havent read a;ll the letters but please dont knock depression. Im trying each day to battle it because of a marriage break up and each day is gettinig worse for me. THere is no way out of the hole sometimes and usually no one to help u bcos everyone has there own life to deal with. I overdosed last Weds but failed to get there to kill the pain, so woke up next day to face another day.
FED UP with day to day life and DEPRESSION are 2 differents things believe me.
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BJME
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 69
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Can I thank you all for your replies. If I could personally I would but dont know where u all reside. I wasnt sure what answers to expect from the site but you guys/gals are all lovely and considerate in your replies. Life is so painful each day....but knowing theres peeps like u around somewhere will help calm some of the hurt. If any of your are ever down this way Ill gladly have a drink with you to say thanks for your help.
There is a little light flickering somewhere cos nxt Mon I have my first "date" in 12yrs. Very low key, chatting, bowling, nowt heavy, just company. How very daunting and scary at my age? Have to start somewhere......so chin up and life goes
on
many thanks to all
bj
There is a little light flickering somewhere cos nxt Mon I have my first "date" in 12yrs. Very low key, chatting, bowling, nowt heavy, just company. How very daunting and scary at my age? Have to start somewhere......so chin up and life goes
onmany thanks to all
bj
: Having read very similar posts about broken hearts etc. I am going thru the same scenario now bcos of my wife of 12 years etc. Apparently Ive become surplus to requirements along with a slight age difference. Im older in numbers only not actions. Most clubs etc in my area cater for kids etc, not people of my age. I have spent the last 12yrs enclosed in family life without keeping a circle of male friends or indeed female friends. Then why should I have done that when all I needed was at home. My problem is where and how does one start to rebuild a life, to socialise again. A pub is the wrong place to go but what is the right place. Because as someone else has said likfe is so f....g lonely at the moment.Dont know if this is the right place to post this quest but you all seem very nice helpful, considerate people.
Thanks BJME
thanks for the replies from those who have Im sure somewhere they make sense, just not yet. I am lost in how to start again. I have had someone around me for the past 30yrs. Never been on my own long enough to worry, but at 50 how does one start again, not that I want to jump into a relationship, I just need the company. Time is a a premium now.........every minute is a minute older.
ta bbj
ta bbj
I am going thru the same now down here in Bristol. Every day is torture knowing that someone u love dont love u anymore. To cap it all she is the most wonderful person ever in my life and Ive lost her even though we still live in same house its agony watching her get ready to go out to socialise with others. Its eating my insides away day by day. If anyone down here has time to give me to talk over a drink Id really appreciate the company. Cos at the moment its VERY LONELY IN LIFE. Sad I know but Im sure peeps understand that.
BJ
BJ
