Forum Virgin
Without me being intrusive, just wanting to get an idea of peoples first experiences! How did you get started? How did you find the first time?
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Sex God
Blimey, it was that long ago, I'll have to have a think, but I do know it was well before I joined this site...........
Orgasminator
Our first "full" couple swap was only last weekend, despite the time we've been around the scene. We've "dabbled" a bit before that, including our very first time being a single F from here years ago. How did we find it? Bloody fantastic! Both times 
We were lucky enough to have met a fab Lady and couple who we clicked with straight away and made us feel right at ease.
We're looking forward to more of the same now :twisted:
*Her*
We were lucky enough to have met a fab Lady and couple who we clicked with straight away and made us feel right at ease. We're looking forward to more of the same now :twisted:
*Her*
Orgasminator
Started..... i'm still in the locker room getting ready! :-)
joking aside.. i kinda jumped in the deep end.. not really knowing a lot about swinigng at the time, and very young and niave (sp). i was invited to a partt with in about a couple of months of joining and went along, and it all kinda went from there..
with regards 1-2-1 meets i'm never that great with, tend to do a lot of chatting and getting to know people, but never really get past that stage, but then for me. i enjoy the freindship side, and widening my circle of freinds, so its not all a hardship..
for me personally.. main bit of advice i could give anyone who is new to the scene, is to get a long to socail of some kind, be that one from this site or another, as its such a great way of getting a feel for the people who are around, and its in a totally neutral enviroment, so if you think "nope this is not me.." then you can just walk away. but if you do, hopefully you'll enjoy the evneing, put names to faces, and maybe if your lucky have more to of a night to remember.
joking aside.. i kinda jumped in the deep end.. not really knowing a lot about swinigng at the time, and very young and niave (sp). i was invited to a partt with in about a couple of months of joining and went along, and it all kinda went from there..
with regards 1-2-1 meets i'm never that great with, tend to do a lot of chatting and getting to know people, but never really get past that stage, but then for me. i enjoy the freindship side, and widening my circle of freinds, so its not all a hardship..
for me personally.. main bit of advice i could give anyone who is new to the scene, is to get a long to socail of some kind, be that one from this site or another, as its such a great way of getting a feel for the people who are around, and its in a totally neutral enviroment, so if you think "nope this is not me.." then you can just walk away. but if you do, hopefully you'll enjoy the evneing, put names to faces, and maybe if your lucky have more to of a night to remember.
Forum Virgin
I guess ill need to build more of a profile on here.
Regarding socials, are they arranged for certain age groups? (not that age matters ;) ) or do they usually compromise a mix?
I'm intrigued!
Regarding socials, are they arranged for certain age groups? (not that age matters ;) ) or do they usually compromise a mix?
I'm intrigued!
Forum Virgin
Quote by SinSi
I remember my first time......
Getting it up and into the right position
Then filling her up and plugging in
Leaving her alone for a while to build up a good head
Before letting her slide down the full length of the board
Ahh my first iron..... yes I remember it all too well :lol2:
Okay, point taken.
You'd need one hell of a sturdy ironing board though! :P
Sex God
short version as Ive typed this many times before.
Came back from pub with others, put on porn
Mrs Tweeky came done form bedroom asked why porn was on. We struck a deal! We will turn porn off if you show us porn instead. Deal agreed 
Showing porn moved quickly to demonstrating porn We had another 3 experiences after that and then joined here to find more action. Since then via SH not a sausage or a kebab :lol: Hilariously rusty now.
Came back from pub with others, put on porn
Mrs Tweeky came done form bedroom asked why porn was on. We struck a deal! We will turn porn off if you show us porn instead. Deal agreed Showing porn moved quickly to demonstrating porn We had another 3 experiences after that and then joined here to find more action. Since then via SH not a sausage or a kebab :lol: Hilariously rusty now. 
Sex God
First swinging experience or first shag?
As a swingle, then my first meet from this site was with a single male in a hotel. It was cool. He was a nice guy and we had great, no pressure, no-strings sex. My first group sex? That was before I joined this site. It was hot. :rascal: But very unexpected.
First shag? Ahhhh... back into the dawns of time :giggle:
As a swingle, then my first meet from this site was with a single male in a hotel. It was cool. He was a nice guy and we had great, no pressure, no-strings sex. My first group sex? That was before I joined this site. It was hot. :rascal: But very unexpected.
First shag? Ahhhh... back into the dawns of time :giggle:
Warming the Bed
Is it too late to add mine?
I'm the female half of alliteration, and 3 years ago, having been separated for too long, was very horny. I found this site, and put an ad on for a couple as I had always wanted to do the deed with another woman. I had loads of responses and settled on 2 couples, who I met within a week of each other.
The first was a fantastically orgasmic experience and well worth it. However, they were having an affair with each other, and when we were all in a post sex afterglow, she leaned over to the bedside table and saw a used condom in the bin (it was his house) and started freaking out that he had been seeing someone else. I thought she was joking at first, but she got more and more worked up and he had to usher me out, completely apologetically, while we could hear her smashing stuff upstairs.
The second couple I met at a hotel; he was about 20 years older than her, and she was a fantastically good looking redhaired girl, and we got on very well. So well in fact and we gave each other such a good time, that I think he felt excluded or something, because he didn't try to join in. He just watched in silence. At the time I thought maybe he was just into watching, but afterwards he said 'That was pretty boring actually', and I just got dressed like an automaton while she was apologising, and when dressed walked out without saying anything.:wary:
They did apologise by text and said he'd just felt left out, asking to meet again and next time would be better, but I was so peed off I never responded.
Oh well, it all adds to lifes rich tapestry and it didn't put me off for too long...
I'm the female half of alliteration, and 3 years ago, having been separated for too long, was very horny. I found this site, and put an ad on for a couple as I had always wanted to do the deed with another woman. I had loads of responses and settled on 2 couples, who I met within a week of each other.
The first was a fantastically orgasmic experience and well worth it. However, they were having an affair with each other, and when we were all in a post sex afterglow, she leaned over to the bedside table and saw a used condom in the bin (it was his house) and started freaking out that he had been seeing someone else. I thought she was joking at first, but she got more and more worked up and he had to usher me out, completely apologetically, while we could hear her smashing stuff upstairs.
The second couple I met at a hotel; he was about 20 years older than her, and she was a fantastically good looking redhaired girl, and we got on very well. So well in fact and we gave each other such a good time, that I think he felt excluded or something, because he didn't try to join in. He just watched in silence. At the time I thought maybe he was just into watching, but afterwards he said 'That was pretty boring actually', and I just got dressed like an automaton while she was apologising, and when dressed walked out without saying anything.:wary:
They did apologise by text and said he'd just felt left out, asking to meet again and next time would be better, but I was so peed off I never responded.
Oh well, it all adds to lifes rich tapestry and it didn't put me off for too long...
mine wel... i had to do all with a bang i lost my v through a threesum and new thats what i really enjoy male and female together yes im greedy and i just advertised through another site what i liked and people pointed me to in the right directions... i have done many different things and still throughly enjoy 3sums out of everything !
and i just advertised through another site what i liked and people pointed me to in the right directions... i have done many different things and still throughly enjoy 3sums out of everything ! 
Warming the Bed
My 1st meet was in 2007 and it was with a porn star called Pussy Malone and her real name was Kerry Mathews from Ashford. I was based in Dover with the Paras and bought a contact mag and sent them a letter and a pic(how much easier it is now). I got a reply amd remebr scrubbing the block floors on the night of our meet because we had a block inspection on the monday. They sent me pics of here with other guys as proof and they only sed she was in Porn wen they ask me to get a HIV test becuase she didnt like condoms and obvoisly in her trade she has to have certs. Im embarrsd to say i told her i couldnt get certs but being in the army we get tested reg and give blood which we did and they were happy with that. B4 anyone says u did it bareback etc it was my 1st meet and i was new to meets. Anyway i had a great time and got posted away soon after so never met them again but i heard she split from her hubby later and i dont know wat she does now. Wen we were in Northern Ireland i seen here in the Daily Sport one day and said to the lads "ive had her" of which i got the reply "in ur dreams" so i showed them the pics of our meet and the lads loved it!
Bizzarly if i was to meet a porn star now id be a lot more nervous as id be thinking wat if i dont do this etc but back then new and it didnt faze me for some reason.
If anyway says this guy is talking bull have a look at the pic of me and the girl on the floor on my pics with brown hair and then type in Pussy Malone in google and u will see its her!
Bizzarly if i was to meet a porn star now id be a lot more nervous as id be thinking wat if i dont do this etc but back then new and it didnt faze me for some reason.
If anyway says this guy is talking bull have a look at the pic of me and the girl on the floor on my pics with brown hair and then type in Pussy Malone in google and u will see its her!
Orgasminator
Quote by jaycoups7
since then ive had a cple of porn stars but nothing recently just wives off here
Yeah, doing yourself LOADS of favours here
*Her*
My first time was with a busty lady whose name escapes me now for privacy purposes.
I was friends with her and her husband and one day she brought up the subject of threesomes whilst we were all at a BBQ. I was newly single after splitting from the wife and wasn't really bothered about anything else other than having a few beers and sorting out my future.
Anyhow, after the BBQ and a few quiet discussions, I went back to their place and the rest of the evening was spent with me and the Husband of the couple taking it in turns to try and satisfy the rather insatiable and lusty wife of his.
It kind of went on from there with me going round to theirs whenever they called me and I was available.
I've had a few other couple meets and a few 1 to 1's but nothing regular.
The thing about swinging is that you cannot force it to happen. You cannot make it happen and to a certain degree, it's about being lucky enough to be in the right place at the right time with the right people.
When you do find someone who fits your own criteria and you fit theirs, it feels so incredibly and unbelievably natural that you'll know that the chemistry was right!
Happy days!!
Bell
I was friends with her and her husband and one day she brought up the subject of threesomes whilst we were all at a BBQ. I was newly single after splitting from the wife and wasn't really bothered about anything else other than having a few beers and sorting out my future.
Anyhow, after the BBQ and a few quiet discussions, I went back to their place and the rest of the evening was spent with me and the Husband of the couple taking it in turns to try and satisfy the rather insatiable and lusty wife of his.
It kind of went on from there with me going round to theirs whenever they called me and I was available.
I've had a few other couple meets and a few 1 to 1's but nothing regular.
The thing about swinging is that you cannot force it to happen. You cannot make it happen and to a certain degree, it's about being lucky enough to be in the right place at the right time with the right people.
When you do find someone who fits your own criteria and you fit theirs, it feels so incredibly and unbelievably natural that you'll know that the chemistry was right!
Happy days!!
Bell
