Hey ya'll,
Were A & A, both newbies to this site and the whole scene and need some direction, or to be told if were in the right place or not!
A bit about ourselves- were both 21, both slim and attractive, are in a long term relationship (well, ish for our age anyway!) and both have big sex drives. We've both had 3somes before (mff) with other partners, loved it, and after missing out on two opportunities in the last year that have come along at (non swinging) parties we really want to have another, as she is bi and he loves helping her enjoy another woman. We've never had or really want to have a mmf 3sum as he is straight, and she likes the thought of another woman, not another guy. We also like getting it on in kinky public places- anywhere from parks to a dark corner of a nightclub, which although turn us on as there are lots of people around, is often a turn off due to the amount of drunken male chavs that clock whats going on and stand staring. Which is maybe fair enough as its not *really* an appropriate place to touch each other...
(The following isn't an ad, just telling you what we'd like so we can be advised where to go!):
What we're after is a place to go and get it on, where other people can watch and will also be getting it on, just with a very sexy not smutty atmosphere. We'd also be looking to have another girl involved, and maybe be on the same bed as another couple where she is also bi, and whilst both couples have sex, the only swapping to go on would be between the females. Thats all were after at this stage anyway... maybe progress further as time goes on but were new to it and have only fantasised that far ahead! Were not after single guys to wank over us getting it on, and neither do we want to full swap with another couple of have some single guy have sex with her and whip her with a chain whilst he watches. I'm sure you get what were on about and into by now!
So we thought that we would visit an adult club- we found this site by searching google for adult club reviews. We are in the Midlands but are more than happy to travel a fairly reasonable distance to get to the right club if its worth it.
We'd like to ask, firstly and foremostly are we in the right place? The title 'swingers' seems slightly daunting as were not into wife swap, just finding another partner/couple to have kinky fun with, and lots of likeminded horny people getting it on in the same room.
Then secondly, has anyone any recommendations on where to go or what to 'do' next? Such as just goto a club (if any in particular), to put on ad on here to meet another young couple then goto a club with them, to just put an ad on here and see who wants us to go round to theirs, or what?
Sorry about so many questions- have read the sticky's and lots of forum posts and am still quite confused and looking for some reassurance from you experienced lot who know what the score is and what goes on where.
Ta!
A & A
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:welcome: fellow midlands bods.
no idea on the clubs but im sure Naughtynympos will be along soon to drag you to her favourite haunt (think it's chameleons in darlaston). have a look at the club reviews in the sticky section (at the top) and hang round in the cafe as it a magnet for loonies with all sort of weird and wonderful suggestions and very warped sense of humour.
you could also consider asking for a mentor who will answer any questions or point you in the right direction.
no idea on the clubs but im sure Naughtynympos will be along soon to drag you to her favourite haunt (think it's chameleons in darlaston). have a look at the club reviews in the sticky section (at the top) and hang round in the cafe as it a magnet for loonies with all sort of weird and wonderful suggestions and very warped sense of humour.
you could also consider asking for a mentor who will answer any questions or point you in the right direction.
From your post you sound as if you would probably prefer the 'night-club' style of swingers club to the 'sauna' club, especially since these probably attract a younger average age, although you will be very much at the lower end of the age range. Xstasia could well be what you are looking for or possibly Atlantis.
What you are talking about is soft swing and is not unusual. Decide on your boundaries and stick to them until you both decide to change them. You will probably have more luck finding a bi-fem couple than finding a single bi-fem but good luck anyway.
What you are talking about is soft swing and is not unusual. Decide on your boundaries and stick to them until you both decide to change them. You will probably have more luck finding a bi-fem couple than finding a single bi-fem but good luck anyway.
Try Xtasia and Chameleons - both very different. If you feel too reserved to mingle much at least you get to dance at Xtasia (which is enormous) and it has dark 'corners' where plenty of peeps are getting it on. The bar there is also good for striking up conversations with all sorts of folk. Chameleons is less regimented and very laid back - you can have a good laugh in the great big jacuzzi. Anyway, big welcome and hug. Hope you find what you are looking for and have a great time. x
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