***UPDATE***

My mail has recently been turned off to recieve mail from single men. I assume my partner thinks he's clever.

I assure you he will regret that. Especially now I've turned it back on.

We are a happily married couple and we have been together for 14 years married for 3.

We are not exactly looking to spice it up because we get pretty kinky anyway but I think adding other into the mix will make him want to please me even more.

And he works away from home most of the time and I'm struggling to find ways to occupy myself while I can't use him.

he is not exactly happy about me finding my own forms of pleasure and entertainment without him being there but he knows his place so I'm doing it anyway.