I don’t think you need the notes, men are a sucker for smiles, eye contact and women initiating contact. Trust in your own sexuality and it will happen, and what a turn on to succeed in that way.

So many guys are terrified of the stigma but given the right circumstances, prompts, attraction then the barriers will fall. Some will be paranoid about what they have done and others will jump in with both feet. Everyone is different but when it comes to sexuality it really should be a case of don’t knock it until you have tried it.

Come on admin, help Jonny out here!

Love using my glans to flick the clit hard and then penetrating with my legs outside the ladies with her squeezing her legs closed giving maximum pressure on the clit, gives wonderful pressure and sensations to both partners.

I I could find one with no baggage, no agenda, no personality flaws and who behaved like an everyday average person......

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You seem to assume touching someone else's cock automatically makes a guy bi but if that was the case straight guys would never have a threesome because it's pretty impossible to avoid some sort of contact between the men! 

I don't know if it's a disconnect men also have, but I personally will interact with another woman in the moment as part of a group session although I wouldn't ever consider myself bi as I don't ever think about women in a sexual context outside those situations.

It does make sense though that quite often men who discover later in life that they are bi learn the fact whilst swinging because historically we were always taught that you were either gay or straight and there was no grey area - thus swinging gives their first exposure to another man in a sexual setting. Nowadays young people of both genders have a much clearer idea of their sexual preferences from the very beginning because society no longer sees the world in the black and white way it used to so this pathway to discovery might be a thing of the past now!

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Given the right circumstances wouldnt any guy touch another guys cock? Say in a mmf threesome. A few of the bi guys I meet have said they initially tried bi while swinging with a female partner.  

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A seriously slow and sexy massage sounds like the right tonic for you, lol, then lots of rest, breakfast in bed courtesy of mr P, am I on the right track?

Sadly, MrP works away so no massage for me until Friday.

I knackered my knee playing footie many years ago and compensating for this led to back problems but copious amounts of volterol keep me right most of the time. 

A seriously slow and sexy massage sounds like the right tonic for you, lol, then lots of rest, breakfast in bed courtesy of mr P, am I on the right track?

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I don't know anything about midnight naked gardening, but there is an annual naked gardening day - it's in May if I remember correctly. I spend a lot of the summer naked anyway, so every day is naked gardening day here! 

As for container planting - yes, I have lots of pots and planters. I'm not so big on growing flowers, though, so mine are mostly filled with edibles. 

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Nice!

My kids bought me a sausage-making machine for Mother's Day but I haven't had the chance to try it out yet so I'm currently making a shopping list for a sausage marathon this weekend! 😈

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It’s fast, filling and tasty....bit like me really😉

Not sure fast is such a good selling point! 😜

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I hope so too but then again maybe not as it's still such a faff going out for even a simple coffee!

Sounds like a great idea. Hope you get some takers. I may have to start a similar group for hubbies to complain about how much their wives spend on lunch’s....three quid for a coffee.......

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During lock down..I've taken to baking ( Mr Bad) Cakes and so on, I've been making my own bread for the last year (very easy to do)..I've not bought a shop loaf in about a year now.. gorgeous homemade wholemeal bread.

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That sounds nice - I can't really be bothered with cooking when it's hot so I usually just end up throwing stuff into a pan and see what comes out! 

We all know the stupidity of the guys on here but it’s almost like a self fulfilling prophecy, the “ get your coat, you’ve pulled” school of seduction they know they don’t stand a chance but are driven to make contact anyway and be rejected. This of course hardens ladies and couples to the hundreds of such comments they receive and I suspect that, very often, nice guys get lost as well before they have a chance to exercise their scintillating intellect and razor sharp wit. Anyone fancy a shag by the way.....asking for a friend😇

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Being in the heart of the Galloway Forest Park, we have a lot of wild campers. Slightly concerning ATM as the post covid Rambo crew have slipped off the sofa and decided to give camping a go. The Scottish Countryside Act gives you the right to roam, a romantic notion when you see the chaos left behind. Trees cut and burned,  glass smashed into illegal fire pits, rubbish strewn everywhere, unburied crap, tents abandoned...the Glastonbury effect..... god how I yearn for lockdown😡😡😡lol!!

I get your frustration but is moaning about this your hobby or did you forget to include your hobby while on a wild campers tangent lol #vivalelockdown 😂

Being in the heart of the Galloway Forest Park, we have a lot of wild campers. Slightly concerning ATM as the post covid Rambo crew have slipped off the sofa and decided to give camping a go. The Scottish Countryside Act gives you the right to roam, a romantic notion when you see the chaos left behind. Trees cut and burned,  glass smashed into illegal fire pits, rubbish strewn everywhere, unburied crap, tents abandoned...the Glastonbury effect..... god how I yearn for lockdown😡😡😡lol!!

You are quite right Woohoo, it needs a particular mindset, hard work and possibly a natural affinity to become skilled in anything. One day I will find my my calling.......or perhaps not🙁

so many folk love these books, so erotic!

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I have been teaching karate for a long time,presently a 7th dan black belt in that but also teach mma and other fighting disciplines. 

Now that the supermarkets have made a virtue out of selling wonky veg, the greengrocery section is giving lovehoney a run for their money!😈😈

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I loved Nancy Friday books, fond memories of pleasurable reading

A voyage of discovery for me, lol!

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But do you find that the same cologne smells differently on different people.

My experience with ladies perfumes.... just to clarify, on ladies, not on me... is that they do have a different scent/appeal on different women. Not sure if that is sometimes body temperature other factors or just my subjective assessment because of the situation at the time.  Quite possibly memory and association from past experience.

Has anybody found the same?

We are in uncharted territory, not since the great flu pandemic of 1918-20 has the world been focused on a single contagion like this. Sadly it is not the efforts that we make in this country but the standard of intervention around the world which will shape our destiny. Overcrowding, non compliance, poverty, lunatic leaders (Brazil) Sadly folk here will become complacent and relax their guard. Every year we will have aggressive variants. Basic standards of protection will have to stay such as screens at checkouts but even now distancing is slipping, hand sanitising becoming haphazard. Ocado and Amazon are the new corner shops, how the hell are you going to pick up anyone shopping now.....cruising the evening isles with a bottle of wine and an apple prominently displayed in your trolley, making eye contact in the vegetable section, all fading fast, lol!

What is interesting in my area is the number of food outlets that have spent time rethinking their food offerings and take away so I suspect that it will be so easy to eat well at home. I think you will be spoiled for choice Hothouse although we both live in quite rural environments. I have absolutely no interest in going into a crowded pub, or any other crowded place for that matter. Eating and drinking at home, garden bars, having a few friends over, having one special friend over😉, dressing up, dressing down, having a naked meal, (serious fun let me tell you, lol!), be careful with that molten Brie!

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Whats everyone's favourite plant?
And best plant name.
For me I love a pineapple Lilly and the name award has to go to
Rubus cockburnianus

 I'm rubbish with favourites of anything - I also like the pineapple lily though and love globe artichokes, coneflowers, echinacea. The first thing I always plant in a new bed is agapanthus. I basically like anything tall, architectural and which still looks nice after the flowers are gone.

My dislikes are easier. I can't stand pelargoniums - they smell of death (which apparently is a genetic disposition as with the taste of coriander which I also hate!) and I find roses over-rated - the slightly rainshower and they give up their flowers and they hold no interest when the flowers aren't out so I really don't see the point in them!
My latest project has been to find tropical-looking plants which are fairly hardy for a section of my front garden. It's south facing, well sheltered and usually gets no frost (although this year has been quite exceptionally cold!). There was a garden on Beechgrove last year that had a real rainforest look to it, although it was fully hardy - that's what I'm aiming for. 

 I am also going for a fully hardy garden wherever possible. Big garden, four separate areas, loads of possibilities, now planting Beech, hazel, larch groups with broom laurel etc and will look at anything hardy. Want to get lots of magnolias, cherry, and mock orange etc. Replanting crab apple trees. The idea is a wilderness with a surprise around every corner so lots of height reguired and winding paths.....wish me luck, lol!

I have planted so much over the years but very haphazard in my approach. I love to plant in layers with climbers that intertwine with base plants so any hedging or shrubbery has honeysuckle or clematis added to give depth and character. 

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Admit it!  You're Charlie Dimmock ain't ya!  

I would pay Charlie Dimmock to stay clothed though😳