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would you sleep with someone who is HIV+?

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I had this discussion with a playmate the other day.
My conclusion was that it would limit the type of things I was comfortable doing, that I enjoy doing, that carry risk - i.e. rimming etc. I wouldn't be relaxed knowing there may be some risk involved and to me, good sex is all about both people being relaxed. I'm not referring to fucking being limited here - that requires a condom as far as I'm concerned every time, no debate.
I have two mates who are HIV positive and have had the same conversations with them in an adult and inoffensive way.
I'm sure I've come into contact with people with HIV over my lifetime in sexually charged situations but I've NEVER had unprotected anal sex with anyone other than a long-term partner with whom our rules are agreed. And I mean NEVER as oppopsed to 'it just slipped in once' (which I really don't get!)
If I have knowledge then I'll make a risk assessment and use that knowledge so no, if I knew, I wouldn't have sex with someone who was HIV+.
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Yes.
Unknown User
Quote by brucie
Yes.

would that include an HIV+ male?
of course, even men are people. That was your original question wasn't it? ( I am on my I- phone so am unable to see the whole thing now I am typing)
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Quote by brucie
splendida, i only ask as from a risk of infection point, being penetrated is higher risk. risk from girl on girl must be pretty minimal, even id be comfortable with that ;-)

yup I know the risks. And they are minimal when compared to the feelings of the intensity I have when I cum. Condoms are sexual seatbelts and I still drive.
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Quote by brucie
splendida, i only ask as from a risk of infection point, being penetrated is higher risk. risk from girl on girl must be pretty minimal, even id be comfortable with that ;-)

yup I know the risks. And they are minimal when compared to the feelings of the intensity I have when I cum. Condoms are sexual seatbelts and I still drive.
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The problem is KNOWING if someone has it.
I know of many people who sleep with others off of this site, who do not use condoms....risky.
IF I knew someone had it then I would not take the risk.
It always makes me laugh when I see a blue film where the guy has a condom on, yet she then swallows his cum....never worked that one out meself.
Up to each individual I guess but condoms can split and what about other bodily fluids?
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Quote by kentswingers777
The problem is KNOWING if someone has it.
I know of many people who sleep with others off of this site, who do not use condoms....risky.
IF I knew someone had it then I would not take the risk.
It always makes me laugh when I see a blue film where the guy has a condom on, yet she then swallows his cum....never worked that one out meself.
Up to each individual I guess but condoms can split and what about other bodily fluids?

Right upto being told they are HIV+ a person thinks they are neg. So, at what point do you and you mrs 'know' you are safe?
I am more worried about hep c to be honest.
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I think I'm vaccinated against Hep C.. or is it A&B?! I know there's one you can't be done for confused??:
As far as oral goes, HIV is actually a fairly weak virus I believe and the enzymes in saliva can kill it but yes, there's still a risk. However, as far as I'm aware they've never been able to prove that it's transmitted via oral sex. Or was it that they couldn't find a test group of individuals that had only had oral sex to prove this?
Either way, I'll make my own judgement call and risk assessment for oral and yes I'll suck cock without condoms (I won't suck cock with condoms on to be honest, yuk!), whether or not someone cums in my mouth is all down to me, them and the moment.
Interesting debate brucie :thumbup:
PS: splendid would eat you alive, chew you around a bit and spit you out... and still have room for more wink
Witchy
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Quote by splendid_
Yes.

would that include an HIV+ male?
of course, even men are people. That was your original question wasn't it? ( I am on my I- phone so am unable to see the whole thing now I am typing)
rotflmao
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Quote by splendid_
The problem is KNOWING if someone has it.
I know of many people who sleep with others off of this site, who do not use condoms....risky.
IF I knew someone had it then I would not take the risk.
It always makes me laugh when I see a blue film where the guy has a condom on, yet she then swallows his cum....never worked that one out meself.
Up to each individual I guess but condoms can split and what about other bodily fluids?

Right upto being told they are HIV+ a person thinks they are neg. So, at what point do you and you mrs 'know' you are safe?
I am more worried about hep c to be honest.
Take nothing for granted and.....assume nothing.
duncanlondon
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Sleep as in slippers and ovaltine?
So in plain english............
would you have unprotected sex with an hiv infected person?
mosty people will say no............... in theory
but faced with this on the point of entry, i suspect there would be many that wouldn't bat an eyelid. I haven't, but who knows for sure they wouldn't ?
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NO
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