Right im going to speak from experience on here after speaking with countless single females and couples and say that most guys..probably as high as 80 to 90 % who state on their profile they are single definitely arent!!
If guys state on their profile they cant accomodate in my book this only usually means one of 2 things;
a They arent single i e they have a gf or wife
b They live with their parents
I also realise that some might well have kids at home with them full time but surely they have either relatives or friends who could babysit so they can have a night free for themselves?!! The lady who mentioned this point surely doesnt believe that a single parent never ever goes out whilst his child is growing up and that he is stuck in every night with his child!!
As for the points about living in a house or place that needs decorating i think most guys would find that most women wouldnt really mind too much if a guys place was in a bit of a tip!!
Oh and one final point....if in doubt..ask for a landline number..that usually weeds the cheats out!! Even in this day and age of mobiles most people still have a landline!! If the numbers not forth coming or the guy makes excuses then proceed with caution!!
Here endeth the lesson!!
Hey Miss,
Im single, can accommodate in a stunning apartment, can be called anytime so keep the faith!! There are some good ones still around sexy.
Hope you find what your looking for soon too gorgeous x
J x
if they cant play at home go to a club,,,,n if u dont hit it off u have lots more to pick from.... :twisted:
Me too miss, but you get medals for surviving those, with dodgy blokes you just get frustrated id imagine lol
J x
I can, of course, accomodate you.....you might want to bring some rubber gloves along. It's nowt to do with kinky, I'm just thinking of your delicate hands, there's always loads of washin' up to be done here.
We don't all have girlfriends. I just have nosy neighbours! One of which I work with!
xxx
I'm one of those single dads mentioned earlier in the thread, and I wouldn't want somebody round when the kids are about, but then they do go to my ex's for stop overs regular. I can, will and do host at my place when they aren't about as well.
The bottom line with all of this is finding someone ( or more ) who suits what you're looking for and if that means they have to accommodate well then accommodate they should . OF course we all have issues from time to time and you have to make a judgement call there, but if you ask them to accommodate then it's not unreasonable to expect it.. is it !
It's a perfectly good valid opening post and topic and the antogonists are picking at straws with this one.
If a guy has a problem with the state of his place due to it needing renovation or the like then surely it wouldn't be too great a job too explain this and maybe meet up in said place for coffee and then suggest a hotel or something else to goon to for any durrrty deeds to be done.
As for single women meeting up with guys at their place? Come on the answers pretty obvious there. Fair it may not be but I'd feel safer in the knowledge that any single swinger* lady friend I knew wasn't meeting casually at her own home with anyone at least to start with. we maybe swingers but surely it doesn't preclude us from the usual safety protocols.
Of course it's a shame that legitimate single guys have to work so hard in Swingworld but that's just the way it is unfortunately. As for the cheaters and liars? Well they should be ashamed and disgusted with themselves whether male female or undecided and they should know that they are all going to straight to jell with no get out of jail free card.
*Facilitator
I'm single, but don't accom, because I live with a family member who knows nothing about my sex life.
i invited someone over once.
then found money and my ipod gone.
if someone thinks less of me because i chose not to accom then that is down to them.
Sorry I was not suggesting you divulge details of your sex life with any relative, but if your longterm living arrangement was with a family member, would they really be horrified if you, mature person, had someone over?..
Is this sense of "hiding it" from family and houemates etc come purely from the fact the people you're meeting are from a website?
If you were on a night out, in a bar, met someone, decided to get frisky..would that be ok to bring them home? Does it then have an element of "normal" to it?
It's not like we wear neon pants that say "Property of SH" :wave2:
Is that too much to ask, many people cannot accommodate for genuine reasons, so why not tell us the reason "live in Police/army/airforce shared accommodation", live with family, have young child at home as am part of 1 parent family, my home is a shithole and I cannot afford 50 quid to make a nice room available (but will pay for hotel room) wont accommodate on first meet in case your a crazy stalker (quite wise for singles), we accept that there can be valid reasons why people cannot accommodate what we cannot accept is why they cant write 2 lines explaining it, many couples profiles explain if they cannot accommodate.
