So...you see an x after a while apart..there is still a spark between you...you fancy them..they fancy you...but when you were together your relationship was slightly problematic...arguements etc...which is the reason you split up..
so what are these feelings? is it you trying to forget the bad things? or is it genuinely somthing you should try again?
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so what are these feelings? is it you trying to forget the bad things? or is it genuinely somthing you should try again?
It's you thinking with your cock and she's up for it.
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Why don't you say to her - 'Let's take it one shag at a time' and see what she says.
Seems reasonable to me.
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Seems reasonable to me.
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so what are these feelings? is it you trying to forget the bad things? or is it genuinely somthing you should try again?
Trying to talk above my level of knowledge here but it has something to do with familiar pathways that form within the brain. These pathways are activated everytime you see someone and create a familiarity. In the case of someone you loved or were sexual with these pathways would be stronger due to the increased familiarity. When you see them again the odd feeling you get is the pathway being reactivated after a period of non activity. A chemical brain reaction in basic.
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Did this recently and it was a big mistake. Too many old feeling dredged up and we both ended up worse off.
But the shags were good...
There's the problem, shags should have read shag :lol2:
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so what are these feelings? is it you trying to forget the bad things? or is it genuinely somthing you should try again?
Trying to talk above my level of knowledge here but it has something to do with familiar pathways that form within the brain. These pathways are activated everytime you see someone and create a familiarity. In the case of someone you loved or were sexual with these pathways would be stronger due to the increased familiarity. When you see them again the odd feeling you get is the pathway being reactivated after a period of non activity. A chemical brain reaction in basic.
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Did this recently and it was a big mistake. Too many old feeling dredged up and we both ended up worse off.
But the shags were good...
There's the problem, shags should have read shag :lol2:
think my path ways have been locked with a 10 ton chain and padlock and the key thrown away :giggle:
Expressions like 'How could I have done that!' or 'I can't believe my stupidity' come to mind.
Its one of those situations where you can only see how dumb you were the instant after you've done it.
I think its something you do to put a final closure to a relationship. It can also happen a few times before the end is final, with each one having less impact.
But that morning after feeling is probably one of the worst things you can do to yourself.
Its one of those situations where you can only see how dumb you were the instant after you've done it.
I think its something you do to put a final closure to a relationship. It can also happen a few times before the end is final, with each one having less impact.
But that morning after feeling is probably one of the worst things you can do to yourself.
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Did this recently and it was a big mistake. Too many old feeling dredged up and we both ended up worse off.
But the shags were good...
Oh how I know that one and how long it took to feel confident yet again after 2 years apart ...... the shagging is easy the emotional attachment then detachment again seemed even worse. Much better now mind and very happy never to repeat that mistake!!!!!
