I have been on my own for over 5yrs and not had sex for 9yrs my wife passed away over 5yrs she was alive I developed ED due to some of my medication and although we got the tablets I never got the chance to use used it as an excuse not to have sex IAM not a W/E man.i can get hard but cannot stay hard hence the reason for the tablets but when I get hard I can get hard to 5 ". how I don't know with what I have to start with but a cockring does help.