Hi,can someone help us with our choice as to which we try first and what night we are both in our early forties and looking for some first time fun
I've not tried Xstasia and only been to Chams once so maybe my opinion won't count for much but I'm always read to give it. :twisted:
To my knowledge, Xstasia is a clothed club. It plays good music and people go for a dance and good night. If they feel they want to play, they slope off the dancefloor, do what they do and come back with their clothes again.
Seems a bit odd to me but anyway!
Chams is a towel club so pretty much as soon as you get there, you need to get changed. personally i prefer that but if it's your first club you might find Xstasia less intimidating?
Having been to both i like chams best the kitchen roll on string at the end of the sofas and men shagging with their trousers round their ancles at xtasia really dont do anything for me i'm afraid lol saying that its a good club if you want to dress up and have a dance but i like chams better as its more relaxed. not sure where you get the ceilings are low and the rooms are small at chams tho i think their play rooms are much better than xtasia's i mean if the attick rooms arnt low cilings i dunno what is lol
Hi
Very new to the scene but we went to xtasia a few weeks back after it being highly recommended and we were very impressed.
We felt very safe as there are several floors and rooms to explore with some very sexy activities going on ( and yes we were tempted to shed a few clothes and a lot of inhibitions in the early part of the morning lol )
We can definitely recommend a visit even if it is just for a dance and a look round ( somehow I think you will be tempted to lose a few clothes too lol )
Have fun
Nikki and Tony xx ( ps love your profile and sexy pics )
We have not tried xtasia YET but having been to Chams on several occassions we both like it very much. The staff are very friendly and helpfull they put you at your ease, being a female that enjoys a lot of attention it is good when you tell guys to back off(well my other half does I am usually too busy) and they do. There is no pressure at all we just viewed on our first visit.
Luckly for me, both Clubs are in taxi distance.
both are as good as each other. but for very different ways. for me it depends on what mood we am in for which one we chose. chams is rlexed and chilled, Xtasia is more lively.
if you are shy and new to the clubing see, there are NO lockalbe doors at xtaisa. so that can be quite nevering untill you get used to the eyes and stuff. so i would reconmend Chams for a starter. then Xtasia after. but if you dont mind the openess then go for xtasia.
hope i've not confused ya.
At Chams, do you have to wear a towel? What do you wear underneath, nothing?
I'd like to go for the experience of just seeing what the place and atmosphere is like, and maybe more once I'd relaxed a bit, but I'd be really shy wearing just a towel :shock:
You can wear sexy clothes.
I dunno ... I prefer the towel thing 'cos it instantly puts everyone in the same situation.
I've been to a club where people wander round the playrooms fully clothed and it's very off-putting, if not intimidating.
Taking away the barrier of normal everyday clothing is an ice breaker already.
A swinging club is the last place anyone should worry about being body-conscious. There's alsorts of shapes and sizes - and thank god, or I'd be a recluse!