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Quote by hagrid

Oh God here we go!! why do i just know im going to be pshyco analaysed???

Because I posted on your thread and that`s what I do? :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
Here's what I do:
1) Never analyse
2)Never apologise
rotflmao :rotflmao:
Bollocks!!!
Quote by chipy
isnt it said that complete opposites attract

Bollox.
(What the hell, it's as good a bandwagon as any smile )
/Venus would like to take this opportunity to point out that the thread disintegrated onto BOLLOX when Tune joined the fray.
This time it wasn`t me! :smug:
Venusxxx
No (as ice pie said)
and bollox as most others have said!!!
confused :?
Quote by foxylady 123
Following on from the Physical Attraction thread
Could/would you fuck someone you hated and detested? Someone who has opposite values/ ideas to yourself?Someone you cant bare to be in the same room as?
I could / would without doubt!!

I hate you too........ so how about saturday biggrin :D Jokes.
Quote by VenusnMars
/Venus would like to take this opportunity to point out that the thread disintegrated onto BOLLOX when Tune joined the fray.
This time it wasn`t me! :smug:
Venusxxx

Hang-on I contributed a few Spot-ons as well. lol :lol: Sorry folks.
I'm up early tomorrow so good night!
No bollox lol
No I couldn't, at all, ever, ever.
Bev
xx
Quote by foxylady 123
Because it would only be sex and as long as the sexual chemistry was right, why not?I dont need to like the person.

I can can empathise with this to an extent. I am like that with dancing. I don't need to know someone to enjoy moving with them on the salsa or jive dance floor, I don't need to like the person they are off the dance floor, only the person they are on the dance floor. If there is sufficient rapport there, they have reasonable etiquette, and can dance, that's what I need. And by the same chalk, I don't like to dance with all the people I like.
Take a club situation. People mostly have their clothes off already. I look for things like, are they gentle? are they considerate? do I trust them? do they respect the spirit of the club rules? Is there enough chemistry (based on goodness knows what - physical stuff, attitude, the way they flirt maybe, the way they move)? How keen are they?
Their politics and attitudes outside the club are of little interest unless we socialise outside. If some overriding factor comes up that made me think that person was totally immoral that would influence me, but generally it doesn't.
Of course, a lotof the time, even in a club, you get to know a bit more about someone first. If it was a private meet, I'd want to know quite a lot more I think - and like the person . . .
This is not as odd as it seems. Many couples fall out bitterly, end up hating each other etc. But they can still have great sex and often do many times before finally parting.
My only experience of something close to this occurred some years ago. I met a pleasant and loving woman, who was unfortunately very unattractive. Well into her thrities she was still a virgin, and occupied with charities and churches etc. All good girl's own stuff. Her ghastly friends had nothing but praise for her and her work. However they had all acquired the habit of treating the woman like a pet dog.
Following a party she invited me to stay. So I did, and we had sex. But it was a struggle to enjoy myself.
Quote by duncanlondon
This is not as odd as it seems. Many couples fall out bitterly, end up hating each other etc. But they can still have great sex and often do many times before finally parting.

redface surprisedops: :oops: Have to confess to that one, I hate my ex hubby but if I fancy a shag and he's around then I do 'give in' to his predictable advances. Still don't know why, he's never improved his skills despite the woman he left me for being so fantastic rolleyes
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Well into her thrities she was still a virgin, and occupied with charities and churches etc. Following a party she invited me to stay. So I did, and we had sex. But it was a struggle to enjoy myself.

Which goes to show the old saying, "If you want a good game of golf, don't play witha beginner." wink :P
while on a business trip up north a girl i had met before 3 yrs ago (thru work), she was still the same obnoxious girl as then jumped into my hotel bed and got her boobs out and i i was a lost cause! i wouldnt say i couldnt stand being in the same room as her but certainly couldnt connect with her with her clothes on. the sex was good though!
Quote by foxylady 123
I am thinking particularly of a guy, a few years ago who i could not abide, he was Tory (says it all) and we had many a run in politically, he was smarmy, he was the embodiment of the conservative party. ..... dunno

So that would be Tony Blair then!! wink
Quote by MQ
This is not as odd as it seems. Many couples fall out bitterly, end up hating each other etc. But they can still have great sex and often do many times before finally parting.

redface surprisedops: :oops: Have to confess to that one, I hate my ex hubby but if I fancy a shag and he's around then I do 'give in' to his predictable advances. Still don't know why, he's never improved his skills despite the woman he left me for being so fantastic rolleyes
Not since we split, but throughout my previous marriage (apart from the post childbirth times) my ex and I had sex. At the end of the marriage, I think we had more sex than usual... I was frustrated and horny as hell after talking/cybering and he happened to be near-by, and happened to have the equipment required. We never spoke. I never kissed him during the last 3 years or so... he turned my stomach. But yeah, I used him for sex.
Hmmm, Interesting thread this.
Our first instinct was to say “no way, no how” but on consideration would guess that it depends a lot on the circumstances, have met some really sexy looking people who have turned out to be less than likeable, would still have shagged them though.
Guess at the end of the day it’s the old thing of what your needs are, if your take on swinging is sex and making friends then the answer is NO. If its just for the pure unadulterated sex, then it must be a YES.
Having said that ……………… OH B****X this is worse than spaghetti junction. :confused:
Probably...But I would have to be attracted to their body or looks......
If you both realised it is pure sex only...would probably be pretty intense too!
We are much more likely to be put off by people's attitudes than looks. Some of the best sex we have had is with people we wouldn't have looked at twice in the street.
yes i have to show thew individual up for the to faced fucker she was :twisted:
I've had sex with a woman friend after we've broken up - couldn't resist it. Still loved her I think - we just new it wouldn't work. Felt like a heel and then did it again.
I've really gone off foxylady - does that mean I'm in with a chance? wink
Just a slight variation on the theme here, I was wondering...
Regardless of whether you would have sex with someone you don't like, would you have sex with someone who can't stand you?
Not even a remote possibility that I would ever want to do that.
Equally Ice i can't imagine wanting to inflict myself on someone who disliked me that much, why hurt someone when you don't need to?
Jas
XXX
Quote by Jas-Tim
Not even a remote possibility that I would ever want to do that.
Equally Ice i can't imagine wanting to inflict myself on someone who disliked me that much, why hurt someone when you don't need to?
Jas
XXX

I can't see the appeal of it either, but evidently there are those who can. I'm wondering if it's a 'forbidden fruit' type of thing. dunno
no i could not
even for money i would struggle lol :lol:
its a no from me
I wouldnt waste my time nor energy on someone i couldnt detest or if they detested me. Im very picky, only the best get selected! lol
Quote by GenHertsCpl
I wouldnt waste my time nor energy on someone i couldnt detest or if they detested me. Im very picky, only the best get selected! lol

rolleyes whatever
:twisted:
Quote by foxylady 123
Following on from the Physical Attraction thread
Could/would you fuck someone you hated and detested? Someone who has opposite values/ ideas to yourself?Someone you cant bare to be in the same room as?
I could / would without doubt!!
got to admit you have balls to say that. at the moment i dont know iam still thinking.
conclusion - no
Quote by Ice Pie
Just a slight variation on the theme here, I was wondering...
Regardless of whether you would have sex with someone you don't like, would you have sex with someone who can't stand you?

rotflmao :rotflmao: Tes, of course i would, but only on my terms and my conditiions, eg when i wanted and how i wanted!!!
Quote by bikerdave
Following on from the Physical Attraction thread
Could/would you fuck someone you hated and detested? Someone who has opposite values/ ideas to yourself?Someone you cant bare to be in the same room as?
I could / would without doubt!!
got to admit you have balls to say that. at the moment i dont know iam still thinking.
conclusion - no
Nope, sorry to dissapoint , i aint got any balls!!!
I do!
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Venusxxx