wtf

Commercialism. Time wasters. Fake profiles. But it is still my 'come to' site when I want some fun. There are enough old school types to make it all worth while and experience helps me recognise the fakes and time wasters.  This site has helped me have far more sex than I deserve over the years and I have met some lovely people. It is quiet these days, but I think that is because people can't wait and want instant gratification. Few people answer messages so often the site has no reward and I give up.  I'm using the forum today for the first time in twelve years because my messages are not being replied to and I am bored. Everybody should try to reply if they are contacted or rewards will keep on diminishing.

I suppose your right never though of it like that out of the hundreds of emails I think I've 2 replies embarising dose'nt apply because we've never met

Have same feeling, but on my other site i can pay for membership monthly and by sms also I have more local choices and updates so I know about every met possible at the minute for me also is great tool to gain trust from people ''verification'' if we have met ,write short statement about encounter and you can post it on your wall or just keep it for you. This site do not offer tools like this and membership price is the same . I keep my account hire probably for  sentimental reasons it is first site I join. Never had luck to meet someone thru SH but hopefully someday it happen.