Hothousesub just looked at your profile and location i can see your problem, but on the plus side i can see lots of places i would like to park my van 😋

Think the biggest problem is actually getting to meet like minded people on here 😳 trying to arrange time with people seems difficult if they do reply to you then the distance thing on top makes it a lot of time taken up meeting with someone cause the people you would like to meet are never local, my answer was to buy a camper van drive to some where scenic local to your meet and even have some where to meet mine is the white van third on the left lol

Yeah my ex wife used to be the same, treat sex like a chore she had to do and then usually when you think yes we doing it tonight right at the last minute she would just say no which is why i started playing away after years of frustration, then met a nymphomaniac 2 or 3 times a day any where and everywhere was just too much so my thoughts are 2 or 3 times a week is ok but if one or the other feeling horny then a little bit extra is good

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@tedditch has hit the nail on the head. I’ve been a member for a similar amount of time. The amount of times I’ve said “Hi” or “how is everyone” with no response is somewhat unbelievable given it’s a chat room. Added to that most rooms seems to be purely photo uploads fishing for compliments rather than interaction. To be fair I again agree @tedditch, I don’t particular have a high expectation as a single male, and I most certainly do not take it personally. So in summary if I pop into the chat room I now tend not to bother and just to watch/read what’s going on out of interest. Hopefully that at least gives another perspective of why, I at least, don’t bother chatting in the chat room. Good question BTW 👍

When i was on here few years ago the chat rooms used to be for chat now with all these pictures appearing it's just not the same the chat was where you picked up bits of information about what goes on where etc now it's hard to keep up any interest in a room

Women are lovely sexy and turn me on for lots of reasons and my thinking is i love my cock i like playing with it the feel of it so why wouldn't you like a different one ? Out dogging one summers evening decided to enter the bushes to see what goes on stumbled upon a guy with his cock out slowly wanking came straight to me putting his hand into my joggers touching my rapidly rising cock as he said what you looking for i just said a suck and he was on it and wow i was touching his warm cock and he gave me best blow job ever.

I stopped at that dogging spot lots of times over the next year or so and had many many wonderful blow jobs and got to play with and wank lot's of various size and shape cock then place got redeveloped so came on here and met with few men eventually tried to suck cock and its good to return the favour but i don't fancy men or look at them and think about cock and certainly wouldn't want to kiss one or have any kind of actual sex with them and certainly wouldn't consider any kind of relationship.

A lot of the men i met dogging were straight married men not at all gay but like cock to play with but i think it's just the sexual contact they want cause that's all i wanted and with your eyes closed you can't tell who's got your cock in there mouth and in my experience men understand how men work but still love women and everything about them so MFM is perfect

First of all i am single now for few years i always played around when i was married, i did try to convince my ex Mrs to be more open minded but wouldn't hear of it and would never do oral and sex is something dirty she would have to put up with every few months and usually at the last minute would just say no. So i found sexy times with other people and that went on for years, i know cause i tried to "get permission" she would be suspicious i was having an affair which i never did it was only ever 1 off's eventually we split and divorced. So the reason i am adding this to the debate is not all men are "cheating" just for the sake of it, some need to do it to make life bearable and feel wanted, not all but most of the people on here are just looking for like minded people for some sort of sexual contact who care's if they married it's them taking the risks, your just borrowing them for sex not looking for life partner there is dating sites for that