This post reminds me of when my partner first suggested doggin. I was also bit nervous but really got into it. I felt very safe with my partner so went along with the idea after we discussed our boundaries etc. I find that it's a great ego boost to see a guy/couple getting off on me playing with myself or shagging my fella.
Good for Mrs Srarling25 for giving it a go. What is it they say: "the more confident partner gets them into it, but the more hesitant keeps them there"
Yeah, I know what you are saying about not wanting to 'befriend' your doggers and I too would prefer not to meet them over the frozen chickens at Asda. But you can build up trust whilst remaining your anonimity. Perhaps the trust is just a gut feeling bout someone? Plus, seems no one we've met are really local to us as the Forest draws from so many different areas.
The excitement is that they know nothing about us really, but bet they wonder.... : - ))
We dont find seeing the same faces takes the shine off as we dont see them on a weekly basis. We can 'mix and match' if u like and invite who we choose. Keeps the variety for us! Also we have had a few few chance meets away from the known places and they've been great too. Seeing the same creepy guys at known places is definitely off putting - 'creepy being guys who drive round and round the carpark, up to every car to see who's in them. Get out and walk u lazy gits!
Maybe a reference page is needed, for the doggers entries ; - ) Im sure Rose and Stag have been a source of pleasure. I know we have and we dont put out just out on a show. Good for u Rose/Stag!
Just want to say thanks to the guys/couples who PM'd us and came along. Great fun and hope to get together with some of you again. Maybe Friday eve? PM us if interested. Hope it stops fecking raining for at least 10 mins. Although as some of you saw, it takes Lee bit longer than that ; - )
I have a finer point. I dont swing i.e have sex oral or inter. with other guys or girls. My partner is more than happy with that, he doesnt want to share (greedy boy.) We are both exhibitionist and voyeurs. We keep our limits by arranging meets and making it clear at the outset so as not to waste anyones time. Thus, we dont have to worry about what the doggers expect if we meet randomly and thus dont have to compromise anything.
That said we have met some nice guys whom we have grown to trust and im happy to give them a hand with their pleasure. Am I swinging? What defines that exactly?
Lorna (30) and I (39) are going into the New Forest tomorrow and would like to put on a show for another couple or a single male.
NOTE: We are exhibitionists and Voyeurs ONLY hence watching only.
If you're interested e-mail us by 6:30 tomorrow and and we'll mail you location etc.
Lorna and Lee
We're a couple who go doggin a bit in this area. If you wanna met with a couple some when, drop us a line. We don't swap just love bein watched and watching or both together! Can also give you some pointers for places near(ish) you.
xx
Read this post with great interest! Me and my other half love a good bit of dogging. That is 'playing' with others watching. Surely action with anyone else outside our relationship is swingin? And to be honest the assumption that they are one and the same gets on my nerves! Call us boring but we wanna get it on with each other, no one else. Just wish that the couples who respond to ads on the 'Dogging' part of this site would get the difference.
Aside from that I have heard from someone who works with Hants Police that the big layby near Winchester is getting a lot of complaints due to idiots beeping horns, execessive flashing of lights, generally attracting a lot of attention and pissing people off. So could receive a bit of attention from the boys in blue soon.