I'd like to meet a woman with a good sense of humour - I prefer the style of Graham Norton and Ian Hislop to Charlie Chaplin. So if you want a custard pie fight, you'd better be darn sexy with it - or make very tasty custard! I'm articulate and can hold a decent conversation.

I'd like to meet for more than just a one-off quickie or even a one-off slowie. I can travel or accommodate in a hotel and I'm not interested in sex outside or sex in cars or anywhere that isn't comfortable and warm.

Just so there's no ambiguity about this - I'm married and plan to stay that way. The physical part of our marriage isn't active - but there is more to marriage than that and I am not going to throw the rest of it away. But it would be good to meet someone who is perhaps in the same boat.

I'd like to meet a woman who is happy with herself and has high self-esteem as I would not be a solution to a mid-life crisis. Ideally I'm lookng for a lady who has already decided she would like to brighten her sex life.

If any of this strikes a chord with you let's try playing the rest of the tune. Why not send me a message but please, no one liners and if you haven't got a profile with an advert or a paragraph or two there's not much to go on is there?