Xtasia this saturday

23 Apr 2007

hi Everyone, We are going to Xtasia this saturday. It's the first time we've ever gone to a club and its the first time Vicky has ever swung so does anyone have any advice about what time to get there, what to wear, where to go, the atmosphere etc?
Sorry to ask so many questions just we really are noobs!
Thanks
Vicky and Steve

24 Apr 2007

hiya vicky and steve.
been to xtasia twice. once on a friday, when it was very quiet. good for us as it goes, cos we had the run of the place, and could make full use of the facilities. we did scare a few people out of the racks and cuffs room on the ground floor, mainly cos if you give us BDSM type playthings, well, BDSM playthings it is! lol

;)
the saturday we went, have to say, we bloody hated it. very much beautiful people prancing about in negliges and underwear, pretending to be swingers. no play whatsoever except in one room. many were actually really quite offensive in their disparagingness ((( is that a word? dunno

))) of the few who actually went there to play.
if you want a gentle introduction to be being semi-naked and sexy, it's probably ideal. if you want to see what really goes on in a swinging club . . . . :dunno: maybe utopia would be better, where it's a bit more swinging, but still with beautiful people types? ;)
the atmosphere on saturday was very much same as you'd get in any ((( vanilla ))) nightlcub, 'cept a bit less dressed! that has it's good points! ;) dress code for girlies is kinda La Senza and basques and sexy stockings, for guys boxers or fully dressed. wet room if you want it. we didn't bother.
i'm sure others will tell you different, so don't put too much store in anything i have to say . . . just weren't for us.
neil x x x ;)

27 Apr 2007

Hi Vicky & Steve

27 Apr 2007

Quote by little gem
Hi Vicky & Steve,
If it's your first time then Xtasia would be a good club to go to as a gentle introduction to being partially clothed and sexiness. It is more like a night club with people walking around in underwear than most other swingers clubs we've been to. It's about personal choice and what you find you like best. Some prefer clubs where the dress code is towels provided by the club as it's less of a fashion show and more about the people. Only trying them out for yourselves will you find a place and atmosphere that suits you.
If you check out the Let's Meet Up section of the site people sometimes post when they are going. Maybe going in with someone from the site who you've met for a breif drink beforehand might quell first time nerves?
Good luck with it.

agreed
This was the first club we went to, also for our first swinging experience...no pressure what so ever to join in...always at your own wear what ever you feel comfortable in...and as sexy as you like,you may want to wear a long coat though as you may have to run the gauntlet as there is a pub right next door....if we didn't live in London we would go here more often!