hi all
im actually a disabled girl 36 married with 1 son
we have always fancied swinging but thought people would be put off
i had a car crash in 1992 and has left me wheelchair bound but its only my back thats injuired not my mind
im finding it very differcult to find a suitable couple in the north east area
i dont no why
people tend to back away when they hear wheelchair
thanks for listening
varna xxxx
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would any of you's be put off by a disabled women
Hello and welcome in from the cold of lurking.
I'm gonna guess you've already read this > http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewpost/434760.html#434760
I'm quite sure people far more eloquent and more informed than me will be along tomorrow to help put your mind at rest.
Relax and enjoy your stay. Both of you.
Welcome to the asylum.
I'm gonna guess you've already read this > http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewpost/434760.html#434760
I'm quite sure people far more eloquent and more informed than me will be along tomorrow to help put your mind at rest.
Relax and enjoy your stay. Both of you.
Welcome to the asylum.
Orgasminator
Quote by lucylocket
hi all
im actually a disabled girl 36 married with 1 son
we have always fancied swinging but thought people would be put off
i had a car crash in 1992 and has left me wheelchair bound but its only my back thats injuired not my mind
im finding it very differcult to find a suitable couple in the north east area
i dont no why
people tend to back away when they hear wheelchair
thanks for listening
varna xxxx
:welcome: to you both i hope you enjoy this site and all it has to offer and in regards to your post i would say to you great sex is in the mind, and the body just comes along for the ride.
Pardon the pun but seriously you do not have to explain yourself or your desires to anyone.
They will accept you for who you are or not, whether you are disabled or not.
Hope you find what you are looking for.
shad.
Quote by duncanlondon
The Sex Maniacs Ball has often and probably still does run the event for the benefit of the disabled. At one of the balls a lot of of disabled turned up ready to play, kitted out etc.
So its not unheard of.
We went last year and you are most correct Duncan
This year it is on Saturday 3rd September 2005
Noone is for everyone, be it the size of your body, the colour of you skin or indeed a wheelchair, personally it wouldn't put me off meeting, i'll meet anybody for a drink and see where it leads and i think many others will as well, i would imagine if you posted a add you would still get many replys to it off here.
Happy hunting :thumbup:
Happy hunting :thumbup:
Quote by lucylocket
hi all
im actually a disabled girl 36 married with 1 son
we have always fancied swinging but thought people would be put off
i had a car crash in 1992 and has left me wheelchair bound but its only my back thats injuired not my mind
im finding it very differcult to find a suitable couple in the north east area
i dont no why
people tend to back away when they hear wheelchair
thanks for listening
varna xxxx
Get on and enjoy whatever you want to do,,,others opinions are not as important as your own faith hope and ambition,, enjoy SH too
hi both
and a great big welcome to the site i have been a member for a little while now and i must say that i have only ever seen discrimination against idiots on this site
never anything to do with age race colour creed or disabilitty
most of the people on here are just very genuine folk just looking for fun and if you did happen to get the odd idiot just report them to one of the mods they will sort it out
so just carry on posting and hope you both have a great time
colin
and a great big welcome to the site i have been a member for a little while now and i must say that i have only ever seen discrimination against idiots on this site
never anything to do with age race colour creed or disabilitty
most of the people on here are just very genuine folk just looking for fun and if you did happen to get the odd idiot just report them to one of the mods they will sort it out
so just carry on posting and hope you both have a great time
colin
Quote by lucylocket
hi all
im actually a disabled girl 36 married with 1 son
we have always fancied swinging but thought people would be put off
i had a car crash in 1992 and has left me wheelchair bound but its only my back thats injuired not my mind
im finding it very differcult to find a suitable couple in the north east area
i dont no why
people tend to back away when they hear wheelchair
thanks for listening
varna xxxx
Hi Lucy,
Welcome to the Forum, we have all got feelings, disabled or not, predjudice is not confined to physical disability, there is always hostility from some people, full stop. don't let that stop you posting, have a nice time. :happy:
Quote by lucylocket
hi all
im actually a disabled girl 36 married with 1 son
we have always fancied swinging but thought people would be put off
i had a car crash in 1992 and has left me wheelchair bound but its only my back thats injuired not my mind
im finding it very differcult to find a suitable couple in the north east area
i dont no why
people tend to back away when they hear wheelchair
thanks for listening
varna xxxx
i take people as i find then, i wouldn't judge someone for there ability or lack of them!..
the way i see it, a wheel chair doesnt change a persons personality, and that in my book is the most important thing about a person.
so no, it wouldn't stop me meeting a person if they were disabled
Jiggle
Sex God
Quote by Jiggle
i take people as i find then, i wouldn't judge someone for there ability or lack of them!..
the way i see it, a wheel chair doesnt change a persons personality, and that in my book is the most important thing about a person.
so no, it wouldn't stop me meeting a person if they were disabled
Jiggle
Extremely well put Jiggle. I couldn't agree more so LucyLocket enjoy yourself, and I hope to meet up with you sometime soon.
John
Quote by duncanlondon
I am the sort that thinks I am okay with disabilities, but often gradually become intolerant and a bit squeamish about it. That's me.
Well done you for your honesty.
I am sure there are many more people who know this to be the case, than would even admit to themselves.
Just, well, they're not on here by the bucketful.
:lol: :lol:Thanks duncanlondon for your honesty
I think that's how most people see it - even the most welcoming - ok for a short time but not for the long haul. A minority will not want to know from the beginning while another minority would be ok, as long as they got on with you personally.
Peope would consider I am a disabled person (though I wouldn't go along with the label) so I do have experience
I've advertised as such, and even advertised asking to meet disabled women but it hasn't made a jot of difference.
Happy Swinging!
TB
I think that's how most people see it - even the most welcoming - ok for a short time but not for the long haul. A minority will not want to know from the beginning while another minority would be ok, as long as they got on with you personally.
Peope would consider I am a disabled person (though I wouldn't go along with the label) so I do have experience
I've advertised as such, and even advertised asking to meet disabled women but it hasn't made a jot of difference.
Happy Swinging!
TB
