Jags is right - We're still no clearer where you are from and where you are looking to meet. It's several weeks away yet and most people like spontaneity so I wouldn't expect many early replies. We put an add on to meet at a hotel with about a week's notice but didn't finalise meet until the day and had a great night. As many of the others say, good advice has been offered, chill out and what will be will be!!
All the couples we spoke to wanted to chat and get to know us to see if they fancied a meet. Meeting is not all about sex, sex, sex (unfortunately!!!) lol