At my age, I never thought "new & unfamiliar" could be labels applied to me. Here I am, an American female living abroad, with Eurasian heritage. In the near future, I'll be visiting the UK. If I can tolerate the contrast to my California sun, I'd like to work in England. What can I say, I'm a sucker for chivalry and a sexy accent. It seems silly to be sent a friend request, before a friendly message. Let me know first why we should be friends.

I've always been pretty active in sports and physical activities. Being too competitive & rough has caused more than a few bruises, but that was with clothes on...or mostly on. In general, I've never strayed too far from society's idea of conventional sex. I figure it's high time I stop being afraid of labels such as "dirty" and "nasty." That said, I'm attracted to the mind of a person, intelligent & sexually creative. No matter how hot the guy, if there's nothing going on upstairs, he's not doing a damn thing for my downstairs. As far as alcohol... I can't imagine having much fun, if I have to get drunk enough to do it in the first place!

Enjoying company with laughs and conversation is the only way for me to feel comfortable. When everyone is having a good time then, oops where on earth did my clothes go? I'm just starting to find out what I like. I guess with a couple, another women would make me feel safer. However, while I find women more physically attractive than men, I'm not interested in playing with females at the moment. This may change at some point, but I don't want to falsely advertise myself.

Luckily, I've been encouraged by a wonderful friend. He doesn't partake himself but likes to watch and give instructions. I don't trust myself but I trust him, happily giving myself up to his guidance. He has only the worst intentions, for making sure not too much harm comes to his Dirty Lil Pet.