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hotels and public places.
there maybe exceptions... but only when the relationship is such that complete trust has been tested and proved on both sides.
for safety I always text a friend (yes i have them outside swinging) with all the details of the person I am with. Room number/car reg any personal details- names age etc and also the user name off the site. My best friend also has my passwords and log in details for this site. And all my "getting to know you" stuff is done on here so IP addresses and such like can be gleaned about the person I am meeting/have met.
Splendid
there maybe exceptions... but only when the relationship is such that complete trust has been tested and proved on both sides.
for safety I always text a friend (yes i have them outside swinging) with all the details of the person I am with. Room number/car reg any personal details- names age etc and also the user name off the site. My best friend also has my passwords and log in details for this site. And all my "getting to know you" stuff is done on here so IP addresses and such like can be gleaned about the person I am meeting/have met.
Splendid
Sex God
hotels and public places.
there maybe exceptions... but only when the relationship is such that complete trust has been tested and proved on both sides.
for safety I always text a friend (yes i have them outside swinging) with all the details of the person I am with. Room number/car reg any personal details- names age etc and also the user name off the site. My best friend also has my passwords and log in details for this site. And all my "getting to know you" stuff is done on here so IP addresses and such like can be gleaned about the person I am meeting/have met.
Splendid
Very very sensible Splendid :thumbup:
pink x
It is daughnting, regardless of how long you've spent getting to know some-one on-line, in the real world they could be anyone and thier intentions could be far from what they've told you. I always tell some-one where I'm going to be, usually my swing partner as he has all my log in details should anything go wrong. But you take the same precautions you would in any other circumstance, meet in public places and go to a hotel. It is a sad state of affiars that we have to be this cautious but there we are.
H.x
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Quote by Kiss
I have never gone alone to a persons home or invited anyone to mine. And I don't just mean a first meeting I mean ever.
Kiss!.. you had a makeover! like the hair :shock:
As for the question, I don't think a woman should ever meet at her own place for first meeting or any after that unless she's in a full on relationship with that person. She needs to be telling someone she's on a date on her own, leaving whereabouts and numbers. This whole are scares me for single females out on their own.
Quote by stevestoo
In my quest to find a girl or a couple,i got to thinking .... Do girls meet guys either at the guys place or some where else just for sex on their own ? am refering to the saftey aspect of it for the girls , must be quite daunting
.... is this just a ploy to find out which girls do and which girls dont
mrs cuk does all of the above.
safetywise she will talk to them over a period of time and let me know where shes meeting (usually a pub first), what their address is (if she is going to theirs), car reg etc etc ... what ever you do is not 100% safe but it is far better (safer) than picking somebody up in a pub, club etc etc
I've only met a couple of guys and one of those became my regular intimate friend ( lucky me :twisted: ) but I always meet in a public place and let someone know where I'll be. I'd never consider meeting at a guy's house until I know him a hell of a lot better and even then I'd be wary. I often do the same when meeting fems but I have had meets that have 'happened' the same day though I somehow feel a lot safer meeting ladies alone.
Quote by splendid33
hotels and public places.
there maybe exceptions... but only when the relationship is such that complete trust has been tested and proved on both sides.
for safety I always text a friend (yes i have them outside swinging) with all the details of the person I am with. Room number/car reg any personal details- names age etc and also the user name off the site. My best friend also has my passwords and log in details for this site. And all my "getting to know you" stuff is done on here so IP addresses and such like can be gleaned about the person I am meeting/have met.
Splendid
I totally agree with Splendid! :thumbup:
Yes Single Girls DO meet!
...& she drove nearly 60 miles in the snow wearing a mini skirt! :shock: (& boots
)After being on this site for only a month I had the fantastic fortune to meet up with the most wonderful friend on SH (hi babe)... Yes I went out of my way to make sure she knew who I was & she trusted me enough despite advice against doing so - she was still apprehensive about meeting me at my house as I was a total unknown on SH!!!
Up to now I still value her friendship & I would like to think its not just the playing - she's more than welcome to do the ironing!
...coz I trust her! :giggle:
But seriously care MUST be taken by all parties not just for single females but for single males, couples bisexuals gays transvestites & any other engendered sexual being who is willing to meet relative unknowns on any site
cams, emails, word of mouth or anything you can use to verify identity's should be used.
Its a scary world out there when someone decides not to play by the rules
Quote by redpantherman
hotels and public places.
there maybe exceptions... but only when the relationship is such that complete trust has been tested and proved on both sides.
for safety I always text a friend (yes i have them outside swinging) with all the details of the person I am with. Room number/car reg any personal details- names age etc and also the user name off the site. My best friend also has my passwords and log in details for this site. And all my "getting to know you" stuff is done on here so IP addresses and such like can be gleaned about the person I am meeting/have met.
Splendid
I totally agree with Splendid! :thumbup:
Yes Single Girls DO meet!
...& she drove nearly 60 miles in the snow wearing a mini skirt! :shock: (& boots
)After being on this site for only a month I had the fantastic fortune to meet up with the most wonderful friend on SH (hi babe)... Yes I went out of my way to make sure she knew who I was & she trusted me enough despite advice against doing so - she was still apprehensive about meeting me at my house as I was a total unknown on SH!!!
Up to now I still value her friendship & I would like to think its not just the playing - she's more than welcome to do the ironing!
...coz I trust her! :giggle:
But seriously care MUST be taken by all parties not just for single females but for single males, couples bisexuals gays transvestites & any other engendered sexual being who is willing to meet relative unknowns on any site
cams, emails, word of mouth or anything you can use to verify identity's should be used.
Its a scary world out there when someone decides not to play by the rules
Awwww, TY babe (IRONING??
)But it has to be said safety precautions were taken- I also arranged to call home at certain times that he was unaware of, and had codewords etc set up.
Oh, and he forgot to mention that im not exactly a pushover. As it happens, the next time we met was when he came down to spend the whole day
supporting me as I took silver in a national Martial Arts contest :giggle: 
Sex God
If you want to meet people there is always going to be an element of risk involved,its just a question of minimising it to limits within which you feel comfortable.
my first meeting with someone off here was like a military operation for me..I even went on a little recon of the area to to check for escape routes etc
I had a LOT of safety measures for our meeting in place similar to those that have already been mentioned in the thread,but was still very very nervewracked :shock:
all in all despite his declaration that he was an axe moyderer,he turned out to be a lovely fella,and i have no regrets for taking that plunge
my first meeting with someone off here was like a military operation for me..I even went on a little recon of the area to to check for escape routes etc
I had a LOT of safety measures for our meeting in place similar to those that have already been mentioned in the thread,but was still very very nervewracked :shock:
all in all despite his declaration that he was an axe moyderer,he turned out to be a lovely fella,and i have no regrets for taking that plunge
Warming the Bed
not had the pleasure (luck?) of meeting anyone yet, but i would insist on meeting up somewhere public first, proving im who i say i am, giving my address & making sure that they let someone know what they were up to. its a sad reflection on our society, but i would also want some details cos (& no disrespect to ANYONE on this site,)how many times do you pick up a paper & read false accusations of for whatever reason. trust your instinct, if it doesnt feel right, walk away
Quote by winchwench
I've met a few single females (tes they do really exist):o At their place and that being on the first time meet also!!!
That really scares me! I do hope they got & confirmed your address first somehow :shock:
Thank fluck you're not a nutter
Cheer's
:roll: I'm only a nutter if I'm fed Monster Munch after 1am :wink: anytime before that I'm ok apart from the slight twitch
:lol: Quote by makaveli69
I've met a few single females (tes they do really exist)
That really scares me! I do hope they got & confirmed your address first somehow :shock:
Thank fluck you're not a nutter
Cheer's
:roll: I'm only a nutter if I'm fed Monster Munch after 1am :wink: anytime before that I'm ok apart from the slight twitch
:lol:Phew!
Any particular flavour? :notes:
Quote by winchwench
I've met a few single females (tes they do really exist)
That really scares me! I do hope they got & confirmed your address first somehow :shock:Thank fluck you're not a nutter
Just makes it difficult for the nice guys, this paranoia brought on by the odd chancers and bullies.
One of the problems of tying up with someone with a username like "bigcock4u" and 2 posts to their credit
Sex God
Quote by winchwench
I'm only a nutter if I'm fed Monster Munch after 1am
Phew!
Any particular flavour? :notes:
What is this stuff? Never had any.
I must be a monster munch virgin.
