Ever swing with someone who is physically disabled?
The word disabled covers way too many possibilities. Most people would be capable of finding a disabled person attractive. I have been intimate with a wheelchair user, it really wasn't a factor at the time, and much preferred to spending time with the gorgeous lunatic who wants you all of the time.
Swinging tends to be quite different though, as meetings are arranged, and therefore considered beforehand. The ticking of boxes which takes place might well be enough to prevent someone from arranging the meet in the first instance. In that sense it's likely, for instance, that someone with a disability would be crossed off a list just as easily as someone over a certain age would.
Going beyond that, all of you who have been here for any amount of time know that there are guys who will shag anyone, however the original question did not refer to any mental deficiency.
Been there done that and quite fancied a spin in the wheelchair too.
At our forthcoming party we have one wheelchair bound guest on the confirmed guest list who will be staying in our home for the event, if I have any feelings about disabled people whatsoever is how the buggers are so much fitter and capable than me, if you want to know what I mean by that watch the paralympics or those who today completed the vLondon Marathon.
Physical attraction is important to many, to us sexual attraction is the second most important factor the first being personality, abled or disabled personality can be non-existant and that is the question you should perhaps be asking.
Would you play with someone who you disliked just because you found them sexually attractive ? I wouldn't.