Younger men

22 Mar 2005

Quote by SunBunny

da69ve just pointed out that a lady ask him.. so does that show that lady had no respect for men??... should he had warned his mates about her??
so you outside a club a cheeky bloke has just chated you up.. bah bah bah what you doing now,, fancy a fuck?? you would then run like the plague and tell all your mates you know that cheeky good looking fella over there.. he just asked me for a fuck.. then all run away....he said what..was the crys of the mates... a fuck... shit lets run??

You miss my point totally - again.
You have been chatting to a girl for say half an hour. Max. And then you ask her for a fuck. In my eyes that cheapens the girl and shows you are just after one thing, after which you will walk away, most probably, if you live in luton.
The point is that you think it is okay to behave in this way. I'm sure others do. But they have not said so on the forum.
Why would letting a girl know you find her sexually attractive and would like to have sex cheapen her? If I was to go up to a lady in a swinging club, exchange some pleasantries, say how attractive I thought she was and ask whether she wanted to go somewhere private, does that cheapen her? I don't think so, I think it lets her know she is desirable and attractive. Saying "Fancy a fuck" is not something I would do because it is not how I talk but I would be meaning the same thing.
Roger the Dragon cool

22 Mar 2005

Quote by SunBunny

You miss my point totally - again.
You have been chatting to a girl for say half an hour. Max. And then you ask her for a fuck. In my eyes that cheapens the girl and shows you are just after one thing, after which you will walk away, most probably, if you live in luton.
The point is that you think it is okay to behave in this way. I'm sure others do. But they have not said so on the forum.

half a hour.. what will you talk about you run out of things to say..... and i was very young at the time... i do not say it no more...only on special events like st george day..days like that.....fuck .it is a word .like when you said i was behaving wrong on that lecister thread about the two blokes....you missing the point again...
so how many times have people been talking to someone say 30 mins max.. and the person has said,what you doing afterwards fancy coming mine for a cup of tea.. a brew if you up north....do you think they want take this sexy stranger home to drink tea.. have a few hob nobs.. then she/he leave???

22 Mar 2005

Quote by rogerthedragon
Why would letting a girl know you find her sexually attractive and would like to have sex cheapen her? If I was to go up to a lady in a swinging club, exchange some pleasantries, say how attractive I thought she was and ask whether she wanted to go somewhere private, does that cheapen her? I don't think so, I think it lets her know she is desirable and attractive. Saying "Fancy a fuck" is not something I would do because it is not how I talk but I would be meaning the same thing.
Roger the Dragon

Roger KL was talking about a normal club, in Luton. The type where pissed girlies hang out waiting for cabs. A swinging club is of course a different story.

22 Mar 2005

Quote by SunBunny

Why would letting a girl know you find her sexually attractive and would like to have sex cheapen her? If I was to go up to a lady in a swinging club, exchange some pleasantries, say how attractive I thought she was and ask whether she wanted to go somewhere private, does that cheapen her? I don't think so, I think it lets her know she is desirable and attractive. Saying "Fancy a fuck" is not something I would do because it is not how I talk but I would be meaning the same thing.
Roger the Dragon

Roger KL was talking about a normal club, in Luton. The type where pissed girlies hang out waiting for cabs. A swinging club is of course a different story.
The question is why though? Those young girls outside the nightclubs are probably just as much looking for sex as a single woman going to swinging club! confused

Roger 8-)

22 Mar 2005

Quote by rogerthedragon
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Why would letting a girl know you find her sexually attractive and would like to have sex cheapen her? If I was to go up to a lady in a swinging club, exchange some pleasantries, say how attractive I thought she was and ask whether she wanted to go somewhere private, does that cheapen her? I don't think so, I think it lets her know she is desirable and attractive. Saying "Fancy a fuck" is not something I would do because it is not how I talk but I would be meaning the same thing.
Roger the Dragon

i sorry but i agree... one night stands happen fact...how do they happen someone got say the dreaded question??

22 Mar 2005

Quote by kinkyluton
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so how many times have people been talking to someone say 30 mins max.. and the person has said,what you doing afterwards fancy coming mine for a cup of tea.. a brew if you up north....do you think they want take this sexy stranger home to drink tea.. have a few hob nobs.. then she/he leave???

I would never go home with a guy after half an hour of knowing him, no matter how pissed I was, nor how good looking he was.

22 Mar 2005

Quote by SunBunny

you maybe but it happens... to blokes and ladys,,, it not bad thing.. if you are single why shouldnt you...many boys and girls just like one night stands..another fact..
going on to swinging... we forgetting couples here for the min.. i know swinging is really a couple thing.. but there is alot of singles loads who swing.. why do they do that... cause they like the freedom of knowing they get the shag they want..and thats it seeya no moaning no getting close...going back to one night stands... its the same thing...

22 Mar 2005

Quote by rogerthedragon
Those young girls outside the nightclubs are probably just as much looking for sex as a single woman going to swinging club!
Roger

Agreed, but there are ways of doing things. It's like we see in LMU all the time. 'Big dick looking for NSA fuck next wednesday.'
There are those on here that are turned on by that kind of approach and like to meet strangers for sex, and those who prefer more banter with someone before getting jiggy.

22 Mar 2005

Fancy a shag Sunbunny? :P
I'm 18, I guess I have no chance on here from what I've been reading...

22 Mar 2005

Quote by SunBunny

Those young girls outside the nightclubs are probably just as much looking for sex as a single woman going to swinging club!
Roger

Agreed, but there are ways of doing things. It's like we see in LMU all the time. 'Big dick looking for NSA fuck next wednesday.'
There are those on here that are turned on by that kind of approach and like to meet strangers for sex, and those who prefer more banter with someone before getting jiggy.
I think the point is it's 'horses for courses' someone coming up to you and saying "fancy a fuck" is going to be a complete turn off - other women may find it refreshingly direct especially if they fancy the bloke doing the asking, I don't think it necessarily shows any lack of respect just a difference in approach.
For instance if I say "Wow your arse looks sexy in your avatar, I'd love to run my hands all over it!" - you might think that is rude and feel offended by me being so direct or you might be turned on and flattered by the direct compliment.
Roger the Dragon 8-)

22 Mar 2005

i think its more to do with location as single guys seems to d well in the north whatever there age

22 Mar 2005

Wait, isn't this a swinging site? I thought the whole idea was that it's a more direct and easy way of meeting people for sex than wasting hours in pubs or clubs?

22 Mar 2005

No, I`m afraid not, not for the majority here anyway. Sorry. lol

Venusxxx

22 Mar 2005

Quote by supermonkeyboy
Wait, isn't this a swinging site? I thought the whole idea was that it's a more direct and easy way of meeting people for sex than wasting hours in pubs or clubs?

If you come on here seeing this as 'an easy shag site', you may have a long wait for those elusive meets. It involves as much preparation as a night 'wasting hours in a pub', if not more. Of course there are exceptions, and you may well get very lucky, I cannot say... rolleyes

Quote by rob_oxford
i think its more to do with location as single guys seems to d well in the north whatever there age

It's to do with manners, and general attitude, not your age or where you live.

22 Mar 2005

I'm just coming here cos I'm bored, if I get an easy shag out of it - hey, I'm not complaining.
I was just interested at having a look around. I promise not to post a "big cock 4u laddiieezzz" topic. Ok maybe just the one. biggrin

It seems like everyone here is over 30 and up north though...

22 Mar 2005

Quote by supermonkeyboy
Fancy a shag Sunbunny? :P
I'm 18, I guess I have no chance on here from what I've been reading...

I would have to agree with you there SMB. You have no chance on here from what I have been reading either.

I'm just coming here cos I'm bored, if I get an easy shag out of it - hey, I'm not complaining.

I'll tell you what I used to tell my kids when they said they were bored - only boring people get bored, interesting people can always find something to do.
lhk
Kat

22 Mar 2005

Another thing, what's with all the hostility on here? I didn't insult anyone...

22 Mar 2005

Quote by supermonkeyboy
Another thing, what's with all the hostility on here? I didn't insult anyone...

No ...but you are acting like a juvanile twat!

22 Mar 2005

Quote by da69ve
Another thing, what's with all the hostility on here? I didn't insult anyone...

No ...but you are acting like a juvanile twat!
And you're not?

22 Mar 2005

Erm, how?
The "fancy a shag" thing was obviously a joke, and I'd be worried if you didn't see that...

22 Mar 2005

Quote by northwest-cpl
Another thing, what's with all the hostility on here? I didn't insult anyone...

No ...but you are acting like a juvanile twat!
And you're not?
Well try reading his posts and you tell me he isn't?

22 Mar 2005

Quote by supermonkeyboy
Erm, how?
The "fancy a shag" thing was obviously a joke, and I'd be worried if you didn't see that...

But i thought you were doing it because you were bored!....that is what you said is it not?

22 Mar 2005

Quote by da69ve
Another thing, what's with all the hostility on here? I didn't insult anyone...

No ...but you are acting like a juvanile twat!
And you're not?
Well try reading his posts and you tell me he isn't?
I read his posts in this thread, whats the problem with them? Or am I missing something?

22 Mar 2005

Quote by da69ve
I've never had to go up to a woman outside a club and say" fancy a shag" I've normally pulled before then.......and it was the ladies that asked me!

Ahem
I think he's got it the wrong way round somehow with the immature twat thing...

22 Mar 2005

Quote by supermonkeyboy
I'm just coming here cos I'm bored, if I get an easy shag out of it - hey, I'm not complaining.

......i think this says it all!

22 Mar 2005

Quote by da69ve
I'm just coming here cos I'm bored, if I get an easy shag out of it - hey, I'm not complaining.

......i think this says it all!
You can't see that was a joke either? Man, I guess I must need to work on my comedy material.

22 Mar 2005

Quote by supermonkeyboy
I've never had to go up to a woman outside a club and say" fancy a shag" I've normally pulled before then.......and it was the ladies that asked me!

Ahem
I think he's got it the wrong way round somehow with the immature twat thing...
If there's one thing i do i don't lie......what i said there is truth.......

22 Mar 2005

Quote by da69ve
I'm just coming here cos I'm bored, if I get an easy shag out of it - hey, I'm not complaining.

......i think this says it all!
Is it coming on here because he's bored or looking for an easy shag that's the problem?

22 Mar 2005

Quote by marmalaid
I'm 24 and I've not had any problems. It's true - it's all about attitude.

what he said (apart fron the 24 bit cos I'm 30)
Lol
lol

what she said cos im 31 :lol:
What they said, but I'm 32.
What they said coz I'm 45............. OH FUCK, it doesn't work quite the same for me. redface

22 Mar 2005

Quote by da69ve
I've never had to go up to a woman outside a club and say" fancy a shag" I've normally pulled before then.......and it was the ladies that asked me!

Ahem
I think he's got it the wrong way round somehow with the immature twat thing...
If there's one thing i do i don't lie......what i said there is truth.......
If it's that easy why do you have to make 1379 posts on this site (no offense to anyone else who posts a lot), and post an advert?