First off, can you tell us how to reply to people? Do we have to pay? We've replied once but can't seem to reply again?

Interested in meeting exciting new people.

It all started when my wife found some female underwear hidden in the garage. When I got home Helen quizzed about it. At first I denied all knowledge. Then made up a story about buying a job lot of stuff to sell at a car boot. She wasn't buying it! In the end I told her they were mine. I brought them for myself. I told her I got a thrill out of dressing in them. Fair to say she was a tad shocked.

Almost over night our relationship us shifted. Frankly I was relieved the truth was out but she was confused and I understood why. What woman wouldn't be. Over the next few months she became more vocal and I became less so. The dynamic between us had shifted.

Naturally our sex life suffered. It was not brill before, but now became practically non existent.

My sex life revolved around me dressing up and playing with myself. So frustrated I mentioned swinging in the hope this would reignite our sex life. She said little, but to my suprise looked into it and found a UK website. We discussed placing an advert, about a week later shed worded an advert. Almost immediately we received several replies from men and couples. The first couple weeks met were very much like ourselves not hardened swingers but newbies. We felt comfortable with them. Met them socially at first and then invited them to our home. Over the next 18 months we met two more couples and one guy. He advertised himself as a bisexual Dom. He was good looking, fit and intelligent and amazingly normal. We chatted and the topic of how we got into swinging came up. So I told him about the cross dressing. He said it would surprise me the number of men he'd come across who were cross-dressers. We talked about it and he asked had I thought about sissfication. I knew what he meant. I pretended I hadn't. He said he'd be happy to cuckold me and if we both choose to meet him, he wouldn't mention it to my wife it would be between us. Two weeks later I sat across from him while he spanked my wife over his knee in a hotel on the A1, before having sex with her twice. It was the most erotic thing I'd ever witnessed. I still jack off to the memory of that Evening.