession....is this about safe sex?
Quote by Silk and Big G
loads of questions get asked on here that are nowt to do with swinging. it seems like a valid point, if it was brought up in a pub then it would be discussed surely, its only the internet. just dont add to the post if you dont want to and it will soon drop into oblivion.
well thats what i reckon anyway
Ok And' the second attempt had a little more merit because it was altered slightly to be relevant . The first was close to nonsense , and no not valid at all as it made no sense . There now you made me be offensive to a newbie , and i usually wait til their third or forth post ..hope youre happy LOLOLOL .
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Thing havent been to bad thank you. Some people have been great but others havent but I cant expect everyone to be happy like me. But if you went to a much and found out the person you went with had been an escort would you still want to be with them?
As for the jobs - all I have to say is "supply and demand" .
No - because a munch is a social event and people would get upset by such behaviour - if I started shagging at the bar that is.
On an almost serious note....
I feel a more interesting question would be: would you have sex with a person you knew normally paid for it??????
Would you go with someone at a munchetc if you knew he/she had been in the trade?
No - because a munch is a social event and people would get upset by such behaviour - if I started shagging at the bar that is.
On an almost serious note....
I feel a more interesting question would be: would you have sex with a person you knew normally paid for it??????
Sex God
This subject has many options.
For instance it could be you meet a couple in a club where the man has paid a "working girl" to go with him. If he had worked out a good cover story with her, then you might not know the relationship was false and you might find youself unwittingly having sex with a prositute while the man has sex with your wife.
Or you might meet a girl at a munch who is an escort occassionally to pay for her childs upkeep, but she is in the lifestyle as "recreation". You might have sex with her.
How about this scenario then,a married couple have a long held fantasy which needs an extra woman. Easiest thing to do is hire a prositute to make it come true, rather than try and find a single girl who would go along with their fantasy.
None of the above has happened to us (we think) but if we ever did have such a fantasy who is to say we would not be willing to pay a girl to make it happen.
John & Shel
For instance it could be you meet a couple in a club where the man has paid a "working girl" to go with him. If he had worked out a good cover story with her, then you might not know the relationship was false and you might find youself unwittingly having sex with a prositute while the man has sex with your wife.
Or you might meet a girl at a munch who is an escort occassionally to pay for her childs upkeep, but she is in the lifestyle as "recreation". You might have sex with her.
How about this scenario then,a married couple have a long held fantasy which needs an extra woman. Easiest thing to do is hire a prositute to make it come true, rather than try and find a single girl who would go along with their fantasy.
None of the above has happened to us (we think) but if we ever did have such a fantasy who is to say we would not be willing to pay a girl to make it happen.
John & Shel
Sex God
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Why is everyone so hostile? FFS sometimes it's easy to log out of here!
:thumbup:
however, best guess?
cos it's an easy option.
Sex God
Quote by Kit-Off
For example a prose will shag for a small amount in an alley but an Escort is much more expensive and wont go down an alley.
The only difference between them is the location and cost involved.
Escorts are just highly priced prostitutes.
At the end of the day, they both take money for sex, whatever end of the spectrum they are, so they would not be classed as swingers in my opinion.
Tracy-Jayne
As a swinger would you like to be told if someone was or is a working girl/man before you desided to sleep with them?
I am astounded that you feel the need to ask that question of me
I have already given you my opinion of escorts. If that isn't plain enough for you, let me spell it out in simpl easy to understand terms
*I would not have sex with someone who works in the sex industry, whether they charge £15 on a street corner or £200 an hour and expect a fancy dinner thrown in. I do not see them as swingers.*
I know there are at least a couple of escorts as members on this site, but in my opinion they should not be here :?
Is that plain enough for you? :dry:
Tracy-Jayne
Quote by Libra+Love
Why is everyone so hostile? FFS sometimes it's easy to log out of here!
With Libra here, lets chill out there, this is a valid series of questions? Is this not how conversations go?
To go with Pololady, I would personally not care if someone previously was a prostitute, working girl, escort, whatever. Ok there are worries about safe sex, but equally there are questions to be asked about someone who for example has a new partner each week from a night club for 4 years in their youth?
I have knowingly had a girlfriend who used to be professional, no no one in my recent past, but our relationship at the time was like any other boy / girlfriend. So I would say it is hypocrytical to consider a 'professional' past over any other kind of past, especially if the person has tested ok for the occupational hazards...
A lot of these people (lets not forget they are people) have had a very rough ride, they need our support, not our scorn.
Quote by PoloLady
As for the jobs - all I have to say is "supply and demand" .
Would you go with someone at a munchetc if you knew he/she had been in the trade?
No - because a munch is a social event and people would get upset by such behaviour - if I started shagging at the bar that is.
On an almost serious note....
I feel a more interesting question would be: would you have sex with a person you knew normally paid for it??????
Not going to a munch to work. Would you be HAPPY knowing someone at the much was a working girl/man as a profeshon
Quote by Kit-Off
As for the jobs - all I have to say is "supply and demand" .
Would you go with someone at a munchetc if you knew he/she had been in the trade?
No - because a munch is a social event and people would get upset by such behaviour - if I started shagging at the bar that is.
On an almost serious note....
I feel a more interesting question would be: would you have sex with a person you knew normally paid for it??????
Not going to a munch to work. Would you be HAPPY knowing someone at the much was a working girl/man as a profeshon
Depends if I was HAPPY with the person for who they are, not what they are.
BTW - you didn't answer the question re: the punters?
Quote by PoloLady
As for the jobs - all I have to say is "supply and demand" .
Would you go with someone at a munchetc if you knew he/she had been in the trade?
No - because a munch is a social event and people would get upset by such behaviour - if I started shagging at the bar that is.
On an almost serious note....
I feel a more interesting question would be: would you have sex with a person you knew normally paid for it??????
Not going to a munch to work. Would you be HAPPY knowing someone at the much was a working girl/man as a profeshon
Depends if I was HAPPY with the person for who they are, not what they are.
BTW - you didn't answer the question re: the punters?
So then you wouldent mind then. That is all I wanted to know. It is the person then not what they do.
Sex God
As long as they're clean and they don't want money off me then no I wouldn't care.
