ye i was going to take it easy and judge alot by her reactions and noises,i will ask about the safty word again,but i guess we will see when it happends
ok this is my first post so hello everyone by the way.
ok i havnt been with this women long but i knew her very well before anything happend between this last week she has been talking about how she really wants this fantasy,which i have never done anything like before
basicly she wants to be tied up in all diffrent ways,and she wants to be totaly helpless and that i can do anything to her i want for example she never wanted to do anal but now she says if she is tied up and helpless she cant stop me from doing anal,or even bringing all diffrent objects and inserting them in her and all other things done to her just basicly doing what i want to her
so i suggested maybe a safty word incase i went to far and hurt her but she dosnt want one because even if she shouts no in the heat of the moment she wants me to carry on.
so am just wondering if any of you have any advice on this sort of thing,she sats she trust me and i do want to do it i just dont want it to go horriably wrong,she is a far bit older than me but she says shes never done anything like this and really really wants to do it
thanks alot for replys to this