We are happy to chat to new friends who are more at ease discussing subjects that non-swingers would probably avoid. Only willing to meet up in person WITH my partner when we are comfortable with the situation and get to know people first. I am with the person that ticks all the boxes and fills the need that brought me here in the first place, a long-term, partner, so I'm NOT looking for more than just chat and friendship. If I don't know you, and have only chatted to you occasionally I'm afraid we won't meet you. If you whisper/PM me in chat without asking, I will ignore you. I'm not shy so there is no need to whisper.

If we decide to accept the offer to meet, it will just be for coffee, nothing else. Only coffee is on offer.

We also won't exchange phone numbers unless there is a coffee meet planned, so please don't ask for mine or send me yours. They will be exchanged when there is a need for it. I also won't exchange any other contact details with you, so please feel free NOT to send me yours unless requested.

If you mail a wink, I will not reply.

We do have our joint profile on here too.