We've not been active here.

That's partly because we're a little nervous and wary, partly because we were initially only looking for a female for H and partly because, despite everyone's advice to set clear boundaries we're not sure where they are until we hit them (just being honest)

That said, we still would like a female for H but have moved on to fancying a soft swap and will attend a party or club over the next few weeks.

We're open and honest and we like to think we're fun, interesting, sociable and a bit naughty(but we would wouldn't we:)).

Gentlemen - whilst we've said we're seeking females and/or couples, we're not averse to sensible conversations with guys and who knows but any more would be after a fairly lengthy period of the right kind of conversation and sorry this lacks even the smallest amount of clarity - we dont really know how to define, "Sensible" or, "Right kind"