Would you.....

15 Apr 2007

So was out clubbing last night and met a girl in a club..got on well..chatted loads...had a good time...had a kiss at the end of the night..so things are looking good.. :P
wheres the problem with that you ask? rolleyes

Well, my mate was chatting to one of her mates, and aparently they think i am older than i am, and it turns out the girl isabout 14ish years older than me...
(im 26)
So what do you think?
I thought she was a nice person, so will try and see her again...soooo.... do:
a) you think i should tell her my age? or is it me making somthing out of it that i needn't?
And
b) what would you ladies think about dating a guy with that age gap?
Opinions would be welcomed??
smile

AJ

15 Apr 2007

For me personally, age has nothing to do with it. The most important thing for me is how I feel about the person. We all know when you have met the right person for you. Age is a number thats all. Get to know her- see if you have the same interests - see if you both 'click'. if you don't try you will never know.
Good luck
edited to say that tell her your age - at least you are being honest from the start. Whats a relationship if you start it with a lie dunno

15 Apr 2007

thanks HisandHers...thats exactly how i feel as well..if someone makes you biggrin

then thats good enough..(and she was from lancashire...dont know what it is, but northern girls really make me :P )

15 Apr 2007

Quote by aj1980
So what do you think?
I thought she was a nice person, so will try and see her again...soooo.... do:
Opinions would be welcomed??

AJ

Shag her

15 Apr 2007

Quote by dambuster

So what do you think?
I thought she was a nice person, so will try and see her again...soooo.... do:
Opinions would be welcomed??

AJ

Shag her

15 Apr 2007

absolutely go for it mate!!! 120% those older women in 30's/40's are the business!!! i think life experience has a lot to do with it and a lot are out to live thier lives to the full now after bad experiences in the past .thats not to say theyre all like that of course but a large percentage you meet in clubs will be....i reckon anyway biggrin

15 Apr 2007

Why would it matter how old you are, as long as it works? Just a number. However, you have to be honest, as Hisnhers said.

15 Apr 2007

yeah tell her truth but i wouldnt worry about age..some of the sexiest women are definatly in their 40s..in my experiance the older woman knows what she wants and how to do it..so as long as you both enjoy each others company and everything else that come with it go for it wink

15 Apr 2007

Quote by hisandhers
tell her your age - at least you are being honest from the start. Whats a relationship if you start it with a lie

:thumbup: As others have said age is only a number and if there's a spark between you then go for it, just be honest with her about it as HisandHers says. Two fellas I've met recently have told me lies early on (one of which was about age, the other something else) and I've subsequently found them out, and it's put me off them as I wasn't sure what else they would lie to me about.

15 Apr 2007

Is that advice from personal experience Scandal?
lol

Fee
XX

15 Apr 2007

I'd go for it. tell her the truth about your age and then take it from there. If there's something between then in my eyes it doesn't matter how old either of you are. xx

15 Apr 2007

thanks everyone, really appreciate your comments..
Will see how it goes..and definitely want to be honest with her..not into lies..no point..as you say Posh, people always find out..

15 Apr 2007

Quote by Scandal
Is that advice from personal experience Scandal?

It's a PM I sent to Lardy boy two years ago ;)
I think it was titled ..."How to keep your wife" lol

She'll never leave me mate, I got that sussed YEARS ago.
I just threatened to make sure if she did she'd get full custody of the kids :shock:

15 Apr 2007

Quote by poshkate

tell her your age - at least you are being honest from the start. Whats a relationship if you start it with a lie

:thumbup: As others have said age is only a number and if there's a spark between you then go for it, just be honest with her about it as HisandHers says. Two fellas I've met recently have told me lies early on (one of which was about age, the other something else) and I've subsequently found them out, and it's put me off them as I wasn't sure what else they would lie to me about.
Look I said I was sorry and I really don't understand what all the fuss is about over a couple of inches FFS. evil

:P :giggle:

15 Apr 2007

Quote by the_Laird
Is that advice from personal experience Scandal?

It's a PM I sent to Lardy boy two years ago ;)
I think it was titled ..."How to keep your wife" lol

She'll never leave me mate, I got that sussed YEARS ago.
I just threatened to make sure if she did she'd get full custody of the kids :shock:
and the house, complete with garden? :giggle:

15 Apr 2007

Quote by easy

I just threatened to make sure if she did she'd get full custody of the kids :shock:

and the house, complete with garden? :giggle:
I'm traumatised beyond belief! :shock:
lol

Fee
XX

15 Apr 2007

Quote by LadyFeeBee
I'm traumatised beyond belief! :shock:

Fee
XX

Just make sure it's part of the divorce settlement that he finishes the patio though. ;) :giggle:

15 Apr 2007

Quote by Countess
I'm traumatised beyond belief! :shock:

Fee
XX

Just make sure it's part of the divorce settlement that he finishes the patio though. ;) :giggle:
Dont you bloody start!!

15 Apr 2007

Quote by the_Laird
I'm traumatised beyond belief! :shock:

Fee
XX

Just make sure it's part of the divorce settlement that he finishes the patio though. ;) :giggle:
Dont you bloody start!!
or you'll do what jumper boy? :lol:

15 Apr 2007

Quote by Countess
or you'll do what jumper boy?

He may sweat you to death :lol:
Fee
XX

15 Apr 2007

Quote by Scandal
or you'll do what jumper boy?

He may sweat you to death :lol:
Fee
XX
While completely fuckin your patio up :lol:
Sorry
the words "complete" and "patio" just aren't going together in this house at all confused

15 Apr 2007

Quote by Freckledbird
Why would it matter how old you are, as long as it works? Just a number. However, you have to be honest, as Hisnhers said.

Yeah but there's no need to be honest about pointing out the grey hairs though!
Which, incidentally, only look grey at all because they started off blond - OK? If they'd started off black - they would only be light black now!
Moi - sensitive? :undecided: wink

.

15 Apr 2007

i no this is the other way round...what differance that makes...probably non.......but there's 19 years betweem me and mrs cream....i'm 43 she's 24....we love each other to bits and we are as happy as larry couldn't ever imagine being without each other..at the start the age gap worried her(that didn't last long)....but 2 1/2 years later we are still together and happy....as many ppl have said age is but a number....if you like her and she likes you go for it and see where it goes....if it goes somewhere great...if it doesn't then it wasn't meant to be....but the age gap will have fook all to do with it.

15 Apr 2007

Quote by westerross
Why would it matter how old you are, as long as it works? Just a number. However, you have to be honest, as Hisnhers said.

Yeah but there's no need to be honest about pointing out the grey hairs though!
Which, incidentally, only look grey at all because they started off blond - OK? If they'd started off black - they would only be light black now!
Moi - sensitive? :undecided: wink

.
They're not grey - they're white!
bolt

15 Apr 2007

Quote by the_Laird
I'm traumatised beyond belief! :shock:

Fee
XX

Just make sure it's part of the divorce settlement that he finishes the patio though. ;) :giggle:
Dont you bloody start!!
Laird...Fee may take a leaf out of Brookside's book.....and you may end up under it.....:shock:
:lol:

16 Apr 2007

Quote by westerross
Why would it matter how old you are, as long as it works? Just a number. However, you have to be honest, as Hisnhers said.

Yeah but there's no need to be honest about pointing out the grey hairs though!
Which, incidentally, only look grey at all because they started off blond - OK? If they'd started off black - they would only be light black now!
Moi - sensitive? :undecided: wink

.
Tune you can always use my line..."They are not grey they are silver streaks I have done" lol

16 Apr 2007

Quote by Countess
Why would it matter how old you are, as long as it works? Just a number. However, you have to be honest, as Hisnhers said.

Yeah but there's no need to be honest about pointing out the grey hairs though!
Which, incidentally, only look grey at all because they started off blond - OK? If they'd started off black - they would only be light black now!
Moi - sensitive? :undecided: wink

.
Tune you can always use my line..."They are not grey they are silver streaks I have done" lol

i never noticed, i was looking elsewhere, i shall make a point of looking next time....

16 Apr 2007

Quote by essex34m
Why would it matter how old you are, as long as it works? Just a number. However, you have to be honest, as Hisnhers said.

Yeah but there's no need to be honest about pointing out the grey hairs though!
Which, incidentally, only look grey at all because they started off blond - OK? If they'd started off black - they would only be light black now!
Moi - sensitive? :undecided: wink

.
Tune you can always use my line..."They are not grey they are silver streaks I have done" lol

i never noticed, i was looking elsewhere, i shall make a point of looking next time....
redface

ops: I wont ask where...but you'll get a smackbottom

if you point any out :lol:

16 Apr 2007

Quote by Countess
Why would it matter how old you are, as long as it works? Just a number. However, you have to be honest, as Hisnhers said.

Yeah but there's no need to be honest about pointing out the grey hairs though!
Which, incidentally, only look grey at all because they started off blond - OK? If they'd started off black - they would only be light black now!
Moi - sensitive? :undecided: wink

.
Tune you can always use my line..."They are not grey they are silver streaks I have done" lol

i never noticed, i was looking elsewhere, i shall make a point of looking next time....
redface

ops: I wont ask where...but you'll get a smackbottom

if you point any out :lol:
"ooh, have you been painting ceilings?"

16 Apr 2007

Quote by essex34m
Why would it matter how old you are, as long as it works? Just a number. However, you have to be honest, as Hisnhers said.

Yeah but there's no need to be honest about pointing out the grey hairs though!
Which, incidentally, only look grey at all because they started off blond - OK? If they'd started off black - they would only be light black now!
Moi - sensitive? :undecided: wink

.
Tune you can always use my line..."They are not grey they are silver streaks I have done" lol

i never noticed, i was looking elsewhere, i shall make a point of looking next time....
redface

ops: I wont ask where...but you'll get a smackbottom

if you point any out :lol:
"ooh, have you been painting ceilings?"
OOh you catch on quick... :wink: :lol: