Quote by splendid_
- I actually think sex under those circumstances is .
It certainly isn't swinging
Why do I find 's post a little strange
I don't know but I feel like has some other motive in his post that I am missing :dunno:
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Would you shag someone you don`t like ?
Sex God
Quote by Dawnie
- I actually think sex under those circumstances is .
It certainly isn't swinging
Why do I find 's post a little strange
I don't know but I feel like has some other motive in his post that I am missing :dunno:
I thought it was just me that found it odd.
Sex God
Ah, glad you lot have said this, I had drafted a reply this morning very similar to FB's in that this is a very very different situation, but deleted it not wanting to sound controlling and not letting everyone have their say in a thread even if off tangent.
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Quote by matt_1974
- I actually think sex under those circumstances is .
It certainly isn't swinging
Why do I find 's post a little strange
I don't know but I feel like has some other motive in his post that I am missing :dunno:
uh huh - very odd...Yes, it could be , often is , or sex trafficking, abusive relationships.
My motive? I have had contact with some of the women. Don't judge them, too harshly.
Sex God
Quote by flower411
Just in case anybody is concerned about my motives for starting this thread, I`d just like to say that I meant
"Would you shag someone you don`t like......for pleasure ? "
That`s all :shock:
I don't think anyone was questioning your motives.
Sex God
i would never have sex with someone i do not like, but i have had sex with many people that i learnt i disliked afterwards!
Sex God
Quote by Dawnie
Yes, it could be , often is , or sex trafficking, abusive relationships.
My motive? I have had contact with some of the women. Don't judge them, too harshly.
Nope, I still don't get it
Who was judging anyone :dunno:
Someone explain this too me please
Nobody judged anyone. The only person to mention the women spoke of, was him. If he hadn't, we wouldn't be any the wiser. Still don't get why he had to mention them, as it wasn't about anything like that.
Sex God
I have to like the person that I have sex with. What is the point if you don't like or feel attracted to them 
goodness me, I wouldn't dream of judging anyone who used sex to achieve their goals. The only harm it would do is to themselves and believe me I know how damaging it can be for people to give their body in exchange for freedom, food, shelter. For some it is simply marriage. For others it is a career 'choice'.
It certainly isn't swinging tho'.
It is horrid to realise after you have had sex with someone that you really don't like them. It makes me more and more pedantic the next time I pick someone. Or I just take a break from the swinging thing and enjoy masturbating several times a day.
It certainly isn't swinging tho'.
It is horrid to realise after you have had sex with someone that you really don't like them. It makes me more and more pedantic the next time I pick someone. Or I just take a break from the swinging thing and enjoy masturbating several times a day.
Quote by well_busty_babe
i would never have sex with someone i do not like, but i have had sex with many people that i learnt i disliked afterwards!
Absolutely I can connect with that sentiment WBB. I once has many fabulous times with someone I cared a lot about about, but later you find out "things", something happens that allows you to see past the "all luved up" feeling.
All that said, do I regret those times? Nope, definitely not because at the time it was all a wonderful experience.
Quote by Mistress_39
Or I just take a break from the swinging thing and enjoy masturbating several times a day.
Will you please stop putting these images in my head Splendid :shock:
I have no self control at the moment, its nearly a full moon and Im supposed to be cutting out PVC in the other room as it is.......working from home is such a chore hee hee
I think someone could use a saucy chat
:rascal:
Depends what 'do not like' means 
If I don't find them sexually attractive but they have a personality that wins me over - makes me laugh, is sweet etc then yeah, I have and probably will again, have sex with them.
If it's someone i find sexually attractive but they are a Tw** - probably not, but that's not to say I haven't or wouldn't
When i'm in the mood for just anonymous sex, I really don't care whether I 'like' them or not - I'm not even bothered about seeing them! If fact i've found it's more fun when I don't know what they look like or anything - Pure NSA sex!
Instant contact areas in clubs, out dogging - don't take the time to get to know them in these places - if I did i'm sure there would probably be a high proportion that I wouldn't like
If I don't find them sexually attractive but they have a personality that wins me over - makes me laugh, is sweet etc then yeah, I have and probably will again, have sex with them.If it's someone i find sexually attractive but they are a Tw** - probably not, but that's not to say I haven't or wouldn't
When i'm in the mood for just anonymous sex, I really don't care whether I 'like' them or not - I'm not even bothered about seeing them! If fact i've found it's more fun when I don't know what they look like or anything - Pure NSA sex!
Instant contact areas in clubs, out dogging - don't take the time to get to know them in these places - if I did i'm sure there would probably be a high proportion that I wouldn't like
Dearest Members,
I’ve only had this issue once a couple of years ago.
I was working in a Supermarket & had issues with a Female Senior Member of Management. We absolutely despised each other yet I had strong feelings of sexual attraction towards her.
At the time I was very confused but after years of hindsight & with the help of this thread I now realize where these feelings came from…it was due to dominance.
A friend of mine has a Master’s Degree in Bio-Chemistry & she believes that the amount of sexual attraction comes from our species time in the caves.
We where transforming from Apes (animal) into another species of life that eventually meant that I can type this on the Internet..!!
So I wanted to use Sex to show that I was strong & I wasn't a 'walk over', as I was being bullied by her.
My feelings towards this Woman were very ‘animal like’ yet the Homosapien in me meant that I didn’t even touch her.
The only thing that I can advise is the pornography of one:
German Goo Girls.
I’ve been to ‘Greedy Girls’ nights that have been just like this. I wouldn’t say that romance or connections was the order of thingsjust good hard sex with loads of cum.
Hope my insight has been of help.
I’ve only had this issue once a couple of years ago.
I was working in a Supermarket & had issues with a Female Senior Member of Management. We absolutely despised each other yet I had strong feelings of sexual attraction towards her.
At the time I was very confused but after years of hindsight & with the help of this thread I now realize where these feelings came from…it was due to dominance.
A friend of mine has a Master’s Degree in Bio-Chemistry & she believes that the amount of sexual attraction comes from our species time in the caves.
We where transforming from Apes (animal) into another species of life that eventually meant that I can type this on the Internet..!!
So I wanted to use Sex to show that I was strong & I wasn't a 'walk over', as I was being bullied by her.
My feelings towards this Woman were very ‘animal like’ yet the Homosapien in me meant that I didn’t even touch her.
The only thing that I can advise is the pornography of one:
German Goo Girls.
I’ve been to ‘Greedy Girls’ nights that have been just like this. I wouldn’t say that romance or connections was the order of thingsjust good hard sex with loads of cum.
Hope my insight has been of help.
In my youth when i felt more insecure than i do now i would and have done.
Yet no way would i now.
Saying that when im in the cpls room at chams, theres never enough time to get to know someone other than there being visual attraction. I guess in that instance urges over rule everything else.
Yet no way would i now.
Saying that when im in the cpls room at chams, theres never enough time to get to know someone other than there being visual attraction. I guess in that instance urges over rule everything else.
