Took awhile to get back here and tell the story of when that line was first crossed. We had fantasised together about lots of scenarios involving other men, but apart from some role play, we hadn’t ever discussed or planned to do anything. Fi had married early in life and felt that she may have missed something along the way. Divorced and then remarried to me without exploring any experiences with other men probably simme...

We first got together when we were both in our late 30’s, just 6 months after our first marriages both ended in the same year. We just clicked and the physical part of our relationship was so hot from the very beginning. As couples do, we sometimes talked about past fantasies and things we had imagined. Fi often talked about her university days when she was maybe just 21 and sharing a small unit in Melbourne with an anoth...