Right - let's get this one out of the way right at the start so we know where we are. I'm living together with a long term partner...very long term...think decades in fact ! My home life is sound, very stable apart from there being no spark or excitement anymore, and I'm not looking for anybody's home circumstances to be put at risk, yours or mine. 

Me: A sapiophile who lives very much in the real world with no time for fools, game players or the dishonest. I'm looking for an exclusive, long term (well as long term as these things can be) special friendship with just one lady. Lots of messaging, emails, calls, and when our lives allow, meets for a drink, a walk, and who knows what else ! An outdoor type with a positive and curious outlook on life the universe and everything - and a liking for motorbikes and occasional afternoons / evenings in a pub relaxing, chatting and people watching. Always looking for the humourous view on life's mundane situations ! 

You: Understand the difference between dreaming and hopelessly fantasising about life's opportunities. Practical, understanding, optimistic, relaxed and thoughtful, flexible. Discretion and sincerity are important to you, as is the need to have something just for you. If you've sent a message containing: CUL8R, LOLZ, 2MORO to anyone over 15years old then we're not going to work... LOL 

We've both done this before and we know what we're getting into. It's special, it's exciting and it needs a very careful approach to ensure we don't blow our respective home lives. 

Sounds like fun..??? It could well be - drop me a line and well see what happens.