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Would you want to do it now if you had the chance again !!

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Another topic to ponder on.
I was a very naive young lady in my early teens. (not what you may think)
I always dreamed of going into nursing. As it was I didn't make it into college.
Never even occured to me that I could maybe go into the forces, and do it that way.
So I fell into the trap of a job, and I would of been a workaholic if I hadn't met MrFC at the time of my life when I did. Time goes by and I don't regret a moment of it, as I don't think I could do nursing now.
But I would like to do something in that area. You never know I might just pull myself out of the job im in now and take a chance. !!!!
MrsFC on MrFCs login at the moment. Long story.
I always wanted to be a vet, or work with animals because they ask so little and give so much. So I would like to go back and ignore the careers teacher who told me engineering or the pit were my only hopes. It was the dark days then....oh well, we can but ponder???
Given the chance I would have been in Art College after school, but events didn`t pan out this way, which is just as well, as I`ve since discovered that I `dry up` if I try to create art to commission! Life led me to consider counselling, then being the person I am, go the whole route to clinical psychology. I wouldn`t go back and do anything differently (except perhaps do it all a little quicker), because it`s my life to date that has led to these decisions.
I`ll make it too, if I can get my head around statistics, statistics, statistics! confused
If I fall down anywhere in study, that`ll be where it happens.
Venusxxx
I reckon I'll be in my job for life, or until I win the lottery, cos I'm yoo damn lazy to do anything else confused . Besides I kind of just fell into my job. I'm not good at career planning rolleyes
I fell into this job too. Or rather, it pounced on me while I wasn't watching. The bit that amuses me is that it's pretty much exactly what I would have wanted to do if I'd let all sensible restraint loose and indulged all of my fantasies.
We have a review each year, to see what's going right and what's going wrong and what can be improved. Each year I say "it's still the job of my dreams". It isn't perfect, and there are parts that I don't like. But that's reality.
I can be a smug bastard at times :-)
Career planning? That's having the sense to not resist too much when your friends force you to apply for the right job.
i dont belive were all given the same chances in life and its up to us if we take them, i didnt have a good family or support, and as for knowing what i wanted to do when i left school i didnt have a clue i just wanted to leave school, lol
lept from one crap job to another untill i turned 30 and thought damm im old, then thought hell no ive got 35 years left working. i handed in my notice and went to college, then uni, 2 months away from getting my HND and a year off my degree.
dont regret a thing, made me who i am.
remember always turn your negatives into positives, lifes for living not wondering
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I`m with you on that Fem, anyone can be given the chances, and it takes a clever person to take them, but those who have to claw their way up are practically GODLIKE!
You can sit on the same cloud as me if you like biggrin actually, I`ll sit on your cloud, it`ll be established before mine!
Venusxxx
well reading these things...im actually quite tempted to go into work tomorrow quit my job and go to australiia for a year or so.. its something i always wanted to do...well since i left school (about 8 years ago now!)
I just get concerned about coming back to you uk after a year, spending all my money over there and having no job no money no nothing...id have to sell me car to do it.
I was always going to be a vet.
Right from an early age. working with farm livestock, collecting all sorts of creatures as 'pets', reading and studying to one end-to be a vet.
O-levels came, all fine, still on course to be a vet.
Problems at home-ran away-never did become vet.
Regrets? No, not really. The strange path I have led since has brought me a lot of different experiences and meant I've met a lot of interesting people.
I no longer wish to be a vet.
The only thing I would add is that 'careers teachers/advisors' have an awesome responsibility: they , literally, mess with people's lives. If any of you are out there.....think on.
What next? Who knows: something will turn up wink
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well reading these things...im actually quite tempted to go into work tomorrow quit my job and go to australiia for a year or so.. its something i always wanted to do...well since i left school (about 8 years ago now!)
I just get concerned about coming back to you uk after a year, spending all my money over there and having no job no money no nothing...id have to sell me car to do it.

Just do it!!
There'll be other cars. rolleyes :roll: