Good afternoon all,

Assistance please: I regularly meet up with a middle-aged lady and have enjoyed our general conversations over the past months. However, the one subject that has never arisen is sex and I would dearly love to know how to bring up the subject without causing any upset. She is a widow with no ties that I am aware of and I must confess that sitting opposite her during our meetings really does cause me some frustration. When we part I invariably have to retire to the bathroom to gain some satisfaction.

Many thanks in advance.

Hello Thomas,

Please enlighten me - what toys do you use to reach such heights?

*Sounds lovely...

Hello Suede,  just how does one gain an invitation to such parties?  Some lovely.  Stay well.

Rest assured, Rosiecat, your body looks sublime and I do regret not meeting your criteria!!!!

My main gripe: opening up a conversation with a fellow member and after a few minutes pleasantries finding the shutters come down with a resounding clank when the dreaded word 'sex' is brought up.  Are we, or are we not, members of an organisation solely formed to meet our sexual needs?  

Further to my previous enquiry I must stress I am very much a female admirer - sorry, guys!!!

Hi, 

Reading with great interest the wanking experiences of fellow members.  Is there such a thing as a 'wanking club' on SH at the moment?  Would be lovely to settle down on a coming winter's evening with fellow wankers and enjoy a couple of hours of total bliss. Finding members with a similar trait is not easy.  Be well all.

Hello Scotchlander, thanks for reply and sorry for delay replying.  The need for any 'sparring' was immediately removed when i arrived to find her son in attendance. He paid a surprise visit and his mother genuinely did not know - she told me later that had she known she would have postponed my calling. Am seeing her again next Monday.

Regards.

Hi, 

Some 20 years + ago I spent many a pleasant evening with a work colleague and his wife. Always vanilla but slowly, and very surely, I began to really take a liking to her and sexually fantasised about her. Altered working arrangements meant we drifted apart and lost contact. 

A fortnight ago I learned that my former work colleague had passed away and sent a note of condolence to his wife. In her reply she invited me around to her home for a coffee and 'catch-up'. I am going next week but never having been in this position before would appreciate advice on how to confer with her should the situation of our past friendship arise. I have no wish at all to put my foot in it or besmirch my past relationship with them but already the fantasies have returned. I have no idea at all whether or not my past feelings were noticed but would not like to betray myself if she is not interested at all.

Advice asap please.

Yorkshire Male :  I live not too far from the Adult Cinema and am very much a female admirer with no interest in male or bi company - did you find the majority of patrons at the cinema male or female?  Regards.

Any ladies out there who have tried pegging? 

Experienced it once and found it quite,quite delightful. Unfortunately I have never found a lady since who will participate - I am a male.